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Couples versus Mixed nights?

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By *etro1940s OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

Having had our first "couples" event after a fair few mixed (lots of single guys) evenings ... the dynamics are very different or at least more complex. Would love some feedback and discussion on why it is so, how to negotiate and how to re-negotiate this space. We have had great attention from the boys and couples on a mixed night ... is it different when there is no surplus of cock?

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

We prefer mixed nights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mixed nights have more of a 'natural' mix of people and we find them more fun

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

We prefer couples nights, dynamics and vibe we find more for us as not looking for singles and don't enjoy their following, trying to join in, attention etc

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think both have their pros and cons - couples only nights are reliant on four way attraction for most people, so it can be harder to find those you are comfortable to have fun with, although you do have the benefit of not having to contend with the wanking zombie conga, there's also the thing of you have to be outgoing to an extent to break the ice and start chatting to others.

Mixed nights if you're looking for a single guy then obviously the four way attraction thing goes out the window to an extent, unless you're looking for bi MMF, but even then it's reduced from four way to three way. Yes you have the wanking zombies but they can usually be got rid of with a polite no thanks, or sterner if they are persistent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though we generally don't play with single males, and they are often in abundance at mixed nights, I personal prefer them significantly.

While we do play with couples we primarily aim for FFMs, at couples nights your odds of finding one are limited at best. Even if you're a stunner the numbers just don't make it likely.

The "wanking zombies" as the dehumanising language used here describes, in our experience have been neither overly numerous nor in any way a problem. During our play sessions, as a couple or with others, voyeurs have always treated us with nothing but respect, kept their distance for the most part and actually enhance the act for us as we enjoy that they are enjoying the show. Definitely increases L's squirting tendencies.

Mixed nights also tend to have more single females (even though most couples nights allow single females) so your odds of play with that group are increased.

YMMV as with everything, but mixed nights in a good club are pretty fun, whether you are seeking single males or not.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We prefer couples nights, but sometimes R needs to be a GG so we go to singles nights for that.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We find that couples nights are harder to start things with as there are usually friend groups meeting together. Mixed nights feel more dynamic but it does depend on the ratios of single guys to couples and women.

Getting to know others from the guest list before hand can help.

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