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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey so I’ve been on and off fab for a while now, always keep my profile I just decide to give it a break, but I really struggle with getting most women to message me or want to meet. I know there’s a lot of competition on here but I’m just wondering where am I going wrong? Can anyone help! Is it my profile or something else?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

Your profile will put off almost everybody. It's all about you and what you want, not what you can offer.

Your photos are almost entirely cock pics, which are largely lambasted on here.

Your profile is your shop window. You should set it up looking from the perspective of somebody you are hoping to attract. It needs to answer the question "Why would I want to meet this person?" If it doesn't (and yours doesn't) why would you think somebody would want to meet you?

So let me turn round your question on you and you try to answer it. What is on your profile that could interest somebody sufficiently to consider meeting you specifically, when they have an enormous amount of choice?

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Its 100% generic. Every line is repeated on most other profiles which just makes you sound dull and like you say whatever you think ladies wanna hear.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

bland, nothing i'd be interested in , sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bland, nothing i'd be interested in , sorry"

And so your constructive criticism is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics are a bit boring and ‘samey’

Profile is bland.

Status is meh and would put me off.

Try stand out from the crowd

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

6 sentences, 5 of which start with "I", think you need to leave it as it is, says everything ladies should know about you lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 out of your 4 public pics are of a cock, do you really want to be perceived that way? I'm sure you could do better.

Your profile does not stand out from thousands of other single men profiles.

Would you really meet a 99 year old?

Last but not least, looks like you have ticked every interest going.

There is plenty of profile advice on the forum already, simple forum search could prove very useful.

Good luck.

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By *RNIE1920Man
over a year ago

anywhere

Can anyone help me please if 2 unverified members meet how do they verifie eachother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He’s not given it much of a chance. Of he’s gone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone help me please if 2 unverified members meet how do they verifie eachother"

Start your own thread on that one maybe or search. It’s there for a reason though, so two fake profiles by the same person can’t verify each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to admire the dedication of some of the posters, complain in the form of asking advice and then leave the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone help me please if 2 unverified members meet how do they verifie eachother"

One of you could go into a Chatroom for a webcam veri.

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