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By *iffy1968 OP   Man
over a year ago

STAFFORD

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By *iffy1968 OP   Man
over a year ago

STAFFORD

How hard is it too find someone for a meet this saturday evening ? Where are we going wrong ?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

You are looking for white non smoking straight males without facial hair, willing to play bareback, be videod and photographed and who will pay for the hotel. Quite a long list of requirements.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can have as many preferences as you like, but you need to acknowledge that for every requirement, you're diminishing the size of the pool of men to choose from. And then, from the guys left who match what you seek, he has to fancy Lucy, and also be available when you want.

Can you see the problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are looking for white non smoking straight males without facial hair, willing to play bareback, be videod and photographed and who will pay for the hotel. Quite a long list of requirements. "

Couldn't have put it better.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"How hard is it too find someone for a meet this saturday evening ? Where are we going wrong ?"

As others have said, you have alot of wants/needs, the more you have, the less likely you are to find what you want.

Out of curiosity, why won't you contribute to hotel costs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know when I was part of a couple here,my other,then,half,used to say...the single bloke would be getting his rocks off... so he should pay! I didn’t and don’t agree. It should be split equally,in my eyes. Couples who say the single bloke should pay...and I was part of one...are being a tad entitled... in my eyes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are looking for white non smoking straight males without facial hair, willing to play bareback, be videod and photographed and who will pay for the hotel. Quite a long list of requirements. "

On point!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"You can have as many preferences as you like, but you need to acknowledge that for every requirement, you're diminishing the size of the pool of men to choose from. And then, from the guys left who match what you seek, he has to fancy Lucy, and also be available when you want.

Can you see the problem?"

Case solved.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"You can have as many preferences as you like, but you need to acknowledge that for every requirement, you're diminishing the size of the pool of men to choose from. And then, from the guys left who match what you seek, he has to fancy Lucy, and also be available when you want.

Can you see the problem?

Case solved. "

Absolutely solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It certainly doesn’t help that you’ve hidden your profile OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It certainly doesn’t help that you’ve hidden your profile OP "
it's not hidden

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I know when I was part of a couple here,my other,then,half,used to say...the single bloke would be getting his rocks off... so he should pay! I didn’t and don’t agree. It should be split equally,in my eyes. Couples who say the single bloke should pay...and I was part of one...are being a tad entitled... in my eyes!!"

Perfectly put. Very unfair to expect the single guy to pay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Play bareback.... If i was a single guy id run for the hills, first he gets an sti, then he gets stuck with the hotel bill, thats taking the piss!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Play bareback.... If i was a single guy id run for the hills, first he gets an sti, then he gets stuck with the hotel bill, thats taking the piss!!! "

I wonder if/when they get STD's if they send a bill for the medical expenses to the single guy they met last?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Play bareback.... If i was a single guy id run for the hills, first he gets an sti, then he gets stuck with the hotel bill, thats taking the piss!!!

I wonder if/when they get STD's if they send a bill for the medical expenses to the single guy they met last? "

Id say they do, id say they also look for taxi fare home from the hotel

Hang on lets see can we see any fellas with mug written on their forehead on fab!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Play bareback.... If i was a single guy id run for the hills, first he gets an sti, then he gets stuck with the hotel bill, thats taking the piss!!!

I wonder if/when they get STD's if they send a bill for the medical expenses to the single guy they met last?

Id say they do, id say they also look for taxi fare home from the hotel

Hang on lets see can we see any fellas with mug written on their forehead on fab!!! "

or doormat

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

It does seem like a piss take. Plus they have to have vids and pics taken, who knows what might happen to those.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Your profile is brutal! I was scared reading it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's completely up to the OP what you put on your profile and what you're looking for but from the feedback, I don't think they'll be a lot of takers. It's very specific and I'm with others, a little scary and very off-putting.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

If you are that desperate for a meet on Saturday OP, just get yourselves to a club. I'm sure you will find at least one willing male that way.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"If you are that desperate for a meet on Saturday OP, just get yourselves to a club. I'm sure you will find at least one willing male that way."

They won't be able to take pics or film in a club. Also they would have to pay to get in.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"If you are that desperate for a meet on Saturday OP, just get yourselves to a club. I'm sure you will find at least one willing male that way.

They won't be able to take pics or film in a club. Also they would have to pay to get in. "

And let's be honest, they don't seem too keen to splash the cash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are that desperate for a meet on Saturday OP, just get yourselves to a club. I'm sure you will find at least one willing male that way.

They won't be able to take pics or film in a club. Also they would have to pay to get in. "

On a completely unrelated topic, I hate seeing your picture. I'm on a diet and chocolate is the enemy!

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"If you are that desperate for a meet on Saturday OP, just get yourselves to a club. I'm sure you will find at least one willing male that way.

They won't be able to take pics or film in a club. Also they would have to pay to get in. "

True...it depends if they are willing to compromise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are that desperate for a meet on Saturday OP, just get yourselves to a club. I'm sure you will find at least one willing male that way.

They won't be able to take pics or film in a club. Also they would have to pay to get in.

True...it depends if they are willing to compromise. "

From the OP's profile, im not sure their into comprising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It certainly doesn’t help that you’ve hidden your profile OP it's not hidden"

Oh dear, looks like we’ve been blocked

How strange. Don’t recall the user name at all.

C’est la vie and apologies for getting it wrong.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"If you are that desperate for a meet on Saturday OP, just get yourselves to a club. I'm sure you will find at least one willing male that way.

They won't be able to take pics or film in a club. Also they would have to pay to get in.

On a completely unrelated topic, I hate seeing your picture. I'm on a diet and chocolate is the enemy! "

It's also yummy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are that desperate for a meet on Saturday OP, just get yourselves to a club. I'm sure you will find at least one willing male that way.

They won't be able to take pics or film in a club. Also they would have to pay to get in.

On a completely unrelated topic, I hate seeing your picture. I'm on a diet and chocolate is the enemy!

It's also yummy. "

I know, that's the bloody problem!

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Well considering I fall foul of every one of your conditions I would say that I am not what you seek, but maybe somewhere there is someone …. It has been said that there is someone for everyone on fab …. not that I believe it !

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Wow, very scary requirements. And a profile is even more scary.

Maybe someone desperately in need will accept these conditions.

We have much shorter list and still haven’t found a photographer..

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