FabSwingers.com forum: Shaving advice for crossdresser

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi.

I so want to shave my legs.

The problem is my other half doesn’t know about my dressing up.

What excuse could I give her for shaving my legs.

Has anyone got any tips. Medical reasons etc.

I’m not a sporty person. So saying I’m taking up cycling or swimming is not a reason.

Any advice please. Xx.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was thinking of saying.

“I seem to have ingrowing hairs on my leg “

Does that sound plausible.

Help and advice appreciated x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got d*unk?

I fancied a change?

First time I shaved mine was because I was wearing fishnets to Rocky Horror which didn't raise any eyebrows, and your luck is in as it's currently touring the UK.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I got d*unk?

I fancied a change?

First time I shaved mine was because I was wearing fishnets to Rocky Horror which didn't raise any eyebrows, and your luck is in as it's currently touring the UK."

Thanks.

Always a difficult one this xx

Nice photo by the way xx

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By *ena_LjubovTV/TS
over a year ago

Cork

Surely you could just say that you want to try it and see how it feels.

Heck, go half true and say smooth legs are your fetish and you want to try it out for yourself.

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

You don't need anyone's permission to shave or wax your legs.

Just go do it.

When your partner wonders why, it is because you like the smooth feeling for a change.

No need to lie - that will cause more damage to your relationship than simply not telling the whole story.

Hope this helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, just an outside perspective. I understand if now's not the right time for you to be truthful with your partner. And if that's the case I'd say claim a skin condition with the need of applying lotion/moisturiser perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all so far for the advice xx

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
over a year ago

Darlaston

Buy a bike and cycling shorts and cycle for fun then say that shaving you legs helps and Our so your going to lose a few pounds and the sex will be better than b4 then it's a win win for you both x

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By *uartz24Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

Maybe say you and some work mates have agreed to shave them off to raise money for charity, and to ease the guilt make a donation to the charity of your choice

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

I don't bleive this where do u hide all the clothes n wigs then lol

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

"I don't bleive this where do u hide all the clothes n wigs then lol"

Ok Columbo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more effort you put into the reason, the more 'suspicious' it would seem.

I doubt very much your other half would care anyway, but something simple like "I wondered what it was like to have smooth legs so stole your shaving foam from the bathroom, check me out!" would probably work

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By *irty doggXXXMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I agree with the, was just curious to see what it felt like excuse. Then just see what they say, if they are OK with it just carry on. I would say tho, it's not a nice feeling when it's growing back. Itchy, ingrowing hairs and spots etc. I'm saving to get mine lasered atm.

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

It’s summertime x

You are sick of having hairy legs x

Start by clippering them back to a nice short length x

Then in a few weeks x

Have a trim and tidy up x

Ask your S.O to run her hand along your legs saying how much better it feels for you x

Say you think you’ve discovered Manscaping!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone.

Some great ideas there.

Oh. To answer the question.

I hide all my stuff at a very good friends house

She looks after everything for me. Xx.

Working on this at the moment.

Last night I was telling her my legs seem very itchy x.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

How about not trying to make a fool of the person you married.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How about not trying to make a fool of the person you married. "

Thank you for the message.

As you don’t know my personal situation I would suggest you keep those comments to your self.

I’m more than happy to take constructive advice and help.

But if you have issues then keep them to yourself.

Most people in here have messaged on this forum and to me privately with help and advice.

If you are that way inclined to judge someone without knowing the full reasons. Then shame on you.

Fab is a good place for most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about not trying to make a fool of the person you married. "

The OP asked for advice not condemnation!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How about not trying to make a fool of the person you married.

The OP asked for advice not condemnation!"

Thank you for that comment. It is greatly appreciated. Xx.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about not trying to make a fool of the person you married.

The OP asked for advice not condemnation!

Thank you for that comment. It is greatly appreciated. Xx. "

You are welcome. The other comment was completely uncalled for x

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

"How about not trying to make a fool of the person you married. "

A tad judgemental perhaps.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"How about not trying to make a fool of the person you married.

Thank you for the message.

As you don’t know my personal situation I would suggest you keep those comments to your self.

I’m more than happy to take constructive advice and help.

But if you have issues then keep them to yourself.

Most people in here have messaged on this forum and to me privately with help and advice.

If you are that way inclined to judge someone without knowing the full reasons. Then shame on you.

Fab is a good place for most.

Perhaps she already knows or at least suspects and revealing your interest would be a huge relief to you both.

