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By *aldyman500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Enfield

Hi is it right or wrong to as my new lady friend to dress like a cheap tart / whore when we go out to make other men look at her?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It depends on how you ask her, how she feels about and if you are coercive. Consent is the most important thing in my opinion.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Does she want to? Does she enjoy it? Do you think any less of her for doing it? Are you prepared to have her back if people try to do more than look and it's unwelcome?

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

As others have said it’s consent and how she feels. I would of thought that sexy / horny is a better look but what do I know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I'd love it if the Mrs did that to normal pubs.

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By *aldyman500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Enfield

Thanks everyone she is definitely up for fun but thinks that at over fifty she’s too old

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Depends whether she feels comfortable. She may also receive some unsavoury attention / verbal abuse (because there's always a flip side in life). If she's prepared for that too then go for it!

Out of interest - what type of outfit are you thinking of that would make her look the way you describe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone she is definitely up for fun but thinks that at over fifty she’s too old

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She's not too old. If she feels comfortable then that's all that matters.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Thanks everyone she is definitely up for fun but thinks that at over fifty she’s too old

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no fecking chance for me then at 60!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone she is definitely up for fun but thinks that at over fifty she’s too old

no fecking chance for me then at 60!!!!! "

Wow, had a peep, your looking real good

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

We can ask other people whatever we like, within the confines of legality and respect but that doesn't mean that others will have mutually fulfilling desires.

It's probably better to appreciate someone for the qualities that they have and let them know it, than for them to perceive that they are in some way lacking. Good communication is key - finding out what each person would like and for others not to feel pressured.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thanks everyone she is definitely up for fun but thinks that at over fifty she’s too old

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I understand how she feels. People are extremely judgemental of young women dressing like cheap tarts,add age into the mix and they can be downright nasty. We compromise, I wear low cut tops etc when we go out but save cheap tart clothes for home and private meets if that's what I feel like at the time. Feeling self conscious can spoil what would otherwise be a lot of fun

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By *aldyman500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Enfield

Yes to be honest I think you’re right x

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

Nothing wrong with that.....she yours so what. If it was a nice car wouldn’t expect others not to look would you....??? Eye candy never hurt no one

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"Hi is it right or wrong to as my new lady friend to dress like a cheap tart / whore when we go out to make other men look at her?"

Interesting you’ve chosen derogatory words to describe how she looks and not that she’s sexy and attractive. What attracted you to her then?

Is she on Fab? This sounds like most guys dream having a partner who dresses to please and tease and think of the fun they’ll have later. I hope you pay her compliments and don’t call her a tart or a whore or she won’t be your lady friend for long.

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