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"If you post an update, you take your chances  "Don’t i know it!!...after last night lol  | |||
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"A lot are or were once couples with only male now using the profile after relationship ends " Never thought of that | |||
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"You say here that you posted a completely normal non sexual update. On your other thread you say you posted female here, hubby asleep, fancy some dirty chat. Why are you so surprised you got some ?" No I never I posted hubby sound asleep...why can’t I be? Didn’t ask for any dirty chat? | |||
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"You say in your other post "is it just because I posted an update that hubby was sleeping and I wasn't Male half of couples now think I want some dirty chat lol"" Eh yes and where exactly did I ask for dirty chat? Lol | |||
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"Well last night was inundated with male half of couples wanting dirty chat (I posted a completely normal no sexual update) surely this can’t be all single men pretending? Lol I would be furious with hubby if he spoke to some women the way they did last night? Bit of respect please!!...esp when you talking to a couple "Ahhh but how do you know who are the genuine couples, that is the age old problem  | |||
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"The men messaging you obviously read it as "think I want some dirty chat now lol"" Think so, I just wanted to moan and get some sleep lol | |||
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"Well last night was inundated with male half of couples wanting dirty chat (I posted a completely normal no sexual update) surely this can’t be all single men pretending? Lol I would be furious with hubby if he spoke to some women the way they did last night? Bit of respect please!!...esp when you talking to a couple "Everyone deserves respect. | |||
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"Well last night was inundated with male half of couples wanting dirty chat (I posted a completely normal no sexual update) surely this can’t be all single men pretending? Lol I would be furious with hubby if he spoke to some women the way they did last night? Bit of respect please!!...esp when you talking to a couple "had enough of that from.me last night haha  | |||
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"Well last night was inundated with male half of couples wanting dirty chat (I posted a completely normal no sexual update) surely this can’t be all single men pretending? Lol I would be furious with hubby if he spoke to some women the way they did last night? Bit of respect please!!...esp when you talking to a couple had enough of that from.me last night haha "Yours was welcomed | |||
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"The men messaging you obviously read it as "think I want some dirty chat now lol" Think so, I just wanted to moan and get some sleep lol "Whilst I can see what you’re saying, that’s the sort of thing that’s very much dependent on your audience. Posting it on facebook would of been ok. On a sex site it’s not surprising you got a different kind of reply! | |||
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"The men messaging you obviously read it as "think I want some dirty chat now lol" Think so, I just wanted to moan and get some sleep lol
Whilst I can see what you’re saying, that’s the sort of thing that’s very much dependent on your audience. Posting it on facebook would of been ok. On a sex site it’s not surprising you got a different kind of reply!"I expect it just not always from male half of a couple lol....I just think wed night was bring out the creeps night haha | |||
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"The men messaging you obviously read it as "think I want some dirty chat now lol" Think so, I just wanted to moan and get some sleep lol
Whilst I can see what you’re saying, that’s the sort of thing that’s very much dependent on your audience. Posting it on facebook would of been ok. On a sex site it’s not surprising you got a different kind of reply!"theres a different type of reply still should be respectful though. | |||
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"Well last night was inundated with male half of couples wanting dirty chat (I posted a completely normal no sexual update) surely this can’t be all single men pretending? Lol I would be furious with hubby if he spoke to some women the way they did last night? Bit of respect please!!...esp when you talking to a couple had enough of that from.me last night haha
Yours was welcomed "aww I.feel.special in a food way for once hahhaha | |||
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"Good not food jeez I need to feed myself food on the brain. "Eat woman please | |||
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"Well last night was inundated with male half of couples wanting dirty chat (I posted a completely normal no sexual update) surely this can’t be all single men pretending? Lol I would be furious with hubby if he spoke to some women the way they did last night? Bit of respect please!!...esp when you talking to a couple "Couples are not any more special than females and men. Without going into specifics, do you mean they wanted to talk about sex and you didn't want to? Is that what you mean by they should respect you? | |||
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"Well last night was inundated with male half of couples wanting dirty chat (I posted a completely normal no sexual update) surely this can’t be all single men pretending? Lol I would be furious with hubby if he spoke to some women the way they did last night? Bit of respect please!!...esp when you talking to a couple
Couples are not any more special than females and men.
Without going into specifics, do you mean they wanted to talk about sex and you didn't want to? Is that what you mean by they should respect you?"A few yes the, rest were all directed at me with a few dismissals of the hubby and meeting without him | |||
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"Well last night was inundated with male half of couples wanting dirty chat (I posted a completely normal no sexual update) surely this can’t be all single men pretending? Lol I would be furious with hubby if he spoke to some women the way they did last night? Bit of respect please!!...esp when you talking to a couple
Couples are not any more special than females and men.
