FabSwingers.com forum: Really wanting to join my first swinging club...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I’m still new to this kind of scene, although so far it’s been so enjoyable and most people are delightful.

I’m feeling ready to attend a club or perhaps a social event of sorts. Not really sure on how to go about this. Would love someone to attend with me in the Leeds area.

Reach out ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I’m still new to this kind of scene, although so far it’s been so enjoyable and most people are delightful.

I’m feeling ready to attend a club or perhaps a social event of sorts. Not really sure on how to go about this. Would love someone to attend with me in the Leeds area.

Reach out ??"

Go to the club section of the site and look up club reviews. There are some good ones up north I've been told.

Follow the club's site instructions on dress code and membership and so forth.

I'd just go as a single .. bit the bullet and just go for it.

Being a social butterfly always helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m going either way, It’ll just be easier to have someone talk me through it all x

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

If you wait for someone to take you, you will never get there. Just go. It's really not scary once you're there. Be friendly and respectful and you'll be fine.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

It's like walking into a new pub, what's the problem. Sorry but I've always gone on my own, not sure what the problem is

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

I am hosting a night at club sx in blackpool in september called the great northern social, this event would be perfect for people like yourself who are wanting to start attending clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Love to hear more about this ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There isn’t a problem really. Think I’m just waiting to be enabled as I feel guilty on some level about doing this sort of thing as no one I know does ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just take a big breath and do it by yourself don’t show that you are nervous as that will stand out just go with the thought that you have no doubt have had about going to a club be confident you will be fine

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

"There isn’t a problem really. Think I’m just waiting to be enabled as I feel guilty on some level about doing this sort of thing as no one I know does ?? "

Swinging clubs aren't quite the dirty little secret people seem to think they are. There's no need to feel guilty. I'm sure there are people you know who go and just don't talk about it. We found out quite a lot of our friends and people we knew went to clubs once we started going. I think in Leeds there are quest and pandoras. Have a Google and look at their websites to see how to get membership and just go for it. Once you've been you will wonder what you were worried about

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

"Love to hear more about this ??"

Check out the thread under club events, I also recommend any other newbies or not so newbies to come along, there will be plenty of people there to chat to, sometimes people find it hard on here due to no verifications, easiest way to get a genuine verification is to go along to a club, the staff there will almost always verify you as a genuine person xx

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

just put on your "big boy" pants and go....

you are adult enough to be on a website like this,

you are adult enough to talk to people on here,

you are adult enough to go thru a big set of doors all by yourself....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quest is a lovely club . We are regulars and love the social side to swinging. Have a look on the forums for events and add yourself on the guest list. Once you are there you will love it .. We took some newbie friends only last week to Quest and now they are talking about going on their own as everyone at the club is so friendly. Look at their website and look at the the rules and etiquette in a swingers club. If you take notice of this you won't go far wrong. We have both attended club's as singles in the past and understand how daunting it can be .. Just bite the bullet and go .. You will never look back.After all that's how we met. Happy Swinging

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I still get a buzz from stripping down to my pants and walking out of the changing room. Especially if it’s a club I’ve not been to before.

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By *lattyukbiMan
over a year ago

Rugby

"I am hosting a night at club sx in blackpool in september called the great northern social, this event would be perfect for people like yourself who are wanting to start attending clubs

Oooh... thinking about coming along with a friend...!

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

"I am hosting a night at club sx in blackpool in september called the great northern social, this event would be perfect for people like yourself who are wanting to start attending clubs

Oooh... thinking about coming along with a friend...!

Please do , add yourself to the guest list on the forum xx

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"It's like walking into a new pub, what's the problem. Sorry but I've always gone on my own, not sure what the problem is"

It’s easier than walking into a new pub. If you’re a newbie to a particular club, you should get a tour, have the rules & etiquette explained, have an event host as a point of contact if you need anything & be introduced to some people.

There are lots of different club or organised socials all over the place. There are 2 in Liverpool & one in Chester.

Townhouse also do a specific Newbies event every month, as do some other clubs.

Finding the right event is as important as the right club - and there are a lot of clubs to try out in the North!

Wherever you choose, I’m sure you’ll have a great time!

M xx

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