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Finding a stranger to fuck my FB while she’s blindfolded..

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By *lindfold Sub OP Man
over a year ago

Shinfield

Hi,

This is my first post on the forum but thought I’d ask for a few tips.

I’ve got a fuck buddy that I’m meeting up with on Saturday. She’s young and really hot and a true little nymphomanic!!

Anyway, it’s come up in conversation tonight that she’d like to be fucked by a stranger with me there (of course) while she wears a blindfold so that she never sees him...

I’m wanting to post it on a meet on here but wanted to see if there’s any do’s or dont’s...

Apart from the obvious of wearing protection, is there anything else that I should look out for when picking the guy that comes to fuck her. She likes an older man as well so I don’t wanna go too young but I really want her to enjoy it as well...

All suggestions would be happily received...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He will probably want to know that she is up for this, well if he’s real and decent he will, so you need to think how you do that without her knowing who he is. Pics of her making a gesture of his choice perhaps.

Check him out really thoroughly. Not just that he’s verified but that his veries are real, that he has repeat meets and is known to be reliable.

And still be prepared for him to flake out. Single men are notorious for not turning up for these kind of gigs.

And make sure he understands the boundaries and reflects them back to you. You don’t want someone taking the piss in this kind of situation.

Be prepared for her to bottle it. And let that be ok.

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By *lindfold Sub OP Man
over a year ago

Shinfield

"He will probably want to know that she is up for this, well if he’s real and decent he will, so you need to think how you do that without her knowing who he is. Pics of her making a gesture of his choice perhaps.

Check him out really thoroughly. Not just that he’s verified but that his veries are real, that he has repeat meets and is known to be reliable.

And still be prepared for him to flake out. Single men are notorious for not turning up for these kind of gigs.

And make sure he understands the boundaries and reflects them back to you. You don’t want someone taking the piss in this kind of situation.

Be prepared for her to bottle it. And let that be ok."

Now THATS exactly what I was looking for!!

Thank you so much for your reply...

As I’ve said in another reply, if for one second I think she’s not enjoying it, I would stop it immediately.

You’re right about checking the veris and making sure they’re real as well...

And if she does bottle it, that’s absolutely fine by me... it’s totally her choice to either go with it or to pull out and you’re right, either is totally fine by me...

Thanks again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have said go to a club, it would be much easier to arrange there, but I don’t think there’s many down by you.

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By *lindfold Sub OP Man
over a year ago

Shinfield

"I would have said go to a club, it would be much easier to arrange there, but I don’t think there’s many down by you."

We’re going to be near Ashby de la Zouch so East Midlands kinda way.

We don’t really want to do the club thing. Neither of us have tried that or even mentioned it if I’m honest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would have said go to a club, it would be much easier to arrange there, but I don’t think there’s many down by you.

We’re going to be near Ashby de la Zouch so East Midlands kinda way.

We don’t really want to do the club thing. Neither of us have tried that or even mentioned it if I’m honest x"

Fair enough. You would be 40 mins from Liberty Elite though, which is supposed to be one of the nicest clubs around. I’ve not been but friends have and have really enjoyed it. Just an option to consider as it would be much easier to arrange ‘stranger’ sex there.

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"Hi,

This is my first post on the forum but thought I’d ask for a few tips.

I’ve got a fuck buddy that I’m meeting up with on Saturday. She’s young and really hot and a true little nymphomanic!!

Anyway, it’s come up in conversation tonight that she’d like to be fucked by a stranger with me there (of course) while she wears a blindfold so that she never sees him...

I’m wanting to post it on a meet on here but wanted to see if there’s any do’s or dont’s...

Apart from the obvious of wearing protection, is there anything else that I should look out for when picking the guy that comes to fuck her. She likes an older man as well so I don’t wanna go too young but I really want her to enjoy it as well...

All suggestions would be happily received...

"

Its a hot as feck fantasy with a whole heap of "buts"

You aren't a couple (in the conventional sense) so how well do you know her - will you know if it's not working for her? Maybe discuss a safe word if not

Guessing she wants to not even see the guy - does she want to message? The best men will want conformation from her it's genuine (there are some real weirdos about)

How will you let him know her boundaries? Talking those through before hand will really help because it will be your job to enforce them

Talk afterwards- what worked what didn't

Have fun!

Ms Icebreaker

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By *lindfold Sub OP Man
over a year ago

Shinfield

"Hi,

This is my first post on the forum but thought I’d ask for a few tips.

I’ve got a fuck buddy that I’m meeting up with on Saturday. She’s young and really hot and a true little nymphomanic!!

