FabSwingers.com forum: Newbie checklist prior to first event

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm all ears

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

What type of event?

If a club, be clean and presentable, check the dress code. It's good to bring condoms. Check what drinks are served, you may want to bring some. Don't get pissed.

Be friendly, confident and assertive but not pushy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What type of event?

If a club, be clean and presentable, check the dress code. It's good to bring condoms. Check what drinks are served, you may want to bring some. Don't get pissed.

Be friendly, confident and assertive but not pushy. "

Apologies, yeah its a club event x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Limit the alcohol intake. I personally haven't been able to take my own advice, It's good advice though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

smell good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"smell good

I will try my very best haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s been said before.

I always wear so nice undies in case you don’t like the robe/towels they have.

I take flip flops or sliders to wear when dressed down in communal areas as I hate to think how many feet have been in certain bits and you know what men’s aim is like in toilets

Lube as well as condoms.

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By *hic EventsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

Leave your little brain at home if you get what I mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Leave your little brain at home if you get what I mean "

100%, Im not expecting anything anyway I'm a newbie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be approachable and friendly.

And for the love of God don't joint the wanking zombie mob.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Be approachable and friendly.

And for the love of God don't joint the wanking zombie mob."

That's sounds freaky

and not a good freaky either xx

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Be approachable and friendly.

And for the love of God don't joint the wanking zombie mob."

Love this

Av xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha. Is there really a wanking zombie mob in clubs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be approachable and friendly.

And for the love of God don't joint the wanking zombie mob."

We have been to many clubs and haven't seen a wanking zombie mob.

Luckily we must have picked the right clubs!

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By *hic EventsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Be approachable and friendly.

And for the love of God don't joint the wanking zombie mob."

Or as i call them - The towel wanker gang

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) check club's website for requirements for single men; make sure you fulfill them, don't just turn up on the day as you would, most likely, not be allowed in

2) check the dress code

3) make sure you have enough cash on you- though some clubs do accept plastic nowadays, their website should normally state

4) check if you can bring your own drinks or whether you need to purchase all from the venue

5) as per dress code- make sure you look and smell nice

6) be friendly and approachable, but not pushy

7) smile, talk to people; don't rely on non-verbal communication as people can't read your mind

8) chat to bar staff/club staff; if it's your first time, they could give you a tour of the facilities and introduce you to some of the people there

Last but not least: remember that NO always means NO! Do not touch without being invited, and do not try and go bareback.

Enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"1) check club's website for requirements for single men; make sure you fulfill them, don't just turn up on the day as you would, most likely, not be allowed in

2) check the dress code

3) make sure you have enough cash on you- though some clubs do accept plastic nowadays, their website should normally state

4) check if you can bring your own drinks or whether you need to purchase all from the venue

5) as per dress code- make sure you look and smell nice

6) be friendly and approachable, but not pushy

7) smile, talk to people; don't rely on non-verbal communication as people can't read your mind

8) chat to bar staff/club staff; if it's your first time, they could give you a tour of the facilities and introduce you to some of the people there

Last but not least: remember that NO always means NO! Do not touch without being invited, and do not try and go bareback.

Enjoy. "

Great bit of information, few new things what hasn't been mentioned before so big Big help, thankyou darling! Appreciate it xxx

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By *lattyukbiMan
over a year ago

Rugby

Also... if a door is closed, it’s closed for a reason... leave whoever it is to whatever it is.... interrupting their flow by knocking or trying the handle won’t get you invited in!

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