FabSwingers.com forum: Extortion by user

By *JBen OP Man
over a year ago

bradford leeds hudds

Hello there guys , tonight we was arranging a meet with a guy in bradford 33yo dark skinned guy with what looked to be a very big cock

He arranged to meet said he was setting off to meet , but then sent a message saying he wanted £500 transferring to a bank account in Sheffiekd

Or he would plaster our pics and address and phone number all over the Internet / social media

Fab took action and removed his profile thank you for that Fab

I’m not sure if this will go anywhere I have taken screen shots of all messages in case it does and will go to the police if he does do anything

Keep you eyes peeled if this has happened to you please post info we need to stop these people extortion is not good and how many would get scared and just pay up

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Sounds like you did the right thing.

An unpleasant experience.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Hello there guys , tonight we was arranging a meet with a guy in bradford 33yo dark skinned guy with what looked to be a very big cock

He arranged to meet said he was setting off to meet , but then sent a message saying he wanted £500 transferring to a bank account in Sheffiekd

Or he would plaster our pics and address and phone number all over the Internet / social media

Fab took action and removed his profile thank you for that Fab

I’m not sure if this will go anywhere I have taken screen shots of all messages in case it does and will go to the police if he does do anything

Keep you eyes peeled if this has happened to you please post info we need to stop these people extortion is not good and how many would get scared and just pay up"

go the police straight away

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Definately go to the police, at least get it logged. They are very good with dealing with this sort of thing. Also, remember he's outing himself as well. Good luck. Xx

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By *anTouchThisCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

If he does anything? He's already well beyond that point. Report it to the police else he'll just try again. He should be easily traceable to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a terrible thing to happen to yous. Hes probably only saying that he would plaster your pics all over the place x try and get a hold of his name and jail him. Report him 1st to admin .good luck try not to worry too much about it x

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By *eorge JetsonMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Last time we had this going on we just very casually and matter of factly told him we thought it was a fantastic idea and to go right ahead if that's what he wanted to do.

Half hour later his profile had gone and we're still waiting for our pics to hit mainstream Internet and social media.

That was last year.

As soon as these people realise your actually not bothered and don't care (even though you obviously are because it's a very private lifestyle we're part of) the fear factor they have is gone and they have absolutely no leverage anymore. x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Where exactly does he think he could post them where they would get lost amongst the millions of other porn-like photos out there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be curious to know if this user had any verified meets? I know that isn't full proof however.

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Had this on a Skype Call years ago, started sending screen grabs of us naked, etc etc... threatening to post on Facebook and such like

Foolish guy thought that the Skype email address we used was linked to them all, of course it wasn’t... that email address was purely for Skype... proof if it were needed that you should never ever use the same emails etc for Your adult stuff as you do for mainstream social media...

We sent them a pic of an arsehole, told them to crack on!never heard a thing!

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

Unless he's a computer scientist of some sort, or an experienced scammer, he's already fucked himself up.

Whenever you use any sites like this one, the site is able to trace your IP. An IP is a unique address given to your router/phone by your ISP/phone company. IPs are leased and traceable with time constraints. What this means is that with the help of the ISP, the police are able to identify the exact geographical location of the router or the handset which he was using.

A router will be at a property and is easy to identify. Contact phones are also very easy to identify.

PAYG phones aren't as easy as no records need to be attached to the device. But that doesn't mean it can't be tracked.

Good luck though! There are some idiots around.

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

Also, a woman did a similar thing to me. Tried to get me to do stuff or she'd expose me to everyone and send pics.

I replied by saying; "Oh cool, I've always wanted to be an escort anyway! Maybe a bit of publicity would help me! Are you charging for this service?"

She then told me to fuck off, and I never heard anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was contacted by that louse that sent emails saying that he'd viewed my webscam and hacked my email using a trojan from well known porn site and that if I didn't send him gazillion Bitcoins he was going to out me on social media.

I think the guy is now serving time for it but I shudder to think how many people were sucked in by it and paid up.

I just copied and pasted his threat into google and quickly realised it was a bluff. Even if he did what he was going to do I though. Knock yourself out and do your worst you leech

What despicable people live, doing this sort of thing. They are such shit people and deserve to die horribly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unless he's a computer scientist of some sort, or an experienced scammer, he's already fucked himself up.

A router will be at a property and is easy to identify. Contact phones are also very easy to identify.

PAYG phones aren't as easy as no records need to be attached to the device. But that doesn't mean it can't be tracked.

Good luck though! There are some idiots around."

You really don't need to be tech minded at all to easily hide your IP Address.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I was contacted by that louse that sent emails saying that he'd viewed my webscam and hacked my email using a trojan from well known porn site and that if I didn't send him gazillion Bitcoins he was going to out me on social media.

I think the guy is now serving time for it but I shudder to think how many people were sucked in by it and paid up.

I just copied and pasted his threat into google and quickly realised it was a bluff. Even if he did what he was going to do I though. Knock yourself out and do your worst you leech

What despicable people live, doing this sort of thing. They are such shit people and deserve to die horribly."