Anyway, it’s come up in conversation tonight that she’d like to be fucked by a stranger with me there (of course) while she wears a blindfold so that she never sees him...

I’m wanting to post it on a meet on here but wanted to see if there’s any do’s or dont’s...

Apart from the obvious of wearing protection, is there anything else that I should look out for when picking the guy that comes to fuck her. She likes an older man as well so I don’t wanna go too young but I really want her to enjoy it as well...

All suggestions would be happily received...

Its a hot as feck fantasy with a whole heap of "buts"

You aren't a couple (in the conventional sense) so how well do you know her - will you know if it's not working for her? Maybe discuss a safe word if not

Guessing she wants to not even see the guy - does she want to message? The best men will want conformation from her it's genuine (there are some real weirdos about)

How will you let him know her boundaries? Talking those through before hand will really help because it will be your job to enforce them

Talk afterwards- what worked what didn't

Have fun!

Ms Icebreaker "

We’ve literally just been speaking about boundaries and safewords and me enforcing them should it come to that but she’s adamant that she won’t back out and knowing her like I do, I doubt she will.

However, I’m going to have to say all of this to the “stranger” before he comes and make sure he understands it and abides by it...

We’ve thought about how we can make the genuine guys known that it’s a real meet and we’ve both said a phone call before he comes could put that right or maybe send him a pic of her in pose that he’s asked for.

Just something like that.

We just don’t want a chancer turning up and then ignoring everything we’ve agreed.

I want her to enjoy it as she’s asked me about it and not the other way around...

Thanks for the reply though. Much appreciated

x

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By *lindfold Sub OP Man
over a year ago

Shinfield

"I would have said go to a club, it would be much easier to arrange there, but I don’t think there’s many down by you.

We’re going to be near Ashby de la Zouch so East Midlands kinda way.

We don’t really want to do the club thing. Neither of us have tried that or even mentioned it if I’m honest x

Fair enough. You would be 40 mins from Liberty Elite though, which is supposed to be one of the nicest clubs around. I’ve not been but friends have and have really enjoyed it. Just an option to consider as it would be much easier to arrange ‘stranger’ sex there."

Thank you x

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

We sort of did this tash txt to say she was horny so i told tash i was coming back and to be blindfolded when i got back me and my friend (whos done mmf with is before) we had a great time only thing is she took the blindfold off before he left so knew who it was. But she said it was hot not knowing who was touching where and not knowing who it was

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By *lindfold Sub OP Man
over a year ago

Shinfield

"We sort of did this tash txt to say she was horny so i told tash i was coming back and to be blindfolded when i got back me and my friend (whos done mmf with is before) we had a great time only thing is she took the blindfold off before he left so knew who it was. But she said it was hot not knowing who was touching where and not knowing who it was

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Ahh cool. I don’t think she wants to see who’s fucking her.

She just wants him to come into the hotel room, fuck her, cum, then get dressed and leave straight away so she never knows who it was....

Tbf, Just reading that makes it sound hot but they are her words and not mine strangely...

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Take her to a club, put her in a private room and choose a guy for her. There will be plenty of willing participants.

It's my, so far unfulfilled, fantasy to do this with a whole string of guys then to walk round the club without knowing which guys I'd fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is how most of our meets go. Master obviously knows my wishes and boundaries and relates them to the guys beforehand. She needs to be able to totally trust that you will keep her safe. Be prepared for no shows, it happens all the time but when it does work its hot! Good luck.

Slave

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By *lindfold Sub OP Man
over a year ago

Shinfield

"Take her to a club, put her in a private room and choose a guy for her. There will be plenty of willing participants.

It's my, so far unfulfilled, fantasy to do this with a whole string of guys then to walk round the club without knowing which guys I'd fucked."

Ahhh as good as that sounds, we haven’t progressed to the club scene yet. Maybe at some point we’ll give that a go as well....

Thanks for the comment though and I really hope your fantasy comes off too... x

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By *lindfold Sub OP Man
over a year ago

Shinfield

"This is how most of our meets go. Master obviously knows my wishes and boundaries and relates them to the guys beforehand. She needs to be able to totally trust that you will keep her safe. Be prepared for no shows, it happens all the time but when it does work its hot! Good luck.

Slave"

Ahhh that’s cool.

I just want to be careful and make sure we don’t invite an idiot over that’s all... let’s be honest, there’s plenty of them out there!

You guys sound amazing fun btw x

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

I've done this kind of meet and the guy I was with chose a guy he had met and played alongside at other meets. He knew that he could be trusted and it would all flow nicely. We all had a good time and I never did find out who he was.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why does she want an older man when she isn't going to see him ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why does she want an older man when she isn't going to see him ?"

