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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi

I seem to be in a catch 22 with getting verified. No one wants to meet someone that is not verified, but i cannot get verified unless i meet someone....

Is there anything wrong with my profile?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Go to the intro section and read the advice there.

Go to a club or social, someone will verify you there.

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By *angria_girlukWoman
over a year ago

LUTON

Go to socials/clubs meet people there who will verify you.

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

I personally have no problem with meeting unverified guys, long as they have bothered to get fab veried as human (aka photo veried) and their profile isnt over a year old with a pic as old as the account and more grainy then a pic took a million miles away before the days of digital cameras. The only reason I wouldn't meet a a unverified guy is because I have no interest in meeting them at all (normally as profile is simply a dick)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's some catch that Catch 22...

But you're right

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders


"I personally have no problem with meeting unverified guys, long as they have bothered to get fab veried as human (aka photo veried) and their profile isnt over a year old with a pic as old as the account and more grainy then a pic took a million miles away before the days of digital cameras. The only reason I wouldn't meet a a unverified guy is because I have no interest in meeting them at all (normally as profile is simply a dick)"
..why do people put old/grainy/fazey pics from a massive distance away....ahhh because they are wasters lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

after reading your profile it seams you are having plenty of response on the other site your on so why bother with fab or getting verified also are any of those people on fab if so they can verify you

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"after reading your profile it seams you are having plenty of response on the other site your on so why bother with fab or getting verified also are any of those people on fab if so they can verify you"

Yeah, that or, I don't trust veris that aren't official ones, you could have made it up entirely.

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By *aughty adam and eveCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Offer to give out your phone number... so couples can speak to you to prove your gen .. or just get a girlfriend who's in to it (lots are) couples get more action then singles

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"after reading your profile it seams you are having plenty of response on the other site your on so why bother with fab or getting verified also are any of those people on fab if so they can verify you"

Unfortunately they are not on fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Offer to give out your phone number... so couples can speak to you to prove your gen .. or just get a girlfriend who's in to it (lots are) couples get more action then singles "

Very true, couples to get more action. Thanks for the advice

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

To be fair if it was a catch 22 no one would have a verification. We all got our first somewhere. I think (like me) lots of people are not too bothered by verifications. I don't think they are that reliable anyway because people's views are a bit subjective and has anyone ever read a negative verification? I think what's far more important to getting a meet is that people are attracted to you, the conversation is good and most importantly they feel that they will be safe and treated with respect.

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

It’s an excellent book and George Clooney does a decent job with it

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

It do make you wonder if you can't verify in till you've been verified. How did it all begin??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

I seem to be in a catch 22 with getting verified. No one wants to meet someone that is not verified, but i cannot get verified unless i meet someone....

Is there anything wrong with my profile?"

Go to a club, simples!

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"It do make you wonder if you can't verify in till you've been verified. How did it all begin??"

There is a thread with the answer from recent hahahaha

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"after reading your profile it seams you are having plenty of response on the other site your on so why bother with fab or getting verified also are any of those people on fab if so they can verify you"

Personally they all follow a pattern...yes sadly I know a little about this kinda thing (does come in handy with so called couple accounts) and I would bet they are written by the one person

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By *zzy69Woman
over a year ago

The Lake District

Agree get yourself to a club or social and you will easily get verified- often works well to ask the hosts as they will be well known and are unlikely to leave the site leaving you back where you started.

With regards to your profile - you do repeat yourself a bit so might be worth tidying up the text.

I would recommend Townhouse On Merseyside as they don’t charge single men exorbitant fees

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Agree get yourself to a club or social and you will easily get verified- often works well to ask the hosts as they will be well known and are unlikely to leave the site leaving you back where you started.

With regards to your profile - you do repeat yourself a bit so might be worth tidying up the text.

I would recommend Townhouse On Merseyside as they don’t charge single men exorbitant fees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's some catch that Catch 22..."

It's the best there is...

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"That's some catch that Catch 22...

It's the best there is...

"

You have to be mad to join this site, but if you know that then you’re not mad

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham


"That's some catch that Catch 22...

It's the best there is...

You have to be mad to join this site, but if you know that then you’re not mad "

Honestly was a bit disappointed with it. Cloony isn’t scary or funny. All the flying bits were much better in Memphis Belle.

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