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"Can someone please explain the various categories to me? Some of them appear to be very open to interpretation and are often totally misleading. ![]() Here's a rough guide: Athletic = Somwehere between Seb Coe and Giant Haystacks Slim = Somewhere between Mahatma Gandhi and Seb Coe Average = Somewhere between Seb Coe and Giant Haystacks, but out of condition Curvy, Large, Ample and Fabulous = Giant Haystacks | |||
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"Can someone please explain the various categories to me? Some of them appear to be very open to interpretation and are often totally misleading. ![]() All labels are open to interpretation...if they dont have pics...ask for them,if they wont send them, ask yourself why i say i am curvy...to rubens im probably skinny , to karl lagerfield obese ![]() | |||
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"But what is the point in dancing round the truth, it just wastes time. It's mainly curvy and fabulous that I'm bothered about, curvy says nothing about size and fabulous could mean fabulous but slim, or fabulous but large depending on your preference. Sorry but I'm just not into the larger lady. Some guys are. A better system of categorising body size would help everyone and as far as I can see most people who are of the larger persuasion want to be upfront about it." So what would you propose...yes it is subjective, im curvy and a size 12 to 14,,,why not just look at the pics if it matters to you that much... It seems you object to the term fabulous being used when u dont think larger ladies are...its just an internet convention, not a legal contract think this is going to turn into another "fat" thread, so quite glad i am off out ![]() | |||
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" So what would you propose...yes it is subjective, im curvy and a size 12 to 14,,,why not just look at the pics if it matters to you that much... It seems you object to the term fabulous being used when u dont think larger ladies are...its just an internet convention, not a legal contract think this is going to turn into another "fat" thread, so quite glad i am off out ![]() Oh right sorry didn't realise I was digging up old threads. And I don't want to sound mean so I am trying to use the right language. It's just as a single guy you need to look really hard to find someone and often there are no pictures. It's also the same for me, I described myself as athletic but I'm a bit muscly too, half and half, I suppose I should say that on my profile. What I propose is a weight scale as well as a height scale. They have them on other sight, then there is less chance of confusion or wasting anyone's time. Simple enough. Or even a BMI index...? | |||
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" What I propose is a weight scale as well as a height scale. They have them on other sight, then there is less chance of confusion or wasting anyone's time. Simple enough. Or even a BMI index...?" Jeeez hun its supposed to be fun, not a visit to the doctors.... But if youre doing new scales can we have one for endowed, WE, VWE, VVWE.... as well? Thank ya kindly ![]() | |||
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" So what would you propose...yes it is subjective, im curvy and a size 12 to 14,,,why not just look at the pics if it matters to you that much... It seems you object to the term fabulous being used when u dont think larger ladies are...its just an internet convention, not a legal contract think this is going to turn into another "fat" thread, so quite glad i am off out ![]() I think you might be overthinking this! Ask for pics, if they are larger than you like, say no! Easy peasy lemon squeezy! | |||
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" Jeeez hun its supposed to be fun, not a visit to the doctors.... But if youre doing new scales can we have one for endowed, WE, VWE, VVWE.... as well? Thank ya kindly ![]() We can send you a picture of our cocks if you like so you can judge for yourself? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Can someone please explain the various categories to me? Some of them appear to be very open to interpretation and are often totally misleading. ![]() Please.......... can't stop laughing ...... help sooooooo trueeeeeeee | |||
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"I think you might be overthinking this! Ask for pics, if they are larger than you like, say no! Easy peasy lemon squeezy!" OK thanks Einstein! What I'm hoping to avoid here is wasting my time chatting and asking for pics, because you see for single guys it's a matter of asking LOT OF WOMEN. It ain't rocket science. | |||
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"I think you might be overthinking this! Ask for pics, if they are larger than you like, say no! Easy peasy lemon squeezy! OK thanks Einstein! What I'm hoping to avoid here is wasting my time chatting and asking for pics, because you see for single guys it's a matter of asking LOT OF WOMEN. It ain't rocket science." why dont you put up a meet today asking for exactly what you are looking for (including size weight BMI etc etc ) and wait for the replies to start flooding in ...it works for me .. ![]() | |||
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"I think you might be overthinking this! Ask for pics, if they are larger than you like, say no! Easy peasy lemon squeezy! OK thanks Einstein! What I'm hoping to avoid here is wasting my time chatting and asking for pics, because you see for single guys it's a matter of asking LOT OF WOMEN. It ain't rocket science. why dont you put up a meet today asking for exactly what you are looking for (including size weight BMI etc etc ) and wait for the replies to start flooding in ...it works for me .. ![]() lol and tell us if you get one ![]() | |||
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"still laughing at BMI index ![]() Funny because... ? They have this on other dating sites. Why not here? | |||
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"still laughing at BMI index ![]() mines 27.91 ive just done it on the wii lmao shall i bung it on my profile ![]() | |||
