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By *heRightStuff OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Hi there.

I'm looking for a lady or couple to help me improve my profile.

I'm allegedly reasonable looking (according to my wife, whom I accept is biased) but dont seem to be getting anywhere.

I'm an experienced swinger (my wife and I play).

Could someone have a look and make suggestions please (I can take criticism)

Thanks very much

John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boring pics! And ok, you're trying to be funny in your profile, which is different, but it is still just a cock picture! And no, we're not here to play Cluedo, but still most people would prefer to see something else than a cock!

Anyway, good luck.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Hello OP,

We agree with the poster above. Nice to see a little personality come through in your profile text, but tbh we would still have been put off by the two cock pics if you had approached us.

Your profile also comes across as married and playing away. There is no problem with that, but if that's the case you might want to consider being up front about it, as to find out later might put some people off. Also, some people may prefer it that way as they know you are more likely to be discrete.

Good luck

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By *heRightStuff OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Thank you for helping.

I will try to get better photos but my wife is crap at photos so I'm left with selfies unless i can find someone else to help my by taking some.

Yes I am part of a couple on here. I have permission to play solo (as does she) - so i should put that on my profile?

Thanks

John

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

So your wife is unable to point a phone at you and push a button ? I'm starting to have suspicions that she is happy for you to have a profile !

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By *heRightStuff OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton

I've uploaded some new photos, is that better?

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By *heRightStuff OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Hahaha. I didn't say she wont take photos, I said she's crap at it lol.

I can assure you she is absolutely fine with me having my own profile..

She says she doesn't understand why I dont get anywhere with it.

Thanks all for helping

John

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

If you are part of a couple and she has her own profile then there is no harm in adding that to your text, it might help you to convince a few people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could even give her profile some free advertising by adding it in yours.

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By *urvy Girl 79Woman
over a year ago

Near Bourne

John if you are struggling to take photos of yourself just set up your camera and record yourself through video mode. Then capture shots from your video. Hope that helps x

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By *heRightStuff OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton

That's a useful tip.

Thanks!

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By *heRightStuff OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Will this really help me or will it just lead to people asking for both of us rather than just me?

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By *heRightStuff OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Lol. We have no trouble getting offers on our joint account

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Lol. We have no trouble getting offers on our joint account "

Could you get some of these couples you have met to verify your single account as I would be wary of meeting someone who hasn't had a verification for two years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"John if you are struggling to take photos of yourself just set up your camera and record yourself through video mode. Then capture shots from your video. Hope that helps x"

Good idea!

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