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 He has also offered to bring cuffs but is not into pegging. (Sad sigh for those in the know).  | |||
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"Before meeting, establish the bodily fluids limits. If you’ve not done it before, a first doesn’t sound like the best time to start. “So I got a very polite, articulate message today from a gentleman asking me to degrade and insult him at a first meet in a very nice hotel.” This sounds like someone with a bit of class and intellect. I’d they’ve asked you to do it, then they know what the want and believe you can deliver it. As with everything else, start gently and work up to both your limits. Hope it goes well. Mr.S" Thank you for your message, but what kind of things is he thinking? I believe he thinks I know but I’m totally stumped  | |||
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"Are you a dominatrix?" Tried it but the 24/7 control thing wasn’t my cup of tea.. | |||
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"Why do you think he knows what you can do??? Have you discussed more than you have told us? At the top of your profile it says; 'Test us more'?? has this anything to do with it.. I hope it goes well, you could try totally ignoring him." Really good question. I’ve told him I’m open for trying new things so this was his challenge. Spitting, scratching, biting- I’m good with all that but was just wondering what else. | |||
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"Before meeting, establish the bodily fluids limits. If you’ve not done it before, a first doesn’t sound like the best time to start. “So I got a very polite, articulate message today from a gentleman asking me to degrade and insult him at a first meet in a very nice hotel.” This sounds like someone with a bit of class and intellect. I’d they’ve asked you to do it, then they know what the want and believe you can deliver it. As with everything else, start gently and work up to both your limits. Hope it goes well. Mr.S Thank you for your message, but what kind of things is he thinking? I believe he thinks I know but I’m totally stumped "Obviously you should discuss it with him..... | |||
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"So I got a very polite, articulate message today from a gentleman asking me to degrade and insult him at a first meet in a very nice hotel. It got me thinking. I haven’t (purposely) ever done this before and I’m definitely not into peeing or crapping on anyone. Experienced people out there, what do you suggest? Tips please on what I can/should do are much appreciated He has also offered to bring cuffs but is not into pegging. (Sad sigh for those in the know). "You need to be having this conversation with him as you need clear boundaries . One persons idea of degradation can be very different from someone elses. A simple " What exactly are you looking for" should start the ball rolling. Good luck. | |||
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"So I got a very polite, articulate message today from a gentleman asking me to degrade and insult him at a first meet in a very nice hotel. It got me thinking. I haven’t (purposely) ever done this before and I’m definitely not into peeing or crapping on anyone. Experienced people out there, what do you suggest? Tips please on what I can/should do are much appreciated He has also offered to bring cuffs but is not into pegging. (Sad sigh for those in the know).
You need to be having this conversation with him as you need clear boundaries .
One persons idea of degradation can be very different from someone elses.
A simple " What exactly are you looking for" should start the ball rolling.
Good luck."Oh thank you for this clear answer. Was starting to wonder what wrong with my question | |||
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"What "interests" are ticked? You don't list any - you need to be asking what he has in mind.. It could fall completely flat without some clues. Why guess, I'd ask and then it's decision time Continue or cross off your list of potential meets x " Oh no. I’m up for this challenge as it intrigues me. Thank you for your advice. | |||
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