FabSwingers.com forum: Getting looked at......

By *heHookyMonster OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Always nice to get a view, especially from the type of person/couple you'd be interested in, but over the last couple of months I've had numerous viewings from a couple who are miles and miles away AND who aren't looking for single males. After around a dozen views I messaged to say hi, but (understandably) got no response, but continue to get multiple views from them. Is this unusual? Anyone had similar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just like to look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it's a common occurrence.

Doesn't make sense to me personally, I can't see the gain for them to keep re-looking at people they have already looked at.

My imagination runs riot - do they think I'll suddenly be bi, or into BDSM? What are they hoping might have changed?

Drifting back to reality, I just block them, they can get whatever their kick is on someone else's photos.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had same although there not miles and miles. They keep looking at profile then friend invite me then delete friend invite then send another one a day or so later. I message them then they did briefly reply but now silence again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive had same although there not miles and miles. They keep looking at profile then friend invite me then delete friend invite then send another one a day or so later. I message them then they did briefly reply but now silence again"
I've nosed at you. I'm guilty of looking but not the rest of those things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't check that much but if I find people looking often at profile but not messaging, I block them because they are just photo pervers possibly having a wank x

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

"I don't check that much but if I find people looking often at profile but not messaging, I block them because they are just photo pervers possibly having a wank x "

I can understand what you say albeit in theory, but look at what you say in another perspective

If your profile was Public, unlike now, but I saw parts that meant I didn't match you, I'd walk away nor bother you with any message. I know that goes against what some Single Males would do but it doesn't brand me as a guy ogling over your pics.

Conversely, if anyone has viewed me, and I see they don't match, I send a quick message where possible, to thank them, but admit to the fact we don't match.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We get the same people looking and fabbing our pictures often. We just leave them to it, if they wanted more they'd contact us. The way we look at it is if we put a profile and pictures up on a site like this people will look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We get the same people looking and fabbing our pictures often. We just leave them to it, if they wanted more they'd contact us. The way we look at it is if we put a profile and pictures up on a site like this people will look. "

I look at, and fab, a lot of profiles I'd never message because the profile makes it clear I'm not what they're looking for. I enjoy looking at what they choose to show publicly, and show them my appreciation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to us with 1 or 2 couples where we don't seem to meet a single one of their criteria strange one couple in particular been looking at us for months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone looks at us regularly we would message them, if they don’t reply, we block & move on, problem solved...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it possible that they could know you? I noticed an account doing this a lot and it turned out to be my colleagues husband.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Yep I get the same .,. The same males and couples I message but they don’t reply

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By *ippa 63TV/TS
over a year ago

St Helens

I must admit that at times i dont understand the people on here. I do get people viewing my profile numerous times and when i respond there ignored. I recently had this couple that sent me a wink and messaged me said that they wanted to meet up. I have contacted them back with a couple of dates and then they disappear for a few days then come back and start again after the dates. If i knew they couldn't make it or had a reason that would be fine. Very frustrating

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By *andVCouple
over a year ago

Doncaster

We do this a lot when were nosing on forums, it shows in purple who you've viewed before and often don't remember viewing the person's profile so click on it to see who it is and because we both nose at different times can easily check out the same profiles, also same with fabbing pics.

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By *heHookyMonster OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Is it possible that they could know you? I noticed an account doing this a lot and it turned out to be my colleagues husband. "

Not from my point of view. They're on the south coast and I'm in the Midlands. Maybe they'll say hi one of these days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't check that much but if I find people looking often at profile but not messaging, I block them because they are just photo pervers possibly having a wank x "

I'm definitely not wanting over anyones pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Short Term Memory Loss perhaps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's normal. Just because someone likes the look of someone's profile, doesn't mean they want to meet or chat. They just like the profile. If they really wanted to communicate past the looking phase, they'd make contact

Holly

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Why the hell do they look numerous times during the day ... every bloody day !! No wonder I have a huge block list !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped looking at Views OP. Bit of a pointless feature on FAB as most either look incognito or just nosey. Its not that many are interested. If that's how they show interest then it's pure laziness not to spend 1 minute messaging and giving a genuine display. You'd then know.

Some need to be reassured and it has its place for that I guess. Ive been on here 5 yrs and only just found out how to use the hot pics feature and was shown it by a friend who's asked what I thought of a particular pic.

Like may features you only need those that are of use to the way you use fab, so it needs to cater for a wide usage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They might just like what they see and are having a nosey to see if you've uploaded anymore pictures. If it's bugging you then you could always block them. I'm guilty of looking at profiles more than once!

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By *heHookyMonster OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

"They might just like what they see and are having a nosey to see if you've uploaded anymore pictures. If it's bugging you then you could always block them. I'm guilty of looking at profiles more than once! "

I imagine yours get looked at a lot! They're gorgeous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always nice to get a view, especially from the type of person/couple you'd be interested in, but over the last couple of months I've had numerous viewings from a couple who are miles and miles away AND who aren't looking for single males. After around a dozen views I messaged to say hi, but (understandably) got no response, but continue to get multiple views from them. Is this unusual? Anyone had similar? "

It may also be the case that they would quite like to meet with someone you've exchanged veris with, so are looking at your profile to gauge what their preferred type of meet is like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly!!

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By *nknownAdventureCouple
over a year ago

St Albans

As a couple we may look a couple of times but are guity of a quick look again if sending an email. Getting used to being thought of us perving lol

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By *nknownAdventureCouple
over a year ago

St Albans

We take it as a compliment ... Little pleasures especially as the good ones are private lol

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