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Is there something wrong with me??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any Males out there ever ask yourself

Why do I love watching my wife getting fucked?

Or

Why do I love sharing my wife??

Is there something wrong with me??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you enjoy seeing her get pleasured, and you get an outside perspective of what it probably looks like when you’re with her?

Both good reasons haha

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London


"Any Males out there ever ask yourself

Why do I love watching my wife getting fucked?

Or

Why do I love sharing my wife??

Is there something wrong with me?? "

There is nothing wrong with you my hubby loves watching me get fucked. The rush of love we feel for each other is out of this world. And I love it when he comes and whispers in my ear or kisses me.

Just enjoy it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe you enjoy seeing her get pleasured, and you get an outside perspective of what it probably looks like when you’re with her?

Both good reasons haha"

That’s exactly it! I absoloutley love to watch her enjoy herself......

But sometimes I wonder am I weird or what? Hahaha

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By *heEpicureanMan
over a year ago

Warminster

If you’re both enjoying it and doing it within the rules you set yourselves then nothing is wrong with it at all.

Embrace the inner naughtiness

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any Males out there ever ask yourself

Why do I love watching my wife getting fucked?

Or

Why do I love sharing my wife??

Is there something wrong with me??

There is nothing wrong with you my hubby loves watching me get fucked. The rush of love we feel for each other is out of this world. And I love it when he comes and whispers in my ear or kisses me.

Just enjoy it x"

Yeah I can’t actually explain the amount of Love/lust/romance/trust etc swinging has brought our relationship x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe you enjoy seeing her get pleasured, and you get an outside perspective of what it probably looks like when you’re with her?

Both good reasons haha

That’s exactly it! I absoloutley love to watch her enjoy herself......

But sometimes I wonder am I weird or what? Hahaha"

Definitely not weird and I bet the sex you have afterwards is amazing as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe you enjoy seeing her get pleasured, and you get an outside perspective of what it probably looks like when you’re with her?

Both good reasons haha

That’s exactly it! I absoloutley love to watch her enjoy herself......

But sometimes I wonder am I weird or what? Hahaha

Definitely not weird and I bet the sex you have afterwards is amazing as well "

BY FAR THE BEST BIT EVERYTIME X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP: what you like is in some way what true "swinging" is all about in that its about sharing and those that come into this lifestyle know and understand that

My ex and I both being bi, enjoyed it immensely - however the trick is to enjoy and not be jealous if another man comes along and makes your wife look to be enjoying the sex

I think that makes sense ??

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

If I love someone, why would I not enjoy watching them having a wonderful time with someone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I love someone, why would I not enjoy watching them having a wonderful time with someone else?

"

spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has definitely crossed my mind especially first couple times but love seeing her enjoy herself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought that there was something wrong with me for a long time....

I mean... it's not "normal" to want to see the love of your life naked and having sex with other people is it??

But then I realised, there's not much "normal" about me lol

I enjoy her having the freedom to be honest and express when she fancies others and what she would like to do with them. We both enjoy it when we find one (or more) of these people willing to share in this with us.

We both get pleasure together from this.... we.... both... together...

If this isn't "normal"? Then stuff normal

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I would love to build a friends with benefits situation with somebody who enjoys this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any Males out there ever ask yourself

Why do I love watching my wife getting fucked?

Or

Why do I love sharing my wife??

Is there something wrong with me?? "

In my opinion it's physiology. You love your wife and connected with her, she desire pleasure from other man, and when see her getting pleasure you too feel it. Love is all about caring and give what you love wants, and see any weirdnesses.

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

I'm not a man so excuse me for butting in...but I love this post as I have often questioned myself for being wierd in enjoying seeing my OH with another lady.... x

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By *yspicysalsaCouple
over a year ago

London

I love seeing my wife enjoying herself and being complemented.

It’s it wrong to enjoy sharing pics for people to comment on how gorgeous she is?