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"still laughing at BMI index ![]() ![]() I'm more into the psp than the wii | |||
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"I think you might be overthinking this! Ask for pics, if they are larger than you like, say no! Easy peasy lemon squeezy! OK thanks Einstein! What I'm hoping to avoid here is wasting my time chatting and asking for pics, because you see for single guys it's a matter of asking LOT OF WOMEN. It ain't rocket science." It's supposed to be fun! | |||
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"still laughing at BMI index ![]() ![]() you cant stand on a PSP tho to find your BMI ![]() | |||
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"i find it funny because im strugging to believe anyones that obsessed with someones weight they need to know their BMI before meeting....surely thats going to far? wouldnt just asking someone their dress size do?" BMI is a crap measurement anyway. A short muscular person will have as high a BMI as a short fat person. Dress size sounds much more useful. | |||
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"lol why dont you ask them there dental records aswell! " oh can we do that i do have a thing about teeth ![]() | |||
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"i find it funny because im strugging to believe anyones that obsessed with someones weight they need to know their BMI before meeting....surely thats going to far? wouldnt just asking someone their dress size do? BMI is a crap measurement anyway. A short muscular person will have as high a BMI as a short fat person. Dress size sounds much more useful." but dont forget to ask hight as a size 16 on a 5ft women wont look the same as on a 5ft 10 women flipping heck its hard work being a man on here i never realised lol | |||
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"Same here! " just for the record i have class one teeth, having a thing about teeth i look after mine very well.....see ![]() | |||
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"i find it funny because im strugging to believe anyones that obsessed with someones weight they need to know their BMI before meeting....surely thats going to far? wouldnt just asking someone their dress size do? BMI is a crap measurement anyway. A short muscular person will have as high a BMI as a short fat person. Dress size sounds much more useful. but dont forget to ask hight as a size 16 on a 5ft women wont look the same as on a 5ft 10 women flipping heck its hard work being a man on here i never realised lol" Dammit!! Just too complicated. I know, maybe if I put on my profile that I'm tall and curvy! Oh, wait, I did!! ![]() | |||
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"i find it funny because im strugging to believe anyones that obsessed with someones weight they need to know their BMI before meeting....surely thats going to far? wouldnt just asking someone their dress size do? BMI is a crap measurement anyway. A short muscular person will have as high a BMI as a short fat person. Dress size sounds much more useful. but dont forget to ask hight as a size 16 on a 5ft women wont look the same as on a 5ft 10 women flipping heck its hard work being a man on here i never realised lol Dammit!! Just too complicated. I know, maybe if I put on my profile that I'm tall and curvy! Oh, wait, I did!! ![]() ahh but whats curvy? hang on we're back to the start of the thread lol | |||
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"still laughing at BMI index ![]() errrr , this isn`t a dating site ! ![]() | |||
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"flipping heck its hard work being a man on here i never realised lol Dammit!! Just too complicated. I know, maybe if I put on my profile that I'm tall and curvy! Oh, wait, I did!! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"They have this on other dating sites. Why not here? errrr , this isn`t a dating site ! ![]() It is for me and all the rest of the singles on here. In order to swing you need to be in a couple. | |||
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"Same here! just for the record i have class one teeth, having a thing about teeth i look after mine very well.....see ![]() Hope thats not all you look after lol ![]() | |||
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"They have this on other dating sites. Why not here? errrr , this isn`t a dating site ! ![]() so if your not swinging your dating? im not a couple but i dont date guys off here, i use the site to meet guys for sex not to have dates with | |||
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"They have this on other dating sites. Why not here? errrr , this isn`t a dating site ! ![]() Why do you feel you have to be in a couple ? We have lots of single friends on here who swing very successfully as just that - SINGLE ! | |||
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"Same here! just for the record i have class one teeth, having a thing about teeth i look after mine very well.....see ![]() ![]() well my BMIs high so im not looking after my body lmao ![]() | |||
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"They have this on other dating sites. Why not here? errrr , this isn`t a dating site ! ![]() I looked up the definition of swinging and it means couples swapping partners. Have recently offered my services to the wife of some guy, but couldn't offer anything in return. Does that make me a swinger? Do I even care if it's called swinging or adult dating, is it even relevant to the point I was making? | |||
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"But what is the point in dancing round the truth, it just wastes time. It's mainly curvy and fabulous that I'm bothered about, curvy says nothing about size and fabulous could mean fabulous but slim, or fabulous but large depending on your preference. Sorry but I'm just not into the larger lady. Some guys are. A better system of categorising body size would help everyone and as far as I can see most people who are of the larger persuasion want to be upfront about it." Call me stupid but couldnt you just put on your profile sorry not into ladies over a size 14 or whatever your preferred size is. Lots of people have their dress size on their profile. If someone asked me my bmi, even if i fitted what they wanted i would just pmsl and not want to meet someone so obsessive | |||
