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Is swingers drop a thing?

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By *eastAndTheHarlot OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

OK so I know subdrop exists but is it a thing with swingers to drop?

Not sure if I'm just getting fed up with the fab BS or not lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Do you mean after a really exciting encounter feeling a bit low and anticlimactic the next day or just generally fed up of the whole scene?

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By *eastAndTheHarlot OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

No weve been having a great time. Just kinda fed up of the way people on here view us I guess.

I thought swinging was about more than just an inbox full of 'im horny' or 'when are you free'. I know it definitely is more than hook ups for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it exists, I'm feeling it.

However it is a general apathy I'm feeling as I don't appeal to locals and everyone else is too far away.

Just take a break and come back when you feel the time is right.

I'm going to take my own advice too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def get it after a full on party. And feeling what you describe a bit too. Thinking of taking a break and sticking to meeting friends for a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I get it sometimes,I just hide my profile for a while until it passes x

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By *LFB.Woman
over a year ago

Farnborough.

Think it must be, ive no enthusiasm to meet hence why ive put age limit to 98 to 99 so stops messages

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By *eastAndTheHarlot OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hartlepool


"Think it must be, ive no enthusiasm to meet hence why ive put age limit to 98 to 99 so stops messages"

There's a very happy 98 year old somewhere typing up a great intro message

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By *ohn Wilson96Man
over a year ago

from inside your wardrobe

You've mentioned sub drop, there's also Dom drop too.

Any sexual encounter releases a potent mix of chemicals into our brains/bodies, so on that basis I would say there is a form of swinger/fab drop of some type

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By *r Normally KinkyMan
over a year ago

Somerset

I dont think it can be compared to subdrop,which comes from a sudden drop in the endorphins in the bloodstream.

What your experiencing would be more likely cockwomble aversion syndrome, this is a well known syndrome that makes you feel, meh and ask the is this worth this crap?.

No known cure. but keep smiling, and just try to apply the Covkwomble filters.

Happy Fabbing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're having a meet tonight, first one in 4 months. Neither of us has felt like it so yes it does exist

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By *eastAndTheHarlot OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hartlepool


"I dont think it can be compared to subdrop,which comes from a sudden drop in the endorphins in the bloodstream.

What your experiencing would be more likely cockwomble aversion syndrome, this is a well known syndrome that makes you feel, meh and ask the is this worth this crap?.

No known cure. but keep smiling, and just try to apply the Covkwomble filters.

Happy Fabbing xx "

I wasn't comparing it. I just didn't know what else to call it. If I'd have said swingdrop people would have been clueless which is why I added the subdrop part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup totally. I spent two blissful days last week with my fwb. After I was a right mardy cow. Lacked lustre, mopey, no energy etc. Its taken till now to feel 'normal' again

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

Sometimes, I feel lots of enthusiasm for fab and meets, others I have little interest...especially, as you say after a string of tactless messages...

K

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"No weve been having a great time. Just kinda fed up of the way people on here view us I guess.

I thought swinging was about more than just an inbox full of 'im horny' or 'when are you free'. I know it definitely is more than hook ups for us. "

That’s why I prefer clubs. Actual Swingers rather than horny blokes looking for instashag

M x

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne


"OK so I know subdrop exists but is it a thing with swingers to drop?

Not sure if I'm just getting fed up with the fab BS or not lol "

So far hasn't happened to me lol

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire


"No weve been having a great time. Just kinda fed up of the way people on here view us I guess.

I thought swinging was about more than just an inbox full of 'im horny' or 'when are you free'. I know it definitely is more than hook ups for us. "

Totally agree with what you say x

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

I definitely feel this the next day after spending the night at a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" That’s why I prefer clubs. Actual Swingers rather than horny blokes looking for instashag

M x"

This! It gets rid of the fantasist's, timewasters and fakes at a stroke and also, gets rid of anyone without the guts to go to a club!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After trying out the club, M&GS and socials I found meeting just a couple regulars is a more wholesome fab approach for me and after a weekend with one I feel good afterwards rather than blah and wanting.

Others will find the lighter social buzz much more appealing though. We're all different and we all after a while find some aspects of fab wanting.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Variety is the key OP! In the last 8 days, I’ve played with 3 of my regular friends in private meets, had a fantastic evening in a club, and even managed to squeeze in a friendly social during the day with another couple! Swingers drop? Nah, not me.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy on here my messages are limited, but some of the women I have met have mentioned some of the frankly horrendous messages they have received. Part of the process I’m afraid

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yes it can be OP. Spend time with friends and family after meets.

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