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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hiya everyone,

I joined a few weeks back now, but to be 100% honest I don't really know how things work on this site at all.

Was just wondering if there are any kind of rules to follow or do's and don'ts ect.

Also I have tried to be as open as I can on my profile and don't know if I have put what most people would want to hear on it, If some could also give me some feedback on that as well as the advise that would be extremely helpful to me

Thanks in advance guys and girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi newbie

Your profile looks fine to me as its quite informative, so thumb's up

You have face pics which a lot of ladies like to see instead of loads of cock pics... so another

I'd change the paragraph that you say you are straight and want to make things clear. It sounds like you are getting a bit arsey lol! Just saying you are straight should be enough

Good luck and welcome to the madhouse xx

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

All of the above...

Not sure what u mean about how things work...its a social networking site, a way to come into contact with ppl who share simular intrests to you, how you do that is up to you...forums, messages, chat, or most likely a combination of the above.

Remember as a single man you will have to do the legwork, i have never sent an unsolicited message in my life...because i have never needed too.

Secondly swinging takes place out there, the site is just a tool, going to socials where you cease to be a newbie and become a person is always a great idea.

Hope this is the kind of thing u meant...

i think u will do well, nice pics and good attitude

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

DO....Be yourself!

DONT.....Take anything for granted!

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By *obby ShaftaMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

From 1 single bloke to another you'll find a lot of other's out there.

My advice would be to be polite, considerate and respectful.

The ladies on here tend to be inundated with messages so perhaps cannot reply just don't be offended if you don't here anything.

I always find the best place to meet people is in a club where you can chat and get to know people.

It can be difficult to get your personality across in messages as they can be misunderstood so please be careful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you guys for the tips, and I understand that everyone has types so I don't mind if I don't hear back from people

Thanks again guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On thing, if ur going to take pics via a mirror, make sure it's super clean! Xx othing puts me off like clutter and mess in the background of pics!

If ur mirror is manky ur loo might be too xx

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

A lot of good advice above.

Be realistic with your expectations of the site.

Also, in 2 weeks time don't post a thread starting either " is this site full of timewasters, I've been 2 weeks and noone actually meets" or " is a simple no thanks too much to ask??"

Good luck and get to a club/social and you'll be fine.

D&K

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Ditto the advice above....

My addition would be don't take it too seriously...

have fun and enjoy..

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By *scottMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

All I can do is echo the comments of everyone above. Try to attend socials and clubs as people will get to meet you and not a string of words, this is always better no matter how good the string of words is.

So good luck and happy swinging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you even more guys, Seems to be a good community here

As for getting out to meets, I will when the time is right I am just happy getting to know the scene atm as its very interesting

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