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"If someone asked me my bmi, even if i fitted what they wanted i would just pmsl and not want to meet someone so obsessive" How is having a preference for body type being obsessive? | |||
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"Same here! just for the record i have class one teeth, having a thing about teeth i look after mine very well.....see ![]() ![]() ![]() Look hot to me! ![]() | |||
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"If someone asked me my bmi, even if i fitted what they wanted i would just pmsl and not want to meet someone so obsessive How is having a preference for body type being obsessive?" most people wouldnt even know their BMI tho asking somones dress size is fine asking their BMI is just wierd in my opinion do you know your BMI? | |||
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"I looked up the definition of swinging and it means couples swapping partners." True, but on here it includes singles. "Do I even care if it's called swinging or adult dating, is it even relevant to the point I was making?" You brought it up! To be honest there are many ways to get what you're after on here. Yes, it involves browsing profiles and messaging people, but it does for singles and couples too! You're at a disadvantage on here by being a single guy but I can assure you, you do not need a significant other to get fun. The large number of singles guys who seem to play successfully shows that. | |||
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"If someone asked me my bmi, even if i fitted what they wanted i would just pmsl and not want to meet someone so obsessive How is having a preference for body type being obsessive?" 2/3lb can make a difference of 1 to a bmi. Difference heights and being muscluar can make a difference, bmi and actualy weight are not really good indications are they, surally if you say size 12, 14 or whatever its a better indication. Some people can weigh the same as each other but look completely different. Like i said obsessive. Whats the difference if someone weighed 10stone of 10 and half stone or between bmi of 24 and 27 | |||
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"If someone asked me my bmi, even if i fitted what they wanted i would just pmsl and not want to meet someone so obsessive How is having a preference for body type being obsessive? most people wouldnt even know their BMI tho asking somones dress size is fine asking their BMI is just wierd in my opinion do you know your BMI?" The internet is an amazing thing. Full of websites that contain information. If anyone doesn't know how to calculate their BMI then straight off, I ain't interested.. unless they still look like Carol Vorderman. | |||
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"get a picture - problem solved! Z" or go in chat and talk to women on cam ![]() | |||
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"I looked up the definition of swinging and it means couples swapping partners. True, but on here it includes singles. Do I even care if it's called swinging or adult dating, is it even relevant to the point I was making? You brought it up!" Nope. You did. You turned the thread into a debate about semantics, not me. | |||
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"If someone asked me my bmi, even if i fitted what they wanted i would just pmsl and not want to meet someone so obsessive How is having a preference for body type being obsessive? most people wouldnt even know their BMI tho asking somones dress size is fine asking their BMI is just wierd in my opinion do you know your BMI? The internet is an amazing thing. Full of websites that contain information. If anyone doesn't know how to calculate their BMI then straight off, I ain't interested.. unless they still look like Carol Vorderman." well good look cause i know if someone messaged me asking me to go check my bmi (i actually know what mine is) then id tell them to get stuffed after id finished rolling round laughing | |||
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"If someone asked me my bmi, even if i fitted what they wanted i would just pmsl and not want to meet someone so obsessive How is having a preference for body type being obsessive? most people wouldnt even know their BMI tho asking somones dress size is fine asking their BMI is just wierd in my opinion do you know your BMI? The internet is an amazing thing. Full of websites that contain information. If anyone doesn't know how to calculate their BMI then straight off, I ain't interested.. unless they still look like Carol Vorderman." seriously why dont you just ask women you talk to if they have MSN and a web cam, i find it works so much better for me I dont meet anyone without seeing them on cam, because lots have old pics etc and even tho its only swinging we all want to be attracted to who we meet, and a web cam cant lie Its better than any fliter you can get on here, even if they did have a BMI or size filter on here anyone can lie on it | |||
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"If someone asked me my bmi, even if i fitted what they wanted i would just pmsl and not want to meet someone so obsessive How is having a preference for body type being obsessive? most people wouldnt even know their BMI tho asking somones dress size is fine asking their BMI is just wierd in my opinion do you know your BMI? The internet is an amazing thing. Full of websites that contain information. If anyone doesn't know how to calculate their BMI then straight off, I ain't interested.. unless they still look like Carol Vorderman." BMI is deceptive anyway - if you are particularly muscly for your height for example it will distort the results. | |||
