FabSwingers.com forum: Boundries

By *aomilatte OP Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

Ever felt pressure to play outside your boundaries? We sensed pressure from a couple once, wondered if others have?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened once and it wasn't a great experience. Think it majorly depends who with and how comfortable with those people you are.

Pushing a little bit in the interest of curiosity I think is a good thing, but if its has been clearly stated no, then I would cut a session at that point and walk away.

One of my boundaries is currently no play with guys. I know for a fact I will never be that way inclined. It does however make me hesitatant to try couples. I have a FWB who is willing to go on a couples meet with me and she is bi. Just not sure of the dynamics of it all yet.

Godsake I'm too much of a virgin to swinging... Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yh i agree with the post above, can be good to push boundaries if u feel comfortable

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By *nigmaDreamWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

I have on my other account (couples acc)

Was a straight mmf. I stayed straight away that I wasn’t into anal and he went for it anyway.

Long story short, I meet him alone now and he’s taught me how to love it!

So boundary pushing went well this time

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By *nigmaDreamWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

"I have on my other account (couples acc)

Was a straight mmf. I stayed straight away that I wasn’t into anal and he went for it anyway.

Long story short, I meet him alone now and he’s taught me how to love it!

So boundary pushing went well this time

Stated * I meant sorry

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Not so much pressure as preferences totally ignored....needless to say, play stopped immediately.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes. Soft no, hard no, hard no plus stop play/ push off and leave.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I did have someone from this site online pushing me too far. and wouldn't take no for an answer. People who think they're doms as per usual!!

Hence we are cautious of single men now.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

It has happened occasionally when meeting other couples but we have always been quite clear that our boundaries are not up for discussion on the night.

Sometimes it is good to push boundaries but it should always be done with respect and only when everybody is ready and feels comfortable.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I rather like having mine pushed all be it gently, trying new things is never a bad thing (is it ?) Although I have never had the issue of anyone trying to push too hard; maybe it happens more with ladies and couples; I don't know !

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By *ommyxyzMan
over a year ago

Crawley

Haven’t got any so doesn’t affect me!

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I also enjoy having my boundaries pushed by a person a trust implicitly and only when I feel like I want to.

Pushing me to somewhere I don’t want to go is never going to end well for the other person. I’m not easy to push around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happened once and it wasn't a great experience. Think it majorly depends who with and how comfortable with those people you are.

Pushing a little bit in the interest of curiosity I think is a good thing, but if its has been clearly stated no, then I would cut a session at that point and walk away.

Godsake I'm too much of a virgin to swinging... Haha"

Bro totally agree lad I'll be keen for a mmf meet but no I wouldn't touch another man haha. Not for me...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes, I have been pressured to play outside my boundaries by bi women who insisted that they were happy to play straight.

I may feel pressure but I never give in to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id try most things once and if i don't like it wont do it again

Dont knock it if youve not done it

But there are still boundaries

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Id try most things once and if i don't like it wont do it again

Dont knock it if youve not done it

But there are still boundaries "

There are some things people don't want to try, and they're allowed to not try or like it.

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