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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Be as honest as possible as I have no fucking clue what I'm doing here. Can't tell if I should be more playful/cheeky or just upfront!

Recently added face pics as I figured why not, it's who I am after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3rd may picture. I would make your cock lean on the right size of the picture to hide the clutter other than that it is all good.

Nice TV btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It looks okay to me, better than a lot I have seen. X x

Patience is the key x x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My dick & balls always lean to the left though

Ok cheers, I'll pass the time under a tree meditating with a raging hard on

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness

Doesnt matter what you do with your profile, the chances of getting a meet on here are slim to none.Just about every girl will eithrt ignore your message, or if it is read, will delete it or never get back to you.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

'Would like to explore my Bi side a bit more too.'

Let's talk!

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Pretty good profile and good pics. As long as your initial message is good you should get responses.

What you have now is a lot better than probably 90% of the guys that have messaged me. Be patient and polite and it will happen for you.

It’s definitely worth attending socials as that’s where you get your face known.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd


"Doesnt matter what you do with your profile, the chances of getting a meet on here are slim to none.Just about every girl will eithrt ignore your message, or if it is read, will delete it or never get back to you. "

I disagree. He has a good profile and good pics. I would respond if he messaged me and at least one other woman on this thread has expressed an interest in him.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"Doesnt matter what you do with your profile, the chances of getting a meet on here are slim to none.Just about every girl will eithrt ignore your message, or if it is read, will delete it or never get back to you. "

This coming from the person with no pics and who types more words on this post than in his profile

Op, your profile is ok. It tells us a bit about you and what you’re looking for/have to offer. I always think if you inject some of your personality into it then it gives a true reflection of you. It’s also nice to see some face pic where a guy is smiling

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback everyone! I'll try to flesh it out a bit more and hopefully go to more clubs to meet people regularly.

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness


"Doesnt matter what you do with your profile, the chances of getting a meet on here are slim to none.Just about every girl will eithrt ignore your message, or if it is read, will delete it or never get back to you.

This coming from the person with no pics and who types more words on this post than in his profile

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i do have pics, just dont have them on my profile. I always send a photo with messages,i think its ok, but woman dont seem to like it. Have tried different ones, but it doesnt work.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

You’ve got happy eyebrows

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You’ve got happy eyebrows "

Thank you, first time my eyebrows get complimented on, normally it's my lashes

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I think your choice of profile photo isn't the best. I'd go with the fez or the one in the kitchen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think your choice of profile photo isn't the best. I'd go with the fez or the one in the kitchen. "

Fair! What about this current one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. You come across as friendly and smiley and look fine in your pics. Maybe, just maybe, a swinger shouldn’t need to say that they like eating pussy - it goes with the territory - but that’s pretty picky of me tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. You come across as friendly and smiley and look fine in your pics. Maybe, just maybe, a swinger shouldn’t need to say that they like eating pussy - it goes with the territory - but that’s pretty picky of me tbh"

Thanks for the feedback.

I genuinely love going down on a woman. Maybe I'll just emphasise that it's one of my favourite things

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"I think your choice of profile photo isn't the best. I'd go with the fez or the one in the kitchen.

Fair! What about this current one? "

Good choice! I like seeing a nice pic of a guy smiling, it makes you seem friendly and approachable. I also prefer to see just the guy in it rather than friends cropped out or strangers in the background.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. You come across as friendly and smiley and look fine in your pics. Maybe, just maybe, a swinger shouldn’t need to say that they like eating pussy - it goes with the territory - but that’s pretty picky of me tbh

Thanks for the feedback.

I genuinely love going down on a woman. Maybe I'll just emphasise that it's one of my favourite things"

Fair enough and anyway I was being picky. I bet you’re going to have a lot of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s a reasonably grand profile. It’s definitely very approachable

Personally I’d just move a few things around... keep positive about you

Move

‘Recently lost loads of weight and trying to explore & enjoy my new body with new people.’

To the end. It is very honest but self deprecating at same time - so save that to the end of it all.

You could even rephrase it as something like ‘ I’m really enjoying exploring since losing a lot of weight, of which I’m really proud.’

Also where it says ‘Love eating pussy, enjoy lots of intimacy and have really strong orgasms that last a long time!’ ; again put the ‘love eating pussy’ to the end. It’s true, you probably do- but it’s quite harsh to open with. I personally would switch off from that phrase but this is a swinging site. I need to get real!

Or- Perhaps rephrase that... after ‘orgasms that last a long time’ - write something along the lines of ‘so I’m happy to lie between your legs and play with you for as long as makes us all happy?’ Or something else less brash?

Just a personal judgement as it does read nicely already

Good luck

Mrs P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Just a personal judgement as it does read nicely already

Good luck

Mrs P "

Thanks a lot for the advice, much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s a reasonably grand profile. It’s definitely very approachable

Personally I’d just move a few things around... keep positive about you

Move

‘Recently lost loads of weight and trying to explore & enjoy my new body with new people.’

To the end. It is very honest but self deprecating at same time - so save that to the end of it all.

You could even rephrase it as something like ‘ I’m really enjoying exploring since losing a lot of weight, of which I’m really proud.’

Also where it says ‘Love eating pussy, enjoy lots of intimacy and have really strong orgasms that last a long time!’ ; again put the ‘love eating pussy’ to the end. It’s true, you probably do- but it’s quite harsh to open with. I personally would switch off from that phrase but this is a swinging site. I need to get real!

Or- Perhaps rephrase that... after ‘orgasms that last a long time’ - write something along the lines of ‘so I’m happy to lie between your legs and play with you for as long as makes us all happy?’ Or something else less brash?

Just a personal judgement as it does read nicely already

Good luck

Mrs P "

Blimey Mrs P that is very helpful! Enjoyed reading that post. Very rarely have I seen a "profile advice" thread go well or end in a good way. So this is a bump up for others... not for the OP because he is way too cool and chilled out. Plus he can cook so flippin heck haha! Hope the OP has continued success and happy memories like many of us have experienced.

This thread:

#PrimeExample

Nice one OP

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