FabSwingers.com forum: My girlfriend thinks she might be bi

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone got any advice on helping her explore? I tried to get her to watch porn but i think it was just awkward for her lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Book a happy ending massage for her... Did that in bali and the Mrs' loved it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, join her local lesbian club.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Get her to have a profile here too, to meet women ...

Miss

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

"Get her to have a profile here too, to meet women ...

Miss"

This ..

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Get a couple's profile. Go to a club. Talk to her.

Make sure you can clearly verify her existence because a lot of people are automatically suspect of women on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get a couple's profile. Go to a club. Talk to her.

Make sure you can clearly verify her existence because a lot of women are suspect on here. "

Have to agree with this post

Ask her if she would like to go to a club, see if she finds women interesting then.

Does she know you are on here? Is she open to more people in your sex lives? Are you happy for her to have sex outside your relationship without you being involved? Lots of questions before you start this path.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

"Get a couple's profile. Go to a club. Talk to her.

Make sure you can clearly verify her existence because a lot of women are suspect on here.

Have to agree with this post

Ask her if she would like to go to a club, see if she finds women interesting then.

I hate to be a Debbie Downer about this but you really need to talk to each other about what you are both looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks

Mostly good advice, not sure taking her to a "masseuse" is a good idea.....nor a swingers club lol just seeing what people in my position have done thanks again guys and girls

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Thanks

Mostly good advice, not sure taking her to a "masseuse" is a good idea.....nor a swingers club lol just seeing what people in my position have done thanks again guys and girls"

Finding women on here is hard. Swingers clubs are easier.

But talk to her. It's completely up to her.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"Thanks

Mostly good advice, not sure taking her to a "masseuse" is a good idea.....nor a swingers club lol just seeing what people in my position have done thanks again guys and girls"

Why is taking her to a swingers club not good advice? You have virtually no chance of finding someone on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy her a copy of Tipping the Velvet and see if she enjoys it. Watch a film that’s less on the nose like The Handmaiden. Baby steps and ensure that you are helping her explore HER sexuality, not fulfil your mff fantasy.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Buy her a copy of Tipping the Velvet and see if she enjoys it. Watch a film that’s less on the nose like The Handmaiden. Baby steps and ensure that you are helping her explore HER sexuality, not fulfil your mff fantasy."

Oh god yes. Nothing makes me shut down faster than guys thinking it's hot that I'm with a woman. I find women attractive because I find them attractive, not because it's entertainment for men.

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

Oh god yes. Nothing makes me shut down faster than guys thinking it's hot that I'm with a woman. I find women attractive because I find them attractive, not because it's entertainment for men. "

Totally agree with this....

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By *urboTongue21Man
over a year ago

Walsall

Bi means lots of things and until the lady is clear in her own mind what she likes or wants then knowing what to do to explore that is difficult...and vice versa how does she know without trying it?

She could be bi or bi curious or bi selfish or just not actually bi at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And just to clear something up, i never said anything about ffm did i? So not sure why everyone thinks thats my goal lol

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"And just to clear something up, i never said anything about ffm did i? So not sure why everyone thinks thats my goal lol"

Your profile says you "would LOVE to try a FFM fantasy"

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think a club is a good idea. It would be tonnes easier than finding someone on here.

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By *obyorkMan
over a year ago

Kendal

Get her to watch every episode of Gentleman Jim

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

Enrol her onto a course

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By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton

Flower had her first experience in a club, it was safe and at her pace and happened very naturally whilst playing with another couple. We would certainly recommend this route of she is genuinely curious and not just saying it to make you happy.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Get her to have a profile here too, to meet women ...

Miss"

Good idea, she can also talk things through with bi ladies on here too.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"Anyone got any advice on helping her explore? I tried to get her to watch porn but i think it was just awkward for her lol"

Maybe just let her explore it on her own then

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By *exylilzWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Go to a club to see what she thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And just to clear something up, i never said anything about ffm did i? So not sure why everyone thinks thats my goal lol

Your profile says you "would LOVE to try a FFM fantasy""

In fairness to the OP, what man doesn't want an ffm?

Just because his profile doesn't mean he's angling his partner to this.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

I mean. I know this could be a controversial suggestion. But.

Talk to her about if it's even something she wants to explore? Then talk to HER about how SHE would like to explore it and if she even wants you involved in that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try soft/female friendly porn

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