FabSwingers.com forum: couples who check u out

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

then when u try message them u are blocked 6 times its happened to me today how hard is it 2 know im a man jesus. Shouldnt be allowed why look at mens prof if u dont want to talk to them. Somethin should be done about them as it is annoying

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran

Lol theres ant number of reason, but if you post a thread most people will check you out

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if they have all guys blocked,they might like to do the picking, they have looked.. like what they see...... and may be in touch at some point in the future.

moaning about them may just give off a negative vibe.

if they have blocked your profile, they don't want you.

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By *arumcoupleCouple
over a year ago

salisbury

"if they have all guys blocked,they might like to do the picking, they have looked.. like what they see...... and may be in touch at some point in the future.

moaning about them may just give off a negative vibe.

if they have blocked your profile, they don't want you.

Spot on well said

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By *arumcoupleCouple
over a year ago

salisbury

"if they have all guys blocked,they might like to do the picking, they have looked.. like what they see...... and may be in touch at some point in the future.

moaning about them may just give off a negative vibe.

if they have blocked your profile, they don't want you.

Spot on well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We as a couple do look at single men profiles! If we like then we will send a wink or a message!

But we do have to look at the profile to see if we like it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We as a couple do look at single men profiles! If we like then we will send a wink or a message!

But we do have to look at the profile to see if we like it!"

wink!- och they blocked me...im leaving fab ffs...ridiculous!!!!!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would a couple know if they want to talk to you without looking at the profile? If I had to talk to every guy i'd read the profile of I'd be giving very mixed messages and end up being called a timewaster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We as a couple do look at single men profiles! If we like then we will send a wink or a message!

But we do have to look at the profile to see if we like it!"

Yep we window shop quite often. If there's someone we have in mind then we'll message them. To the OP You make your own luck on sites like these...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well how are you meant to know if you like a profile and want to take it any further if don't look at it?

Lucky dip perhaps?

And as someone has said already!

Moaning on here really doesn't look pretty and won't gain you any more meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think in a nut shell its a case of some couples feel they have to block single males to save there inbox from filling up with un wanted messages .

now i know not all mails send messages repeatedly but some do and i had this when i was here with my ex on a couples profile .

so i can undrerstand this .

also a couple may find a male very nice to get on with and chat to but some guys take the friendlyness the wrong way and push there luck.

i mean there are many women i love to converse with but yet i still wouldnt have sex with all of them as i have my likes and dislikes ,

horses for courses really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just tend to accept the fact that people either want to fxxk my brains out or they dont .

bonus when you get a nice message off the one you least expected to be turned on by your profile and pics

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

isn't this the same as single men checking out couples and then deciding they aren't for them? I think it's called window shopping lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

op, answer me this question. How can you tell if your not interested in someone without opening their profile?

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

Well we were about to reply to the message you sent us.But after your rant we wont bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well we were about to reply to the message you sent us.But after your rant we wont bother."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our top tips for a more chilled experience on fab are: 1)Never look at your sent messages box, and 2) Never look at the 'who's looked at me' list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well we were about to reply to the message you sent us.But after your rant we wont bother."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ummmmm, doesn't everyone window shop on here, or are us couples just supposed to wait on offers?

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I think maybe the answer is in your own post... If I _iew someone ... and think I may be interested in them I mail them.

I changed my settings to not show up on the "who's _iewed me" after initially getting mail from near on Every guy I _iewed..

Maybe the couples in question _iew.. and block if not interested to stop themselves being bombarded with mail from people they wouldnt meet.

As you said yourself .. They _iewed you, and then you tried to mail them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will just be a case of them having single males blocked so that they don't get lots of messages that they then have to either delete or turn down...so to save the awkwardness and grief some (not all) single guys give they will approach guys they want to meet. If they message you, you can still reply despite the category being blocked because you have had a direct message.

Putting a positive spin on it does mean that if a couple do contact you then they are interested so you're not wasting your time and energy messaging people that would just say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone has _iewed your profile and likes what they see then they will message you. If they don't, then they won't but they've got to look at your profile first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"then when u try message them u are blocked 6 times its happened to me today how hard is it 2 know im a man jesus. Shouldnt be allowed why look at mens prof if u dont want to talk to them. Somethin should be done about them as it is annoying"
how do you know if you want to talk to someone untill you have looked at their profile?so your saying everyone who looks at you should mail and talk to you?My question is if someone has looked at your profile and not mailed you why would you mail them?Surely the fact they havnt contacted you means they are not interested

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