Without going into specifics, do you mean they wanted to talk about sex and you didn't want to? Is that what you mean by they should respect you?
A few yes the, rest were all directed at me with a few dismissals of the hubby and meeting without him "Then I am not sure why you are surprised, you say you said you were on your own, late at night on a site that is sex related, they wouldn't be expecting to talk to your husband | |||
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"Well last night was inundated with male half of couples wanting dirty chat (I posted a completely normal no sexual update) surely this can’t be all single men pretending? Lol I would be furious with hubby if he spoke to some women the way they did last night? Bit of respect please!!...esp when you talking to a couple
Couples are not any more special than females and men.
Without going into specifics, do you mean they wanted to talk about sex and you didn't want to? Is that what you mean by they should respect you?
A few yes the, rest were all directed at me with a few dismissals of the hubby and meeting without him
Then I am not sure why you are surprised, you say you said you were on your own, late at night on a site that is sex related, they wouldn't be expecting to talk to your husband"Ultimately if they had read our profile they would clearly see I’m not interested in men and we play together...we all think differently I just feel speaking to a couple you address both of them respectfully..sex site yes...but there is no reason not to be polite lol I was really just more surprised how many there was last night. | |||
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"Well last night was inundated with male half of couples wanting dirty chat (I posted a completely normal no sexual update) surely this can’t be all single men pretending? Lol I would be furious with hubby if he spoke to some women the way they did last night? Bit of respect please!!...esp when you talking to a couple
Everyone deserves respect."Exactly | |||
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"Well last night was inundated with male half of couples wanting dirty chat (I posted a completely normal no sexual update) surely this can’t be all single men pretending? Lol I would be furious with hubby if he spoke to some women the way they did last night? Bit of respect please!!...esp when you talking to a couple
Couples are not any more special than females and men.
Without going into specifics, do you mean they wanted to talk about sex and you didn't want to? Is that what you mean by they should respect you?
A few yes the, rest were all directed at me with a few dismissals of the hubby and meeting without him
Then I am not sure why you are surprised, you say you said you were on your own, late at night on a site that is sex related, they wouldn't be expecting to talk to your husband
Ultimately if they had read our profile they would clearly see I’m not interested in men and we play together...we all think differently I just feel speaking to a couple you address both of them respectfully..sex site yes...but there is no reason not to be polite lol I was really just more surprised how many there was last night.
"When we first joined we didnt use message filters at first, as soon as the pictures went up the messages we received from blokes trying to meet S on her own were hilarious. You get some entertaining stories and reasons. And same for couples profiles you only have to watch the updates list to see which are couples and which are men | |||
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"Well last night was inundated with male half of couples wanting dirty chat (I posted a completely normal no sexual update) surely this can’t be all single men pretending? Lol I would be furious with hubby if he spoke to some women the way they did last night? Bit of respect please!!...esp when you talking to a couple
Couples are not any more special than females and men.
Without going into specifics, do you mean they wanted to talk about sex and you didn't want to? Is that what you mean by they should respect you?"being alone looking for hat bored at night is not an open invitation for men to be disrespectful either though is it! And no one said couples were more special than women or men | |||
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"Well last night was inundated with male half of couples wanting dirty chat (I posted a completely normal no sexual update) surely this can’t be all single men pretending? Lol I would be furious with hubby if he spoke to some women the way they did last night? Bit of respect please!!...esp when you talking to a couple
Couples are not any more special than females and men.
Without going into specifics, do you mean they wanted to talk about sex and you didn't want to? Is that what you mean by they should respect you?
A few yes the, rest were all directed at me with a few dismissals of the hubby and meeting without him
Then I am not sure why you are surprised, you say you said you were on your own, late at night on a site that is sex related, they wouldn't be expecting to talk to your husband
Ultimately if they had read our profile they would clearly see I’m not interested in men and we play together...we all think differently I just feel speaking to a couple you address both of them respectfully..sex site yes...but there is no reason not to be polite lol I was really just more surprised how many there was last night.
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"Well last night was inundated with male half of couples wanting dirty chat (I posted a completely normal no sexual update) surely this can’t be all single men pretending? Lol I would be furious with hubby if he spoke to some women the way they did last night? Bit of respect please!!...esp when you talking to a couple
Couples are not any more special than females and men.
