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By *canfly OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey

Hi, I’m finding it difficult to message people on this site. I ask them how they are and compliment their photos but I get nothing back am I doing or saying something wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check out the site FAQ's. No one owes you a reply and you should take a non-reply as a 'no, thank you'.

Women and couples are massively outnumbered by single guys here and many get inundated wuth messages and often struggle to deal with those from.people they may be interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, I’m finding it difficult to message people on this site. I ask them how they are and compliment their photos but I get nothing back am I doing or saying something wrong? "

Well have a think, how many times a day/week people will answer the same "how are you" before they'll get fed up with the question and unless there's something more interesting following the first three words will ignore it. Also the reasons for not getting an answer to your messages may be deeper than the messages themselves.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above.

Women literally get the same messages, sometimes, hundreds of times a day. Whether they are just the mundane, how are You?, what you up to? Wanna meet?.

Or just crude filth.

Try and be different.

Don't throw any sexual references in, instant turn off,

Try and be funny. Just something different from the norm.

The same goes for your profile text. Because women, unlike most men, do read profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah your profile is a little flat, no character, and most women look at the profile before replying need to add something to make it more exciting . I agree with above comments "how are you" messages are just bland and not worth replying to

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

You need more pics I can fly...us women see cocks everyday..also you need to specify interests you have sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get the 'how's you' message and I reply with 'in fine hows you ?'

I usually get the 'bored and horny' reply .

I don't reply to the hi how's you messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I get the 'how's you' message and I reply with 'in fine hows you ?'

I usually get the 'bored and horny' reply .

I don't reply to the hi how's you messages"

Oooppppssss sorry wrong thread .

I apologize.

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