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By *an_bury OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Advice

I've been thinking more and more about playing with my arse, using things to basically fuck myself with.

I'm a bit unsure how to best start, so any advice or suggestions would be welcome.

I shave my arse, which feels great. I just want to feel something in me.

Sorry if that sounds all a bit weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start with something small and plenty of lube

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Start with something small and plenty of lube "

With a wider bulb at the end so it can't get lost.

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By *an_bury OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Thanks.

What counts as small?

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By *riage12Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Invest in a prostate massager, some decent ones on the market

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Thanks.

What counts as small?"

Look on a site like Lovehoney and pick something marketed for beginners

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

[Removed by poster at 03/06/19 11:38:19]

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

There is a pack of three butt plugs starting from small to quite a lot larger, they might be good for you to start with

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=40004

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By *an_bury OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Thanks everyone.

I've got to be quite discreet so not sure toys would be good at this stage. Love the idea of a plug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to your verification you have already had a cock up there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Advice

I've been thinking more and more about playing with my arse, using things to basically fuck myself with.

I'm a bit unsure how to best start, so any advice or suggestions would be welcome.

I shave my arse, which feels great. I just want to feel something in me.

Sorry if that sounds all a bit weird"

Don’t loose It and end up in a/e

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"According to your verification you have already had a cock up there "

At first I thought "Ha! Busted!" but maybe that's why OP now wants more ass play when he's on his own?

I'd say may struggle if toys aren't possible

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By *an_bury OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"According to your verification you have already had a cock up there

At first I thought "Ha! Busted!" but maybe that's why OP now wants more ass play when he's on his own?

I'd say may struggle if toys aren't possible "

Ha. Yep exactly. Was a while ago and I want to experiment more. I figured playing would be a bit easier than meeting others who'd want to do it. Although I may be wrong

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By *an_bury OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Found something yesterday. Only small

Used a bit of Vaseline

Came quite quickly. Need to try something a bit bigger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad you enjoyed yourself. Can only reiterate what someone else has already said, beware the dangers of using something without a base. Once whatever you’re using gets slippery with lube and there’s nothing to grab onto to, it’s easy to find your “toy” disappearing into a nether world that only and embarrassing trip to A and E can correct

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By *an_bury OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Thanks. I was thinking about that.

Slippery hand and all that

I'm looking fwd to trying something a bit bigger. Hopefully this weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bury it Ian your arse, sunshine.

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By *an_bury OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Bury it Ian your arse, sunshine."

Ha. Not sure about that lol

But will see how it goes....

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By *an_bury OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Did it. Took pics

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By *an_bury OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Cucumber felt a bit too much

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