FabSwingers.com forum: Best advice for more meets

By *andingo_bbc OP Man
over a year ago

local

I’ve been part of fab for 7 months now as a single guy and all I seem to get is exactly what I don’t want, to be more specific: attention from single males or men dressed as women. I’ve blocked being able to be contacted by either but they still can, how and why is this?

Secondly I can easily get 30/40 views in a day and no messages. People seem to assume I’m very popular on this site but I’m extremely close to leaving because my sex life isn’t too different since joining this..

If you’ve taken the time to read this thanks, if you’ve replied, legend x

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

To be honest.. i would delete your message before even reading it purely down to the cock profile pic...and 32 pictures of your cock in public album. We really dont need that, its faaaaar to many. If your really need a cock shot 1 or 2 at most.

I'm also assuming your lady friend has consented to you using those pictures?

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I’d delete it too. I don’t need to see 100 photos of your cock next to various household items for scale. One cock pic is ample.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

And i have already blocked him. A while ago.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Any guys who messaged you before you set your filters, will still be able to message you. Just block their profiles if you’re not interested

Transfer all your cock pics to your friends gallery, and just leave that face pic as your profile pic and only public pic. There’s an awful lot of reference to your cock in your profile text, so anyone interested in seeing it (or playing with it), will contact you

Post up a couple of clothed pics; women like pics with clothes in, men like pics with cocks in

Hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peach has always said it's not all about the cock. It about the fun with the person.

So put yourself out there not the cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t accommodate, for me I don’t want hotel meets or always at mine.

Some of you’re pictures are bareback....not for me

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Far too many cock pics, Too big for me at 10", Too far away. Are 3 no's for us.

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

Cock avatar. Over thirty picture of your cock. A username about your cock and reference in your bio to the size of your cock. All in all, way too much cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Far too many cock pics, Too big for me at 10", Too far away. Are 3 no's for us. "

*Security removes him off stage*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not my style of meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all the above and the name mandingo and bbc,be original and choose something that isnt so commonly used

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been part of fab for 7 months now as a single guy and all I seem to get is exactly what I don’t want, to be more specific: attention from single males or men dressed as women. I’ve blocked being able to be contacted by either but they still can, how and why is this?

Firstly, who is assuming you are popular on this site, and what are the using to come to this conclusion if you have never had a meet, and secondly, going on your final sentence, this site isn't Instashag.com. You have only been here 7 months, which for one of many tens of thousands of single blokes is nothing (2 years and counting for me).

Singld guys who can't accomodate makes people suspicious straight away, and finally, being black doesn't automatically make the ladies cum into their gussets. First job is to lose the 37 knob pics, and as mentioned above, change the name, steer well clear of tribal references and stating that you work for the BBC.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am going to repeat what others have said - way too many cock pics, and the cum shot pics are not actually that attractive.

Also, if I wasn't already put off by the tons of cock pics, the bareback one would put me off for sure.

I have no idea what you've expected from this site when you joined, but it is not instashag.

I must say I haven't even looked at your profile text, as just the pics are enough for me to make up my mind.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

I’m gonna take a wild guess that you are in love with your own cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't get as far as a face pic nor your profile text as your pics put me off wanting to bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many cock pics mate.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Barebacker with array of toiletry comparison objects

no ta

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By *trangeleftyMan
over a year ago

London

Patience

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

I always smile when someone enters the forum and asks "What am I doing wrong?" A quick forum search would throw up all the answers.

Then, after asking they disappear (3 days to date) even though they set a new status 17 hours ago and are "online now".

Despite the good advice offered they have done nothing to improve their profile, and still wonder why they don't get meets.

Amazing.

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire

If you’ve taken the time to read this thanks, if you’ve replied, legend x"

Fab requires patience, perseverance and some common sense.

Porn is not real. So women do not turn into drooling morons when they see a dick pic.

Be original, use common sense and focus more on who you are and what you bring to the table.

Best of luck

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

From years of experience on here we have found that the guys who are obsessed with their own cock are usually exactly that, a cock.

That may or may not be the case with the OP. But we really wouldn't risk wasting the time to find out.

So, based on your profile and pics, it would be a big no from us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

see this as a shop. sometimes you walk by look in the shop window and think, shall i go in and you look an it isnt for you.

i get views on my profile and some message me some dont, but it doesn't bother me as i see it as a shop and its a buyers prerogative.

enjoy your day x

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