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Clubs that allow 18-21 range

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By *man013 OP   Man
over a year ago

Derby

Hey was wondering if anyone knew of any clubs that allow people that are in the age range of 18-21 as I can’t seem to hear anything yet am constantly told the best way to build good friendships with fellow swingers is at clubs.

So yeah anyone know any clubs?

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By *riage12Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Pretty sure most allow you as long as you’re mature and 18+. All of the ones I’ve been to you need two forms of ID to prove age.

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By *man013 OP   Man
over a year ago

Derby

All the ones I’ve looked into have an age limit of 21 on there website and I wouldn’t want to waste a trip to be turned away at the door. I know for fact the attic near me is 21+ which is a shame as I understand some my age are immature but considering I’d been here nearly a year and nothing but bailers on local meets that’s why I’m asking

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By *riage12Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Best bet is to ring up or find their account on here and ask them as most do use this site. You might have to get a few veris under your belt before they allow you to join to prove you’re mature.

I never had any problems though when I was 20 unless they’ve all become a bit more strict.

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By *man013 OP   Man
over a year ago

Derby

Yeah it’s a complex world need meets to get in a club yet the easiest place to get meets is in a club which I’m not old enough in most cases haha

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By *riage12Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Almost like a job haha, need experience for a job but to get experience you need a job in te first place

You’ll get there anyway, might be worth just asking around for invites to club parties etc I’m sure they’ll give you the lowdown on whether or not you can go

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Xtasia does, pretty sure Townhouse also.

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By *man013 OP   Man
over a year ago

Derby

Thanks will have to have a look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Xtasia does, pretty sure Townhouse also. "

Thought its 21

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Not sure I'd like to go to a club, vanilla or swingers that let in 18 yos. It would be like going to a youth club disco.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Not sure I'd like to go to a club, vanilla or swingers that let in 18 yos. It would be like going to a youth club disco. "
why swinging is for all ages.. I've met ladies and couples that one of them is under 21 in most clubs x

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By *riage12Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Not sure I'd like to go to a club, vanilla or swingers that let in 18 yos. It would be like going to a youth club disco. why swinging is for all ages.. I've met ladies and couples that one of them is under 21 in most clubs x "

age is just a number, I’ve met some pretty immature “adults” at clubs but met some really great people of all ages too.

So long as you have a good level of maturity then I don’t see a problem.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Xtasia does, pretty sure Townhouse also.

Thought its 21"

Xtasia is 18 min age, it states on faq section. Not all clubs allow under 21 but its best contacting them direct to check

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By *man013 OP   Man
over a year ago

Derby

I can appreciate why some people dislike thought of under 21’s being in clubs as I know for fact a sizeable amount of that age group can be immature but you get that with any aspect of swinging surely and at the end of the day as long as we’re monitored to ensure we don’t cause problems and do proper research on how to behave at the club it’s like any place you go follow the rules and be mature and it should be fine

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Try AtlantisEvolution in Stoke-on-Trent. Bring ID.

Checkout the Club website for full details.

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By *man013 OP   Man
over a year ago

Derby


"Try AtlantisEvolution in Stoke-on-Trent. Bring ID.

Checkout the Club website for full details."

Thanks I will definitely have a look into there as Stoke is quite easy to access for myself at an affordable rate

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By *hilandHollyCouple
over a year ago

Newark

Can you imagine bumping into your kids at a club! We’d both be scarred for life lol

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By *man013 OP   Man
over a year ago

Derby


"Can you imagine bumping into your kids at a club! We’d both be scarred for life lol"

Am sure it happens hahah but at the end of the day you’d just have to ignore like bumping into anyone you don’t want knowing from vanilla life

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Can you imagine bumping into your kids at a club! We’d both be scarred for life lol"

OMG that thought is truly horrific!

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By *man013 OP   Man
over a year ago

Derby

Be just as mortifying for me to bump into my parents hahaha

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Townhouse is 18+

There are also several events aimed at a younger demographic. Allure is the 39 & under party, Harlots & RAW both cap the age for guys at 45 ... which probably seems ancient when you’re 18 lol!!

Let me know if you want any more info, or look on the club website for the ‘what’s on’list of events!

M xx

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By *heklangsCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Hey was wondering if anyone knew of any clubs that allow people that are in the age range of 18-21 as I can’t seem to hear anything yet am constantly told the best way to build good friendships with fellow swingers is at clubs.

So yeah anyone know any clubs?"

Hi Townhouse on the Wirral allows 18 year olds in with ID. Check out their website for events.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Not sure I'd like to go to a club, vanilla or swingers that let in 18 yos. It would be like going to a youth club disco. "

Allowing people in & being flooded with them are two different things. You could also say you don’t like the idea of a club allowing over 60’s in as it’d be like a trip to the bingo with your Nan!

Very few 18-21’s have the courage to come to a club on their own. Why stop the ones that want to? They are a minority & certainly don’t make it feel like a youth club disco! The ones that do come to events are very respectful & pleasant and very sociable - there are plenty of ‘adults’ who don’t seem to be able to manage that!!

As the saying goes - don’t knock it til you’ve tried it!!

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By *amelhunterMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"Yeah it’s a complex world need meets to get in a club yet the easiest place to get meets is in a club which I’m not old enough in most cases haha"

Yes, however just being in a club is not a guarantee of getting with a female.

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Quest in Leeds is from 18+. Have a look at their website or give them a call.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure I'd like to go to a club, vanilla or swingers that let in 18 yos. It would be like going to a youth club disco. "

Not sure I'd want to go to one full of 50 year olds. But guess what, regardless of age we are all adults. You're not forced to interact. You're not any more entitled to be there than anyone else. Silly comment.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Can you imagine bumping into your kids at a club! We’d both be scarred for life lol

Am sure it happens hahah but at the end of the day you’d just have to ignore like bumping into anyone you don’t want knowing from vanilla life"

'Just have to ignore'? It isn't just bumping into anyone, it would be your kids. Jeez that would be traumatic for everyone.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Can you imagine bumping into your kids at a club! We’d both be scarred for life lol

Am sure it happens hahah but at the end of the day you’d just have to ignore like bumping into anyone you don’t want knowing from vanilla life

'Just have to ignore'? It isn't just bumping into anyone, it would be your kids. Jeez that would be traumatic for everyone. "

Yeah, don’t think you could ignore that!

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By *am DavisMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

You have great cheek bones x ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At quite a lot of clubs. The numbers of guys are limited and they have to be verified. Thank god

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Can you imagine bumping into your kids at a club! We’d both be scarred for life lol"
have done so. I was working at a club am and my then 18 year old daughter came to join.

I just stayed on the bar all night. Not ideal but why would it scar me for life.

She is still am occasional swinger and I just make sure I avoid places I know she goes.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Our kids know we go clubs so not an issue they assure us they won't go

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Can you imagine bumping into your kids at a club! We’d both be scarred for life lol have done so. I was working at a club am and my then 18 year old daughter came to join.

I just stayed on the bar all night. Not ideal but why would it scar me for life.

She is still am occasional swinger and I just make sure I avoid places I know she goes.

"

That's a refreshing attitude and response, I hope that would be my reaction too but I honestly don't know.

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