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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello fabbers, happy Tuesday.

I'm quite focused on meeting women between 40-50 but I'm not their age preference in the majority of cases. Any advice or tips on how to approach this. I am in love with mindsets that are older than myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello fabbers, happy Tuesday.

I'm quite focused on meeting women between 40-50 but I'm not their age preference in the majority of cases. Any advice or tips on how to approach this. I am in love with mindsets that are older than myself "

Well it's their decision not to meet you if they don't want to.

Search those looking for your age range me ol matey

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Hello fabbers, happy Tuesday.

I'm quite focused on meeting women between 40-50 but I'm not their age preference in the majority of cases. Any advice or tips on how to approach this. I am in love with mindsets that are older than myself "
Then search for people that do want to meet your age op, that’s still no guarantee they’ll want to meet you but it’s a start.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you and I fully understand that, but unfortunately I'm not wanting to meet people of my age lol. Maybe I'm on the wrong platform for it or maybe I just have to accept that the majority wont go 10 years+ in the younger category

All advice is still welcome

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Find those who want to find you. Or go to a club. That's really all you can do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try a club.

I know I look for younger when I go.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you, I guess I'm going to have to attend club even though that's not my thing at all order be incredibly patient

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By *un4meanduMan
over a year ago

STOTFOLD

Like all men on here you are in a situation where the women are spoilt for choice,just as preferences state age ,wont see married .

All you can do is stick to your age preference and hope someone finds you tick their boxes or try a social or club maybe a milf club meet?

Good luck

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Thank you and I fully understand that, but unfortunately I'm not wanting to meet people of my age lol. Maybe I'm on the wrong platform for it or maybe I just have to accept that the majority wont go 10 years+ in the younger category

All advice is still welcome"
you misunderstood me op, I said look for people that do want to meet your age. You can do an advanced search in the site that might help you. As others have said there’s the option of clubs, there’s also probably an organised social near you where you can meet others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you and I fully understand that, but unfortunately I'm not wanting to meet people of my age lol. Maybe I'm on the wrong platform for it or maybe I just have to accept that the majority wont go 10 years+ in the younger category

All advice is still welcome you misunderstood me op, I said look for people that do want to meet your age. You can do an advanced search in the site that might help you. As others have said there’s the option of clubs, there’s also probably an organised social near you where you can meet others. "

Yes, organised socials are perfect for networking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you and I fully understand that, but unfortunately I'm not wanting to meet people of my age lol. Maybe I'm on the wrong platform for it or maybe I just have to accept that the majority wont go 10 years+ in the younger category

All advice is still welcome you misunderstood me op, I said look for people that do want to meet your age. You can do an advanced search in the site that might help you. As others have said there’s the option of clubs, there’s also probably an organised social near you where you can meet others. "

And by starting a post that may attract 40-50 yr olds to look at someone they may not normally consider and see how he comes across is also another good way to reach out.

Good post OP and keep positive. Good luck too. There's many who have stepped beyond their filters.

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By *ensual EroticismCouple
over a year ago

derby

try an event like Mature Mischief

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You all fill me with joy and positivity, I feel like we are a little team

I will keep you posted. Someone has actually seen this post and reached out to me so I'm already grateful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find those whose age preferences you DO match

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you and I fully understand that, but unfortunately I'm not wanting to meet people of my age lol. Maybe I'm on the wrong platform for it or maybe I just have to accept that the majority wont go 10 years+ in the younger category

All advice is still welcome"

There are plenty of women in that age range that are looking for guys your age, ya just have to search. There are no guarantees once you find them though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've found her. She is lovely

On a separate note, maybe this was the best approach for me to take

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found her. She is lovely

On a separate note, maybe this was the best approach for me to take "

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