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"If someone asked me my bmi, even if i fitted what they wanted i would just pmsl and not want to meet someone so obsessive How is having a preference for body type being obsessive? most people wouldnt even know their BMI tho asking somones dress size is fine asking their BMI is just wierd in my opinion do you know your BMI? The internet is an amazing thing. Full of websites that contain information. If anyone doesn't know how to calculate their BMI then straight off, I ain't interested.. unless they still look like Carol Vorderman." the internet is amazing Carol Vorderman Height: 5' 6 Weight: 8st 9lb BMI: 19.5 shes well with your criteria...dont think shes on FAB tho ? | |||
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"seriously why dont you just ask women you talk to if they have MSN and a web cam, i find it works so much better for me I dont meet anyone without seeing them on cam, because lots have old pics etc and even tho its only swinging we all want to be attracted to who we meet, and a web cam cant lie " Now why didn't I think of that... Actually I did that today. She said she was 'fabulous' and that's all the information I had to go on, I'll let you work out the rest. ![]() | |||
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"seriously why dont you just ask women you talk to if they have MSN and a web cam, i find it works so much better for me I dont meet anyone without seeing them on cam, because lots have old pics etc and even tho its only swinging we all want to be attracted to who we meet, and a web cam cant lie Now why didn't I think of that... Actually I did that today. She said she was 'fabulous' and that's all the information I had to go on, I'll let you work out the rest. ![]() so cause one women you asked to see on can didnt go right that means you give up on it? Ive gone on msn with lots of guys i didnt like, thats all part of it im afraid, you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your princess as so to speak, just keep chatting, keep looking and you will find what you like | |||
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" so cause one women you asked to see on can didnt go right that means you give up on it? Ive gone on msn with lots of guys i didnt like, thats all part of it im afraid, you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your princess as so to speak, just keep chatting, keep looking and you will find what you like " That's fine. I get it. I really really really get it! Just a bit more info on the first approach would be helpful, save wasting my time and theirs. | |||
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" so cause one women you asked to see on can didnt go right that means you give up on it? Ive gone on msn with lots of guys i didnt like, thats all part of it im afraid, you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your princess as so to speak, just keep chatting, keep looking and you will find what you like That's fine. I get it. I really really really get it! Just a bit more info on the first approach would be helpful, save wasting my time and theirs. " do you want to know their iq as well? | |||
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" so cause one women you asked to see on can didnt go right that means you give up on it? Ive gone on msn with lots of guys i didnt like, thats all part of it im afraid, you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your princess as so to speak, just keep chatting, keep looking and you will find what you like That's fine. I get it. I really really really get it! Just a bit more info on the first approach would be helpful, save wasting my time and theirs. " just another suggestion as this is also another thing i find works for me Wouldnt you be better going to clubs where you can see the women before you talk to them? | |||
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" so cause one women you asked to see on can didnt go right that means you give up on it? Ive gone on msn with lots of guys i didnt like, thats all part of it im afraid, you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your princess as so to speak, just keep chatting, keep looking and you will find what you like That's fine. I get it. I really really really get it! Just a bit more info on the first approach would be helpful, save wasting my time and theirs. " if swinging is too much effort...your not cut out for it...it is the possibly slowesr way to get a shag known... | |||
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"Why don't we just distill it down to five sets of figures: Ladies: Height/Bust/Wait/Hips/Length of cock wanted Blokes: Height/Chest/Waist/Hips/Length of cock offered ?" And of course everyone will tell the truth... ![]() | |||
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"Why don't we just distill it down to five sets of figures: Ladies: Height/Bust/Wait/Hips/Length of cock wanted Blokes: Height/Chest/Waist/Hips/Length of cock offered ? And of course everyone will tell the truth... ![]() Some will, some won't. | |||
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"Why don't we just distill it down to five sets of figures: Ladies: Height/Bust/Wait/Hips/Length of cock wanted Blokes: Height/Chest/Waist/Hips/Length of cock offered ? And of course everyone will tell the truth... ![]() Absolutely, which is the same as now | |||
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"Someone close this thread please." why,you clearly had something to say, either accept you may not have thought it through or defend your idea that this site was about a quick fuck with minimal effort ![]() | |||
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"Why don't we just distill it down to five sets of figures: Ladies: Height/Bust/Wait/Hips/Length of cock wanted Blokes: Height/Chest/Waist/Hips/Length of cock offered ?" because some of us dont care about the above ![]() | |||
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"Someone close this thread please. why,you clearly had something to say, either accept you may not have thought it through or defend your idea that this site was about a quick fuck with minimal effort ![]() I did think it through and I still think it is a valid point I am making, but it's the same moot points being thrown back at me, so I don't see the point in discussing it anymore. | |||