Yes, I had this and told the guy to fuck off. Never heard anything back, strangely enough.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Hello there guys , tonight we was arranging a meet with a guy in bradford 33yo dark skinned guy with what looked to be a very big cock

He arranged to meet said he was setting off to meet , but then sent a message saying he wanted £500 transferring to a bank account in Sheffiekd

Or he would plaster our pics and address and phone number all over the Internet / social media

Fab took action and removed his profile thank you for that Fab

I’m not sure if this will go anywhere I have taken screen shots of all messages in case it does and will go to the police if he does do anything

Keep you eyes peeled if this has happened to you please post info we need to stop these people extortion is not good and how many would get scared and just pay up"

I would go to the police anyway. Get the scumbag caught. Unless he is really good with computers/IT he will easily be caught.

The police will not be bothered by how you met this man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this I said ok whatever loser, not bothered jog on. Never heard anything about it again. Its the power they think they have over you, take away that power they are a loser xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bit more difficult if you are going through a VPN which encrypts traffic

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Off subject, had a cracker today. Phone call:! you are being investigated for tax fraud please press 1 to connect to an official, if you don’t you will be arrested shortly.

Think the ‘tintereret has.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello there guys , tonight we was arranging a meet with a guy in bradford 33yo dark skinned guy with what looked to be a very big cock

He arranged to meet said he was setting off to meet , but then sent a message saying he wanted £500 transferring to a bank account in Sheffiekd

Or he would plaster our pics and address and phone number all over the Internet / social media

Fab took action and removed his profile thank you for that Fab

I’m not sure if this will go anywhere I have taken screen shots of all messages in case it does and will go to the police if he does do anything

Keep you eyes peeled if this has happened to you please post info we need to stop these people extortion is not good and how many would get scared and just pay up"

Report him to the Police then, you aren't doing anything illegal, he is.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Forget him being tech savey.

He gave you his bank account details.

Give these to the police and they will find them in short shrift.

Get him charged as it will be one less vermin out there.

Good luck and hope you are both ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call me cynical but while it might not be too difficult to find this person, my instinct tells me the police won't be remotely interested in following it up.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"Call me cynical but while it might not be too difficult to find this person, my instinct tells me the police won't be remotely interested in following it up."

Even if they can't it should still be reported. It will add to the unsolved case list adding more pressure to government to add more resources.

Everyone who ignores these things means the size of the problem is under estimated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Call me cynical but while it might not be too difficult to find this person, my instinct tells me the police won't be remotely interested in following it up.

Even if they can't it should still be reported. It will add to the unsolved case list adding more pressure to government to add more resources.

Everyone who ignores these things means the size of the problem is under estimated "

That's if they even record it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had something similar happen although they didn't ask for money they made thinly veiled threats about outing us especially hubby because none of our none fab friends know he bisexual turned out to be what we thought was a close friend

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Call me cynical but while it might not be too difficult to find this person, my instinct tells me the police won't be remotely interested in following it up.

Even if they can't it should still be reported. It will add to the unsolved case list adding more pressure to government to add more resources.

Everyone who ignores these things means the size of the problem is under estimated

That's if they even record it. "

Ring 101 those calls are recorded and at the end you’ll get a crime reference number. The advisor would then explain the next course of action.

The Police have to record all reports of a criminal matter, butch not necessarily have the resources to investigate depends on the force.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Call me cynical but while it might not be too difficult to find this person, my instinct tells me the police won't be remotely interested in following it up.

Even if they can't it should still be reported. It will add to the unsolved case list adding more pressure to government to add more resources.

Everyone who ignores these things means the size of the problem is under estimated

That's if they even record it.

Ring 101 those calls are recorded and at the end you’ll get a crime reference number. The advisor would then explain the next course of action.

The Police have to record all reports of a criminal matter, butch not necessarily have the resources to investigate depends on the force. "

Butch

*but (damn autocorrect

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By *YC SausageMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I had an email that looked personal “hi Tony, your email password is QWERTY, you’ve been watching porn (great choice by the way). I’ve remotely hacked your computer and took control of your webcam and have some great shots of you enjoying yourself if you know what I mean.

I want $999.99 or I’m sending it to all your friends and family.”

I calmly replied

“Nice! Shame you’ve not met me or you’d know I have no shame. Plus, the majority of my contacts are fuck buddies so they’ve all seen me naked anyway :shrug shoulder emoji:

Send me a copy, would love to see my sex face ??

Tony”

Never heard back from him. He did know my password........but it was a password I used 10/15 years ago lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had an email that looked personal “hi Tony, your email password is QWERTY, you’ve been watching porn (great choice by the way). I’ve remotely hacked your computer and took control of your webcam and have some great shots of you enjoying yourself if you know what I mean.

I want $999.99 or I’m sending it to all your friends and family.”

I calmly replied

“Nice! Shame you’ve not met me or you’d know I have no shame. Plus, the majority of my contacts are fuck buddies so they’ve all seen me naked anyway :shrug shoulder emoji:

Send me a copy, would love to see my sex face ??

Tony”

Never heard back from him. He did know my password........but it was a password I used 10/15 years ago lol"

I just got the same one , they had my password , then i realized it was an old one hope it goes nowhere , what do you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing will come of it,just chancers weaning out the weak people who will give money straight away to stop it happening.