In my experience older men are a lot more giving/less selfish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is how most of our meets go. Master obviously knows my wishes and boundaries and relates them to the guys beforehand. She needs to be able to totally trust that you will keep her safe. Be prepared for no shows, it happens all the time but when it does work its hot! Good luck.

Slave

Ahhh that’s cool.

I just want to be careful and make sure we don’t invite an idiot over that’s all... let’s be honest, there’s plenty of them out there!

You guys sound amazing fun btw x"

Thank you

Be very rigourous in your vetting process. Master takes no prisoners haha, one sign of not being respectful and they are blocked. You can never be 100% sure, so you need to be confident in taking charge of the situation. Tbh performance issues around other men are more of a problem!

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By *ecretescapeCouple
over a year ago

Nw

I highly recommend siverfoxx for this.

Have known him years ,he is absolutely incredible and very experienced in this type of thing and would make it incredible

I adore this kind of stuff.if you want a woman to play with her while she is blindfolded message me lol x

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By *ecretescapeCouple
over a year ago

Nw

Silverfoxx sorry typo!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner set this type of meet up for me. I bloody loved it. Still never know to this day who ‘ he’ was

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By *lindfold Sub OP Man
over a year ago

Shinfield

"Silverfoxx sorry typo!!"

There’s a few guys called silverfoxx on here. Not sure which one he is tbh...

Thanks though xx

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By *lindfold Sub OP Man
over a year ago

Shinfield

"I highly recommend siverfoxx for this.

Have known him years ,he is absolutely incredible and very experienced in this type of thing and would make it incredible

I adore this kind of stuff.if you want a woman to play with her while she is blindfolded message me lol x"

Haha well if you can get over to Ashby on Saturday night, you’re on hun!!

Only problem is, you’d have me in the room as well and I already know that’s enough to put anyone off ???? xx

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By *ecretescapeCouple
over a year ago

Nw

Silverfoxx in nantwich area.just mind-blowing he is.hes like the male equivalent of me hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an un certified solo Male on here I probably dont swing any weight but this is something I would love to do, turn up, give a woman an incredible time, pack up and leave, the idea and knowledge she wouldn't ever know who I was turns me on for some reason, one of the bucket list fantasies for sure...

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By *lindfold Sub OP Man
over a year ago

Shinfield

"Silverfoxx in nantwich area.just mind-blowing he is.hes like the male equivalent of me hahaha"

Haha!! Brilliant!!!

If that’s the case, then I’ll definitely think about an FFM with sometime hun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The whole "She'll be blindfolded and you turn up, don't talk, fuck her and leave" situation sounds really off to me. It also sounds borderline that she'll be doing it against her will even if she's given you full consent.

I can't imagine how guys would get off on this.

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By *lindfold Sub OP Man
over a year ago

Shinfield

"The whole "She'll be blindfolded and you turn up, don't talk, fuck her and leave" situation sounds really off to me. It also sounds borderline that she'll be doing it against her will even if she's given you full consent.

I can't imagine how guys would get off on this."

She actually asked me about this. I never even bought it up so this is more for her than it is for me...

I guess it’s something she wants to try but doesn’t fancy doing it on her own so would rather have someone she can trust to be there with her...

I’ve asked her loads of times if she’s sure and she keeps saying she is. We’ve even agreed a safe word as well.

Her safety and feelings in this are paramount and if she’s not happy to do it on the night, you know what, that’s fine and totally ok with me.

If she chooses to go through with it though, I’m hoping she enjoys it as it’s one of her fantasies and not mine...

I do get where you’re coming from.

I guess it’s horses for courses though.

What might be a turn on for some, could be a turn off for others...

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By *jtravellerWoman
over a year ago

surrey

Be careful to never leave her alone with him, even for a minute. I’ve heard of women being badly hurt & too traumatized to tell their partner, until after the guy has quickly left.

Hope it works out & all have fun

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By *lindfold Sub OP Man
over a year ago

Shinfield

"Be careful to never leave her alone with him, even for a minute. I’ve heard of women being badly hurt & too traumatized to tell their partner, until after the guy has quickly left.

Hope it works out & all have fun "

I wouldn’t leave the room at all. She has asked me to be there so there’s no way I’d leave her alone with anyone...

If I get an inkling that she’s not happy or enjoying it, I’ll step in and politely ask the guy to stop and leave...

