FabSwingers.com forum: Help advice needed

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just had a strange experience with someone on here. We have been chatting for a while and finally arranged a meet this Saturday. The meet went great we sat and chatted for a while then went into the bed room for a play which was really good then we chatted he told me he really fancied me and wanted to see me on a regular basis and we chatted for ages and planned what we would like to do for future meets. He left my place with a big smile on his face and said he would text me when he got home. I’ve heard nothing sent him messages on here which he has read and still no reply to any of them or any texts. What happened?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a fact of life that from puberty, guys in general, are tom cats.

(most) women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place and a stiff cock will promise you the world

I think taking a guy's word for "I'll ring you" needs to be treated the same as "I won't cum in your mouth" and "the cheque is in the post"

It's a shame if you got on so well, but not unique.

Ah well plenty of fish....

And unfortunately I'm sure there'll be plenty of sharks mixed in with the fish too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's his loss my lovely x

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By *TUNNAWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

id move on an dont txt again

its his lose xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that guy just sounds like an idiot

get rid an u'll b better off.

i dont understand that myself thou, y on a swinging site do guys feel the need 2 say summit like that. this is only meant 2 b a bit of fun, theres no need 4 it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say he was just saying what he thought you wanted to hear

Some guys are like that just to get what they want and not really genuine enough to follow through unfortunately.

As others have said though hun it is better to move on and not dwell on his mistake, If he doesnt want to reply to you then it is his loss in the end.

All the best

Shock

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By *weet DevilMan
over a year ago

dukinfield

he must have been a idiot cos u r a babe move to bournemouth hun id keep yer under wraps lol xxxxx nick

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Id say he was just saying what he thought you wanted to hear

Some guys are like that just to get what they want and not really genuine enough to follow through unfortunately.

As others have said though hun it is better to move on and not dwell on his mistake, If he doesnt want to reply to you then it is his loss in the end.

Thank you

All the best

Shock "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you

Your welcome hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suspect it's a classic case of -balls full, brain empty-and he was saying what he thought you wanted to hear in order to get what he wanted. Don't understand game playing in swinging-no place for it. Big hugs. Ms

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