FabSwingers.com forum: Watching your partner play

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Apologies if this has been covered but I couldn't see any reference.

So years ago when I first met the woman who is now my wife, we spoke about the idea of introducing a third person to play with.

I dismissed the idea saying I wouldn't feel comfortable watching another guy touching my woman, to which she agreed she couldn't let another woman near me.

We've never spoken about it since, this was 10 years ago.

Since then over the years I have found my mind to be kinkier and a little more open and an now considering the idea of doing this as a couple.

So my question is are there couples out there who had this experience in the beginning and how did they become comfortable watching their partners playing with someone else?

Thanks