Thanks for the input though x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd probably meet him in advance, so that you can guage the level of suitability and discuss the conditions/rules of the meet. Whilst not seeing him, she will still be able to talk with him, both before and during.

Get photos of the guys, as she may want to pick someone by physical characteristics, rather than being completely blind to everything about him - you'd ensure that facial details were absent etc - she may feel more confident if she's seen roughly how he looks, has spoken with him. If you knew your friend really well, you'd be able to know how to make things most likely to work really well, that she'd not backout etc - so as much communication up front is most important.

Consider the venue, as if this is at her place, she is somewhat vulnerable, not knowing what he looks like but he knows her as well as where she lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message walking taff he may be up for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do this with familiar peeps who you have organised it with is safer and less liable to go tits up and we've done that as our profile shows. You can still do it on the basis that she doesn't know exactly who it is.

Doing it with a stranger is taking a fantasy too far. He or she could be a right nutter.

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By *arvisrodrigMan
over a year ago

Manchester

If you organize it for a private location a short video of her saying what she wants should suffice for both proving her initial consent and letting people see if they're attracted to her.

If you were to organize a club session for this you could make a point of being sure she spoke to everyone in the room beforehand then only inviting one to a private room later, you'd be able to see any chemistry in advance but still not have her certain who it was.

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By *ibsonVicMan
over a year ago

Minworth

The point is Justthetonic, that this is fantasy. It's what your lovely FB believes that's important.

So a complete stranger is someone that she THINKS is a complete stranger...

If she's blindfolded she won't know if it's some that you or she knows. She will enjoy the thrill of being fucked by a stranger without the risk.

Another suggestion for you - why don't you meet a potential guy in the pub for a chat beforehand? If you're happy with him, then go ahead. If not, carry on the recruitment process.

Your job is twofold:-

1) Keep her safe

2) Help her achieve a mind-blowing sexual experience.

She can feel that it's risky and dangerous - it may well add considerably to her excitement.

Job done!

Have fun...

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By *hoknowswhatXXXMan
over a year ago

Ilkeston

I'd definitely be up for this, and wouldn't be the first time either, let me know if your interested. And Ashby is only 20 mins for me

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By *offee and KinksCouple
over a year ago

Notts/Derby

A safer alternative is to find a club with a female glory hole. Purple Mamba’s got one and i’m sure other clubs will have them as well.

You can stand on the outside and vet/direct anyone & she won’t know who they are. If it’s set up correctly, you’ll be able to see both sides of the divider and watch her pleasure whilst making sure she’s safe at all times.

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By *lindfold Sub OP Man
over a year ago

Shinfield

So, we didn’t end up doing this. She bought it up in conversation and I was happy for her to do it but a few minutes later, when I told her that I could get a guy off here, it seemed like she wasn’t that keen suddenly so I stepped back from it and we just had fun between ourselves which I was totally happy with....

She says that she definitely wants to do it at some point though...

Thanks for all of your comments though guys... it’s hugely appreciated x

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By *c1989Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

"So, we didn’t end up doing this. She bought it up in conversation and I was happy for her to do it but a few minutes later, when I told her that I could get a guy off here, it seemed like she wasn’t that keen suddenly so I stepped back from it and we just had fun between ourselves which I was totally happy with....

She says that she definitely wants to do it at some point though...

Thanks for all of your comments though guys... it’s hugely appreciated x"

Whilst it's an interesting fantasy but it's wrought with buts as someone else said.

There was a thread created in the last couples of weeks by a guy who was asked to be the "stranger". The majority of advice given was to run a mile.

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

we done this loads of times. 1 guys met and fucked her 3 times , to this day she didnt know was same guy, we also videod it so watch back together , cany horny.

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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

Did a similar thing for S and youd not believe how hard it was to get someone there. A few were up for it but then cried off and in the end I actually had 3 saying they'd come and one guy actually kept in touch and arrived, albeit about an hour later than arranged! The only difference was THAT s got to take the blindfold off at the end but, in hindsight, not having done so would have been even more mysterious. Needless to say that she got massively excited and loved every second of living out one of her fantasies. It was helpful that the guy was very respectful of what we'd agreed as well.

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By *lindfold Sub OP Man
over a year ago

Shinfield

She still really wants to do it but I want her to do it in her own time and not for me to push it.

I have to show her respect and let it happen when she wants it to...

Some good posts on here though

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By *y favourite knickersCouple
over a year ago

yorkshire

Good advise tigerlily lol

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By *y favourite knickersCouple
over a year ago

yorkshire

Great scenario. Done it a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I'd use a club with a female glory hole ....

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By *ames 45630Man
over a year ago

leeds

I help out

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