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"Someone close this thread please. why,you clearly had something to say, either accept you may not have thought it through or defend your idea that this site was about a quick fuck with minimal effort ![]() so have some balls and defend your point, or admit that you were not willing to put the work in ![]() | |||
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"And an explanation of why it's ok to expect women to show themselves clearly on their profiles so you don't waste time on the fatties (like me) when your only visible pic is as helpful as a silhouette... ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Nothing more to be said from my point of view. End of discussion." ohhh the voice of a petulant 4 year old ![]() | |||
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"And an explanation of why it's ok to expect women to show themselves clearly on their profiles so you don't waste time on the fatties (like me) when your only visible pic is as helpful as a silhouette... ![]() ![]() ![]() Obviously as a single female swinger I'm constantly looking for a man to pair up with or I won't get any fun ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"And an explanation of why it's ok to expect women to show themselves clearly on their profiles so you don't waste time on the fatties (like me) when your only visible pic is as helpful as a silhouette... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() bugger that how dare u be straight ![]() ![]() | |||
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"*yawn* I ask again. Someone please turn this thread off." Ask all you like, once the ball starts rolling its not yours to stop. Unless it breaks the forum rules. If it bothers you that much, switch off, make a cup of tea, take a few deep cleansing breaths, and think twice next time you open a thread - once you've started it you have to take whatever you get. ![]() | |||
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"is this guy for real, cant even believe we are entertaining such fuckery " Go take a look at informed consent. On there they have BMI as a profile feature! No-one there seems to complain about it! Got anything to say, say it to my face! | |||
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"Put it forward by all means - it's an open forum. But since it is an open forum... And as previously stated, any flaws will be ruthlessly held up to scrutiny. Did it not occur to you that you can't really expect of others what you're not willing to do? That saying you need to see clear pics to make up your mind when you don't show them yourself can be viewed as hypocritical?" this is NOT the issue in question!!!!!! I show pics when the gesture is returned! So there is NOTHING flawed or ambiguous about my approach! I'm seriously getting annoyed now. Best just close this now. | |||
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"i would say it to your face that's why i am saying here so you can read it, you can see my face clearly on my profile so you can remember it and come to dublin, you need to get a life and stop being such a bitch about being single and body types ![]() why would i want to look at your face and then come to dublin, to have an intellectual conversation? | |||
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"Fair enough. I'll know better in future than to try to put forward a compelling argument for anything on the internet." You haven't answered the very valid point made by two ladies on this thread asking you why, if BMI and size measurements are so important to you, you don't have that information on your own profile and you have a picture which is useless in trying to determine what you look like. Now you don't of course have to write this info or put a clearer pic up, that's your prerogative, but on the same note don't go and ask it of other people. Again its the sense of entitlement that gets me, as if people have some god given right to information such as exact measurements, BMi or dress size. Its not internet shopping, there isn't the option for a zoom in feature so you can see every skin pore in close proximity. If browsing and talking to ladies is a chore until you find the one with the exact requirements then you don't have to be here. My advice would be to write on your profile what you're interest in and use your eyes, or go to clubs where you can see ladies in full living high definition colour and go and ask those who attract you. And stop asking for threads to be closed when you can't offer any plausible debate. | |||
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"is this guy for real, cant even believe we are entertaining such fuckery Go take a look at informed consent. On there they have BMI as a profile feature! No-one there seems to complain about it! Got anything to say, say it to my face!" Well there's an easy solution to that isn't there? Stay at IC and don't stay here. We're obviously not the slim, genius level models you are used to over there so not much point in you wasting time with us lowly blimps. Have fun! | |||
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" Well there's an easy solution to that isn't there? Stay at IC and don't stay here. We're obviously not the slim, genius level models you are used to over there so not much point in you wasting time with us lowly blimps. Have fun!" I quit the place months ago, because surprising as it may seem to you the people there are almost as petty and argumentative as they are here! | |||
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"is this guy for real, cant even believe we are entertaining such fuckery Go take a look at informed consent. On there they have BMI as a profile feature! No-one there seems to complain about it! Got anything to say, say it to my face!" ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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