Mind you, one TV at a club told me that his wife attacked and punched him when told.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you to everybody that has taken the time to reply to me privately or on here with advice and help.

Your comments are greatly appreciated xxx

Thank you all xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you to everybody that has taken the time to reply to me privately or on here with advice and help.

Your comments are greatly appreciated xxx

Thank you all xxx

Good luck lovely. Let us know how it goes! x

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By *uriouscouple38Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

My domme thought I shaved all over,under arms and cock I do ,I told her I didn't and I was naturally smooth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could try the charity waxing route.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then say it didn’t grow back or that you liked it so kept it smooth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you.

Like the idea of charity wax xx

Painful mind.

Pain is worth it for beauty though.

Some really great answers and comments here xx

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By *moelmoCouple
over a year ago

berkshire

My husband occasionally shaves his legs in the bath because he’s bored and there’s nothing else to do. (Yeah I know!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My husband occasionally shaves his legs in the bath because he’s bored and there’s nothing else to do. (Yeah I know!)"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well tonight is the night I use veet on my legs.

Excited to have smooth legs.

Wish me luck.

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By *earboynottinghamMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

It’s either a new swimming hobby or being a sexual deviant!

No judgement but both are equally good excuses / explanations in my eyes!

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

"Hi, just an outside perspective. I understand if now's not the right time for you to be truthful with your partner. And if that's the case I'd say claim a skin condition with the need of applying lotion/moisturiser perhaps?"
Yes that is a good one

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

"Well tonight is the night I use veet on my legs.

Excited to have smooth legs.

Wish me luck. "
I use veet just make sure you rinse it off properly otherwise you will itch a lot

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All smooth now.

Went perfectly.

Love the feeling of smooth legs. Xx

All rinsed off x bit messy doing it but was my first time x

Thank you all my great friends xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's see some pictures now xxx and let us know what the other half thinks!

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By *achelNottmTV/TS
over a year ago

notts/derbys

"All smooth now.

Went perfectly.

Love the feeling of smooth legs. Xx

All rinsed off x bit messy doing it but was my first time x

Thank you all my great friends xx "

Oooh brill, smooth silky legs feel so nice.

What did you tell your OH in the end?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I told her I had itchy legs. Then a friend at university had done research and it could be due to the fact as you get older your hairs get coarse x.

Then when in Tescos I saw veet on 1/2 price x

So just said I would give it a go xxx

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By *achelNottmTV/TS
over a year ago

notts/derbys

"I told her I had itchy legs. Then a friend at university had done research and it could be due to the fact as you get older your hairs get coarse x.

Then when in Tescos I saw veet on 1/2 price x

So just said I would give it a go xxx "

Brill...does she like your smooth legs?

I hope the itching goes away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smooth legs are just the sexiest. I shave mine pretty much everyday in the shower which is bit of a task considering they are 36inches long but its so worth the effort.

Hope it goes ok with your partner

Mine was fine as they realised how sexy it makes me feel which has a knock on effect

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I told her I had itchy legs. Then a friend at university had done research and it could be due to the fact as you get older your hairs get coarse x.

Then when in Tescos I saw veet on 1/2 price x

So just said I would give it a go xxx

Brill...does she like your smooth legs?

I hope the itching goes away

Xx"

She hasn’t seen my smooth legs yet. She was working last night.

Amazingly the itching has completely gone.

Sorry may have to keep this up xx.

What a pain lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well. First time wearing stockings with smooth legs xx. Must say. Very very nice xx

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By *uckieboy10Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Do it 4 charity and make some money 4 a good cause ?.x

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Just have a bonfire in the garden and wear shorts

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

Home and Bargain if in stock Veet very cheap

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I don't like being hairy always worked for me and its true so works on lots of levels!

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

O bliss a forum For hairy arsed trannies, whatever next.

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Well. First time wearing stockings with smooth legs xx. Must say. Very very nice xx "

And has Mrs noticed/commented? (On your smoothness, not stockings - that's a whole other thread right there)!

You could always say now that the weather's getting warmer (in theory) you want to keep up with the smoothness. In Winter say it's now become a habit!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well. First time wearing stockings with smooth legs xx. Must say. Very very nice xx

And has Mrs noticed/commented? (On your smoothness, not stockings - that's a whole other thread right there)!

You could always say now that the weather's getting warmer (in theory) you want to keep up with the smoothness. In Winter say it's now become a habit!"

She’s been working night shifts. So when she has been home I’ve been at work.

Xx.

But plan to stay smooth now x.

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