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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Noticed a large influx of 'help me with.. Or what's wrong with my..

How many have actually been to a club? If your profile is a less than a year old with no meets What your expectations?

Be honest this is your chance to air

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's not been a large influx, it's always a popular thread on here.

Not everyone is into clubs and not everyone wants to meet someone who goes to clubs, so that isn't always a solution.

People are likely just either impatient or intimidated by the number of people here who already have a bunch of verifications/meets. When women get 100x the number of messages guys get, everyone wants to stand out. It's no different than regular dating really, except here you can actually ask for advice. Harder to ask the people of tinder for advice on your bio there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a newbie.

I have no complaints

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree with a large portion of what you have mentioned but there is still alot of asking for help.

I think the expectation level is alittle too high and these threads are used as almost a 'hey notice me'

I've been on here since 2012 never really noticed it before up until now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a newbie.

I have no complaints "

This is aimed at males mainly women you generally have the opposite problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with a large portion of what you have mentioned but there is still alot of asking for help.

I think the expectation level is alittle too high and these threads are used as almost a 'hey notice me'

I've been on here since 2012 never really noticed it before up until now"

You've been on here for 7 years, and never noticed the endless " whats wrong with my profile?" threads?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree with a large portion of what you have mentioned but there is still alot of asking for help.

I think the expectation level is alittle too high and these threads are used as almost a 'hey notice me'

I've been on here since 2012 never really noticed it before up until now

You've been on here for 7 years, and never noticed the endless " whats wrong with my profile?" threads?

"

Nope.. I must of been ignoring or failed to see. So I stand corrected if this has always been the case. I will openly admit if I have misjudged something,been active in the forum for the past few months and though wow hang on a minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We aren't into clubs, why do you think other people should go to them OP.?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We aren't into clubs, why do you think other people should go to them OP.?"

Personally I feel its far easier breaking the ice (from a personal perspective) also from single men I have spoken to over the years.

I get it isn't everyone's bag and people have their own angles

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