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

You will find most men love themselves more than their wives so will enjoy seeing her being fucked by other men. This is due to men thinking with their dicks and (most) women think with their hearts. So most women will feel obliged to shag other men to appease their OH sexual desires.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"You will find most men love themselves more than their wives so will enjoy seeing her being fucked by other men. This is due to men thinking with their dicks and (most) women think with their hearts. So most women will feel obliged to shag other men to appease their OH sexual desires. "

Wft?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You will find most men love themselves more than their wives so will enjoy seeing her being fucked by other men. This is due to men thinking with their dicks and (most) women think with their hearts. So most women will feel obliged to shag other men to appease their OH sexual desires. "

You will find most men aren’t like this at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we have sex with another man I always tell her that I love her as we are doing it.. I agee so much that it brings you closer and I always have an immense feeling of love and pride in this confident woman taking what she wants, but I would add, it’s certainly a pleasure pain feeling... it hurts in some moments.. it could be the smallest thing such as her rubbing his leg and showing some affection that hurts even though he’s just been inside her..it’s strange and I’m sure I personally will never truly understand it but then, do I need to? I don’t think so. I’m happy living and enjoying the moment after 20 years I love her more than ever.. OP.. nothing weird about you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You will find most men love themselves more than their wives so will enjoy seeing her being fucked by other men. This is due to men thinking with their dicks and (most) women think with their hearts. So most women will feel obliged to shag other men to appease their OH sexual desires.

Wft? "

You'll find its the total opposite. The immense pleasure comes from seeing another man bring your wife to the height of pleasure. In a cuckold situation, it's more about succumbing to an alpha male who can apparently please the wife when you are unable to .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any Males out there ever ask yourself

Why do I love watching my wife getting fucked?

Or

Why do I love sharing my wife??

Is there something wrong with me?? "

Nope nothing wrong my Mr says its like watching your favourite porn star that happens to be your wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we have sex with another man I always tell her that I love her as we are doing it.. I agee so much that it brings you closer and I always have an immense feeling of love and pride in this confident woman taking what she wants, but I would add, it’s certainly a pleasure pain feeling... it hurts in some moments.. it could be the smallest thing such as her rubbing his leg and showing some affection that hurts even though he’s just been inside her..it’s strange and I’m sure I personally will never truly understand it but then, do I need to? I don’t think so. I’m happy living and enjoying the moment after 20 years I love her more than ever.. OP.. nothing weird about you.. "

I get a little this way when I see him with a women... But just a fleeting second and I'm back to being happy he is enjoying himself. And he has been this way too with only one guy we played with.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.


"You will find most men love themselves more than their wives so will enjoy seeing her being fucked by other men. This is due to men thinking with their dicks and (most) women think with their hearts. So most women will feel obliged to shag other men to appease their OH sexual desires. "

If I felt a woman came to me out of a sense of "obligation" to her husband, I would not be interested in playing with either of them.

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By *ickeyandmouseCouple
over a year ago

nr Alicante


"When we have sex with another man I always tell her that I love her as we are doing it.. I agee so much that it brings you closer and I always have an immense feeling of love and pride in this confident woman taking what she wants, but I would add, it’s certainly a pleasure pain feeling... it hurts in some moments.. it could be the smallest thing such as her rubbing his leg and showing some affection that hurts even though he’s just been inside her..it’s strange and I’m sure I personally will never truly understand it but then, do I need to? I don’t think so. I’m happy living and enjoying the moment after 20 years I love her more than ever.. OP.. nothing weird about you.. "

The lines you say about stroking of a leg or showing a little affection is so true. I ( male) , can be fucking the arse off someone, but woe betide if some affection comes into play. The same is true both ways by the way.

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By *picknspanMan
over a year ago

North West Leeds

Interesting....

Some men are more than happy to see their wife or gf indulge in sexual activities with other men but do not want kissing to be part of the interaction. Equally thet do not want their OH to contact, text or call another man, this is considered 'cheating' or 'untrustworthy'.

In these cases it would appear that the 'animal' act of fornication or oral sex is carnal activity and can be 'allowed, forgiven or accepted' but an action that appears to exude emotion, attraction or love is an infidelity.

I may be wrong in this assumption and would be good to be enightened either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any Males out there ever ask yourself

Why do I love watching my wife getting fucked?

Or

Why do I love sharing my wife??

Is there something wrong with me??

There is nothing wrong with you my hubby loves watching me get fucked. The rush of love we feel for each other is out of this world. And I love it when he comes and whispers in my ear or kisses me.

Just enjoy it x"

This! Definitely this. The look of deep love and emotion in Missy's eyes whilst being fucked Infront of me is just breath taking. It's a really special thing tbh.

J X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yoire not alone in your fantasy mate

Embrace it together. Keep discussing it and if you both enjoy it then it's an amazing thing to be able to do together

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