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By *umo_Caldo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Seen a phrase on here recently that seems to be becoming more and more relevant on fab "not here to fuck the whole site", we appreciate what Fab is but nothing puts us off more than an instant friend request and a message asking if we're free tonight... Get to know us! I'm sure most people on here would prefer a connection to someone before playtime starts but what is it with people assuming that y because we're on fab we must want to play with them! Any advice or other experiences?

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Chill...

If Fab is getting frustrating, maybe you need a break.

You need to be able to ignore the random friend requests and laugh at the crap messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chill...

If Fab is getting frustrating, maybe you need a break.

You need to be able to ignore the random friend requests and laugh at the crap messages."

Wise words of wisdom, from the lovely lady...

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

As a single woman I get several ‘you free now?’ messages a day. I generally respond that I am indeed free all day, then block them. It’s a certain kind of fab man - thinks they’re owed a shag cos they’re here. Ignore and block because you’ll get a lot of similar messages.

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By *umo_Caldo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Chill...

If Fab is getting frustrating, maybe you need a break.

You need to be able to ignore the random friend requests and laugh at the crap messages."

We love fab and maybe that's the problem, we're happy to chat but can't tell if we expect to much of the social aspect or if other expect too much of the sexual

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By *ampshire555Man
over a year ago

Basingstoke

So are you free now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a problem over receiving “are you free now?” Etc messages

It’s a swinging site for swinging, don’t get why anyone gets offended by these type of messages unless they are rude or gross. Some people are looking to play and have fun, no harm in politely asking, doesn’t mean they have a sense of entitlement. People advertise on here and then moan about the responses x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't mind the are we free now messages now and again we are looking for quick meet hate the out of blue friend requests though especially when they have no pictures in profile how stupid do they think we are

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire


"Seen a phrase on here recently that seems to be becoming more and more relevant on fab "not here to fuck the whole site", we appreciate what Fab is but nothing puts us off more than an instant friend request and a message asking if we're free tonight... Get to know us! I'm sure most people on here would prefer a connection to someone before playtime starts but what is it with people assuming that y because we're on fab we must want to play with them! Any advice or other experiences? "

We are the same....those messages are an instant turn off to us. I often wonder if we are into the social side as much as the playing side and maybe it's not quite right for us....the last few weeks, I haven't wanted to play at all really and like you say, it seems to assumed you want to all the time, at the drop of a hat..... frustrating place as "the planets have to align" for all concerned

We'll keep on keeping on for now & see how we feel...good luck

K (fem)

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Different people have different expectations. Ignore, if persistent block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was browsing google the other day and found a survey about the ratio of men to women on here

60% men

40% women

the survey was done this year

I am sure men get the same kind of message from us women.

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

When we get those messages now Mr will burst into the room ‘Honey, stop what you’re doing - we’ve got a job! There’s a man waiting for his fantasy to be fulfilled...to the shag mobile!!!!’

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"When we get those messages now Mr will burst into the room ‘Honey, stop what you’re doing - we’ve got a job! There’s a man waiting for his fantasy to be fulfilled...to the shag mobile!!!!’ "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had a problem over receiving “are you free now?” Etc messages

It’s a swinging site for swinging, don’t get why anyone gets offended by these type of messages unless they are rude or gross. Some people are looking to play and have fun, no harm in politely asking, doesn’t mean they have a sense of entitlement. People advertise on here and then moan about the responses x"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I dislike the demanding messages, but they're mostly "are you serious?!" until they write back after I've deleted. Then I get annoyed.

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