Without going into specifics, do you mean they wanted to talk about sex and you didn't want to? Is that what you mean by they should respect you?
A few yes the, rest were all directed at me with a few dismissals of the hubby and meeting without him
Then I am not sure why you are surprised, you say you said you were on your own, late at night on a site that is sex related, they wouldn't be expecting to talk to your husband
Ultimately if they had read our profile they would clearly see I’m not interested in men and we play together...we all think differently I just feel speaking to a couple you address both of them respectfully..sex site yes...but there is no reason not to be polite lol I was really just more surprised how many there was last night.
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"Well last night was inundated with male half of couples wanting dirty chat (I posted a completely normal no sexual update) surely this can’t be all single men pretending? Lol I would be furious with hubby if he spoke to some women the way they did last night? Bit of respect please!!...esp when you talking to a couple
Couples are not any more special than females and men.
Without going into specifics, do you mean they wanted to talk about sex and you didn't want to? Is that what you mean by they should respect you?being alone looking for hat bored at night is not an open invitation for men to be disrespectful either though is it! And no one said couples were more special than women or men "Where did I say it was an open invitation to be disrespectful on my post? The OP said "Bit of respect please!!...esp when you talking to a couple "
I assumed she meant "Bit of respect please!!...esp when you talking to a couple "
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"Well last night was inundated with male half of couples wanting dirty chat (I posted a completely normal no sexual update) surely this can’t be all single men pretending? Lol I would be furious with hubby if he spoke to some women the way they did last night? Bit of respect please!!...esp when you talking to a couple
Couples are not any more special than females and men.
Without going into specifics, do you mean they wanted to talk about sex and you didn't want to? Is that what you mean by they should respect you?being alone looking for hat bored at night is not an open invitation for men to be disrespectful either though is it! And no one said couples were more special than women or men
Where did I say it was an open invitation to be disrespectful on my post?
The OP said "Bit of respect please!!...esp when you talking to a couple "
I assumed she meant "Bit of respect please!!...esp when you talking to a couple "
"still wasnt implying that couples are "more special" than everyone else. Asking for respect is reasonable no matter who you are | |||
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"I am sure she can speak for herself if she felt the need "someone steal.the jam.out your doughnut today? | |||
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"Well last night was inundated with male half of couples wanting dirty chat (I posted a completely normal no sexual update) surely this can’t be all single men pretending? Lol I would be furious with hubby if he spoke to some women the way they did last night? Bit of respect please!!...esp when you talking to a couple
Couples are not any more special than females and men.
Without going into specifics, do you mean they wanted to talk about sex and you didn't want to? Is that what you mean by they should respect you?being alone looking for hat bored at night is not an open invitation for men to be disrespectful either though is it! And no one said couples were more special than women or men
Where did I say it was an open invitation to be disrespectful on my post?
The OP said "Bit of respect please!!...esp when you talking to a couple "
I assumed she meant "Bit of respect please!!...esp when you talking to a couple "
still wasnt implying that couples are "more special" than everyone else. Asking for respect is reasonable no matter who you are "Exactly....everyone deserves respect, if your talking to a couple, respect there 2 of them and don’t assume hey both play away?...they were all blocked anyway and their wives will be none the wiser lol  | |||
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"I am sure she can speak for herself if she felt the need someone steal.the jam.out your doughnut today?
"You seem to have picked up on my posts even though others said the same thing, I have been polite by answering you but your posts seems to be getting a bit silly now and almost like you are looking for a row , so I will leave it there | |||
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"I think the key is esp short for especially...and it therefore reads "especially for couples" The OP however wasn't respectful to her hubby because she posted a status update while he was snoring his togs off oblivious to her nocturnal activities. Then this morning starts an attention seeking thread for everyone to tell everyone to be respectful esp to couples x" a lot of judgments being thrown around here, oh she started a thread must be attention seeking lol give over | |||
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"I think the key is esp short for especially...and it therefore reads "especially for couples" The OP however wasn't respectful to her hubby because she posted a status update while he was snoring his togs off oblivious to her nocturnal activities. Then this morning starts an attention seeking thread for everyone to tell everyone to be respectful esp to couples x" Who are you to say I was disrespectful to my hubby....not telling him then yes, but he was well aware of my “nocturnal activities” and chuckled with me this morning about the crazy messages...respect should be given to everyone. Didn’t think it would cause so much complaining lol and just because you don’t agree with my post doesn’t mean it’s attention seeking...funny that’s a statement that get used a lot on here when people don’t agree with things lol | |||
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