They'd incriminate themselves by plastering your pics all over as they would be leaving a trail then as in bank accounts etc...if they bluff is called they'll crawl back under the rocks where they came from,but unfortunately people who fear the worst will pay and they know that....it's a shock tactic.

Scumbags.

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By *d59michelleTV/TS
over a year ago

walsall

I want $999.99 or I’m sending it to all your friends and family.”

I calmly replied

“Nice! Shame you’ve not met me or you’d know I have no shame. Plus, the majority of my contacts are fuck buddies so they’ve all seen me naked anyway :shrug shoulder emoji:

Send me a copy, would love to see my sex face ??

Tony”

Never heard back from him. He did know my password........but it was a password I used 10/15 years ago lol"

He'd bought details on the dark web of a previous hack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Call me cynical but while it might not be too difficult to find this person, my instinct tells me the police won't be remotely interested in following it up."

Unfortunately I'm inclined to agree with this,The prospect of being dragged out of a warm nick and doing some work on what would be perceived as a low priority crime means they're unlikely to do much, which I'm sure they could given their tech resources? I'm a complete tech moron so wouldn't know where to start which is one of the reasons why I'm deeply suspicious of the likes of Facebook and their happiness of making money by selling data? So hopefully I'll stay relatively anonymous in the world which suits me fine... Good luck with the problem!

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By *erkshireBiCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Reading

We had this a few times on here.

Once on another site.

First one was actually I guy pretending to be a policeman, he created multiple accounts to contact us. Admin banned his accounts, and we mentioned an actual police officer that we were playing regularly at the time. Never heard from him again

Last year, an old meet was threating to out me on facebook and to family.

Otherhalf was quite calm.

Him and my brother got the guys number and explained very simply what would happen. They would both pay a visit.

Guy first said his phone was hacked lol then said he was d*unk.

Never been asked for money before, although sometimes they offer to pay us?

As above always report immediately to Admin.

If someone is trying to black. mail you for money then contact the police.

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By *harismatic EnigmaMan
over a year ago

leeds

"Hello there guys , tonight we was arranging a meet with a guy in bradford 33yo dark skinned guy with what looked to be a very big cock

He arranged to meet said he was setting off to meet , but then sent a message saying he wanted £500 transferring to a bank account in Sheffiekd

Or he would plaster our pics and address and phone number all over the Internet / social media

Fab took action and removed his profile thank you for that Fab

I’m not sure if this will go anywhere I have taken screen shots of all messages in case it does and will go to the police if he does do anything

Keep you eyes peeled if this has happened to you please post info we need to stop these people extortion is not good and how many would get scared and just pay up"

Omg hope your ok, I wouldn’t worry about your details beeing plastered all over just a scare tactic to get money, I remember someone try doing to my mate online from abroad, similar threat and when my mate said f off go do it, the extorter then tried playing the sympathy card by say we wanted the money for his sick mother,

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By *harismatic EnigmaMan
over a year ago

leeds

"Definately go to the police, at least get it logged. They are very good with dealing with this sort of thing. Also, remember he's outing himself as well. Good luck. Xx"

Very good advice, give them all the details you have on this prick and if anything does come out the my have a line of enquiry to go and plus I’m sure they can charge him for what he tried doing

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I would also speak with the police as they are very supportive and do understand. I've no hesitation and no one should be made to feel wrong, because they enjoy legal personal interests.

It does highlight how it can be helpful to meet in a public place first, so that someone doesn't have your actual home info, with ability to trace resident details.

If you engage in a cam chat, you might be able to to save the video footage, if someone gets nasty.

Never use pics that can be traced to your identity either by reverse image searching. Use the pics just on fab if possible. Also ensure that you use a phone number that someone can't search for either, such as when it's listed against goods for sale or anything.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Off subject, had a cracker today. Phone call:! you are being investigated for tax fraud please press 1 to connect to an official, if you don’t you will be arrested shortly.

Think the ‘tintereret has....."

Have you been arrested yet?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I want $999.99 or I’m sending it to all your friends and family.”

I calmly replied

“Nice! Shame you’ve not met me or you’d know I have no shame. Plus, the majority of my contacts are fuck buddies so they’ve all seen me naked anyway :shrug shoulder emoji:

Send me a copy, would love to see my sex face ??

Tony”

Never heard back from him. He did know my password........but it was a password I used 10/15 years ago lol"

Yup, I've had this one too. It's currently doing the rounds.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Definately go to the police, at least get it logged. They are very good with dealing with this sort of thing. Also, remember he's outing himself as well. Good luck. Xx

Very good advice, give them all the details you have on this prick and if anything does come out the my have a line of enquiry to go and plus I’m sure they can charge him for what he tried doing "

Yes, its called extortion.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Call me cynical but while it might not be too difficult to find this person, my instinct tells me the police won't be remotely interested in following it up."

I wouldn't be too sure. With a bank account number it's an easy nick and will make there figures look good. It's the ones they actually have to do some work on that get ignored.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Two fab friends have had this. It never amounted to anything.

Sorry to hear this.

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