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By *r.J-Miss.B OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northampton

We're really new to this but mrs. is off for some fun this afternoon and we're both really looking forward to it but... I've asked her to keep me informed and let me know what's occurring during but we don't know how :/ I really want to be involved this way and want to know but she's not due how and worried that the moment will just get lost and detract from her fun if she has to message (let alone any pics that id really like)

So how or any suggestions as to when she should message, how often etc. what's fair to expect or hope for?

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Get her to phone you before she goes where ever she's going. You stay totally silent throughout

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By *unguy_4_uMan
over a year ago

Kettering

ask her to leave her phone on and mute your side or even better if she's got an understanding person she's meeting just switch face time on so you can watch the fun without being there.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Explain to the person she's meeting that updates and pics are an essential part of how you play. A respectful playmate should then bear that in mind and integrate that into the playtime, even suggesting what would be good pics or to send voice messages.

If it was something I wasn't aware of, I'd be a bit annoyed and think she was bored if it looked like she was on fab mid meet, but by good communication, I'd understand and throw myself into it, even messaging how good she is just to rub it in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get them to FaceTime or WhatsApp call, if he says no tell her to leave

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Explain to the person she's meeting that updates and pics are an essential part of how you play. A respectful playmate should then bear that in mind and integrate that into the playtime, even suggesting what would be good pics or to send voice messages.

If it was something I wasn't aware of, I'd be a bit annoyed and think she was bored if it looked like she was on fab mid meet, but by good communication, I'd understand and throw myself into it, even messaging how good she is just to rub it in "

This! Discuss with the person she's meeting beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely discuss it with the other person before hand.

When I meet my fwb he usually takes my phone and starts snapping away and sends photos or videos to my husband. Obviously there can't be too much texting etc as it can dampen the mood. So we send him some teasers then we look the rest when I get home

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Definitely discuss it with the other person before hand.

When I meet my fwb he usually takes my phone and starts snapping away and sends photos or videos to my husband. Obviously there can't be too much texting etc as it can dampen the mood. So we send him some teasers then we look the rest when I get home

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Exactly this When I meet with my fwb, we do similar, only she lets her hubby see pics as a treat, if he’s been a good boy

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