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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi. Just looking for ideas. I've moved away to Oxford and don't have any local friends. Female friends. I dont have kids so can't make 'Mummy Friends'. I work from home so cant make friends at work either. I do go to the gym but alot of the other ladies there are older than me. Or are Mums at the gym while their kids are at school. I'm not looking for a sexual relationship with a woman. Just a friend who I can go shopping with. Day drinking. Spa Days etc. Any ideas how I can make friends? Sad I know. Lol. C Xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

WI? Voluntary work? Other social group or activity?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Not sad at all OP, I've been in a similar position when I moved to Cornwall. If you have FB, check ot the local pages for events and maybe go to a few of them. You could also join an excercise class or gym. It worked for me, I've found a couple of nice female friends this way. Good luck. X

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

And ditto. Not sad. Moving is hard!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"WI? Voluntary work? Other social group or activity? "

I've applied for a voluntary job. Got an interview next month. So that's a step. C Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not sad at all OP, I've been in a similar position when I moved to Cornwall. If you have FB, check ot the local pages for events and maybe go to a few of them. You could also join an excercise class or gym. It worked for me, I've found a couple of nice female friends this way. Good luck. X"

I do go to the gym. Maybe I should be a bit more friendly. Lol.

I will look at FB and do some digging. Thank you

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Hi. Just looking for ideas. I've moved away to Oxford and don't have any local friends. Female friends. I dont have kids so can't make 'Mummy Friends'. I work from home so cant make friends at work either. I do go to the gym but alot of the other ladies there are older than me. Or are Mums at the gym while their kids are at school. I'm not looking for a sexual relationship with a woman. Just a friend who I can go shopping with. Day drinking. Spa Days etc. Any ideas how I can make friends? Sad I know. Lol. C Xx"
. If you are looking to make friends and go out for drink , meal , cinema or any other type of social events it maybe worth doing a google search for meet up they are a National group and have events for all parts of the UK.I have managed to find to local groups to myself so you never know.Best of luck

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Not sad at all OP, I've been in a similar position when I moved to Cornwall. If you have FB, check ot the local pages for events and maybe go to a few of them. You could also join an excercise class or gym. It worked for me, I've found a couple of nice female friends this way. Good luck. X

I do go to the gym. Maybe I should be a bit more friendly. Lol.

I will look at FB and do some digging. Thank you "

Very welcome to pm and chat if you need to xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sad at all, I would love some female friends to have girly days with.

Shame you are so far away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are sure you’ll find company, you are a lovely lady and always nice to be around xxx

Maybe take up a new vanilla hobby?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are sure you’ll find company, you are a lovely lady and always nice to be around xxx

Maybe take up a new vanilla hobby? "

Thanks guys

Thinking of a new hobby. I'm also hoping to start a college course in September so that will give me a wider circle too. C Xx

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"We are sure you’ll find company, you are a lovely lady and always nice to be around xxx

Maybe take up a new vanilla hobby?

Thanks guys

Thinking of a new hobby. I'm also hoping to start a college course in September so that will give me a wider circle too. C Xx"

Me moved from Birmingham to Weston and found it pretty hard to makes new friends,but gradually started seeing the same ppl and one or two have become friends

The wife also enrolled in college and has completed a few courses (nails&hair) so now she's meeting ppl through doing that and it keeps here busy.shes a lot happier now,but would like a few closer friends

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

Try the Meetup app...it has loads of local social groups and events thar you can join and attend and has a whole host of different folk looking for friendships xx

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Try the Meetup app...it has loads of local social groups and events thar you can join and attend and has a whole host of different folk looking for friendships xx"

Yes, I'm on that and it's really good. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try the Meetup app...it has loads of local social groups and events thar you can join and attend and has a whole host of different folk looking for friendships xx

Yes, I'm on that and it's really good. X"

I've signed up for it and keep looking at events. Hoping one will spark my interest. C Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bumble friends is good?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bumble friends is good?

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Isnt that a dating app? I dont want to join it and have to explain 800 million times I'm not looking for a boyfriend. Lol. C Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I understand that one completely im a full time single dad so meeting up with new people is hard work not long been back in Berkshire and it's difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d also love to have more female friends xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bumble friends is good?

Isnt that a dating app? I dont want to join it and have to explain 800 million times I'm not looking for a boyfriend. Lol. C Xx"

No they also have a friends only bit

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