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"Hi, I've tried a few, but happy now with a leather harness for play. Any that have elastic etc, you need something that is responsive to your moves, and not the delayed reaction you'd get with elastic. Get a harness with a cock ring that will take various sizes of strap on dildo. Tried many, but still prefer my Tantus anal dildo. Possibly a bit more expensive but lovely feel. Might want to practice with BF for him to gently feel it and get used to it. Lube - Super Silk off Amazon. Good lube and also tastes ok." Excellent! Thankyou so much | |||
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"I was pegged for the first time the other day, the strapon we have has a leather harness and 3 sizes of dildo. We have only used the smallest one for now, but it felt great." Any advice for my FB? He’s a nervous one | |||
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"Take your time. My first pegging experience was a hard plastic dildo strapon, she’s wasn’t kind and it kinda ruined it for me. The softer rubber ones are more forgiving. " I’m thinking quite small and rubber | |||
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" How much anal play has he done before?" None | |||
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" How much anal play has he done before? None " Lucky him lube up!! | |||
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"Start small and work up. You’ll be surprised how big you can go." Oh interesting!!! | |||
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"From a personal perspective and this is from my experience with guys, some fingering and rimming before hand soon relaxes and opens me up down there." Cool, I’ll try that first then | |||
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"Good luck and I’d be keen to know how it goes." I’ll definitely report back | |||
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"Only thing that’s stopping me from trying it? Someone else who is wanting to do it " Well yes, that would be difficult otherwise | |||
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"I was pegged for the first time the other day, the strapon we have has a leather harness and 3 sizes of dildo. We have only used the smallest one for now, but it felt great. Any advice for my FB? He’s a nervous one " Plenty of lube and get him on all fours, get him to slide back and fourth to control the pace | |||
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"I was pegged for the first time the other day, the strapon we have has a leather harness and 3 sizes of dildo. We have only used the smallest one for now, but it felt great. Any advice for my FB? He’s a nervous one Plenty of lube and get him on all fours, get him to slide back and fourth to control the pace" Great, thanks | |||
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"lube, lube, lube and take it slow" It must be tempting to hammer it. I’ll need some restraint here I think | |||
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"it is, but just wait and make him beg you to go faster, cause he will" Ooh I hope so!!! | |||
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"This is one thing I never think ill do/have the chance for. I dont really want to do it but at the same time if it feels as good as everyone says you gotta have a go lol " Got to try everything twice | |||
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"This is one thing I never think ill do/have the chance for. I dont really want to do it but at the same time if it feels as good as everyone says you gotta have a go lol Got to try everything twice " If its with you id try it alot more that that! | |||
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"This is one thing I never think ill do/have the chance for. I dont really want to do it but at the same time if it feels as good as everyone says you gotta have a go lol Got to try everything twice If its with you id try it alot more that that!" Haha thanks | |||
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"lube, lube, lube and take it slow It must be tempting to hammer it. I’ll need some restraint here I think " Just don’t. Go slow, real slow until you both get the hang of it. It’s the most dirty, sexy, filthy fun thing to do when done correct. Don’t rush or you’ll ruin it for both of you | |||
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"I’ve a dozen cocks and years of experience I’d recommend going to a sex shop and get fitted for a harness and go for a small soft dildo about 4-5 inches for first timers and also a medium 5-6 inches to up a size if it goes well Loads of anal play, plugs plus fingers and I like to use an inflatable dildo and inflatable plug a load of lube of course, I use pjur back door lube, you don’t need to keep re applying it as much as others as it doesn’t dry out Start to get the feeling by just humping him without the strapon till he is begging for it then attach and enjoy, let him hold your hips so he can stop you if it feels sore but if you do loads of play before it will not hurt if it’s small then you can go up a size, just find your own style and enjoy " Wow, thanks. Great advice | |||
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"My wife and I use a Doc Johnson with different attachments.. its trial and error.. with size and positions but hey thats half the fun hihi.. take it slow and easy.. " I’ll have a look at that, thanks | |||
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"lube, lube, lube and take it slow It must be tempting to hammer it. I’ll need some restraint here I think Just don’t. Go slow, real slow until you both get the hang of it. It’s the most dirty, sexy, filthy fun thing to do when done correct. Don’t rush or you’ll ruin it for both of you " I’ll be gentle | |||
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"Just so there’s no surprises we always douche ahead of strap on play " m Ok, I’ll make sure that he does that | |||
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"Guys who have been pegged. Is it as good as they say? Im gettin curious now haha" Yep! Any kind of anal play for men is good. Prostate play is insane if you get it right | |||
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"Guys who have been pegged. Is it as good as they say? Im gettin curious now haha Yep! Any kind of anal play for men is good. Prostate play is insane if you get it right " See ive tried it myself with a finger but just felt uncomfortable and not good at all lol must just not be able to reach | |||
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"Go very very gently in! Use a small size strap on and LOTS of lube on both the bottom and the toy itself. Just think of how you'd like it yourself and go from there. I live watching my boy's face when I do it OMG he loves it!! I rub some lube on my boobs and I let him rub his cock on them whilst I work on him...naughty but niiice x Best of luck x" Mmmm lovely when I use a flexible one and the guys got a big cock I like to suck and fuck simultaneously | |||
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"Go very very gently in! Use a small size strap on and LOTS of lube on both the bottom and the toy itself. Just think of how you'd like it yourself and go from there. I live watching my boy's face when I do it OMG he loves it!! I rub some lube on my boobs and I let him rub his cock on them whilst I work on him...naughty but niiice x Best of luck x Mmmm lovely when I use a flexible one and the guys got a big cock I like to suck and fuck simultaneously " | |||
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"Guys who have been pegged. Is it as good as they say? Im gettin curious now haha Yep! Any kind of anal play for men is good. Prostate play is insane if you get it right See ive tried it myself with a finger but just felt uncomfortable and not good at all lol must just not be able to reach " Why don’t you get a suction bottomed dido and stick it to the tiles over your shower or bath? Lube it up and away you go! Miss V x | |||
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"Go very very gently in! Use a small size strap on and LOTS of lube on both the bottom and the toy itself. Just think of how you'd like it yourself and go from there. I live watching my boy's face when I do it OMG he loves it!! I rub some lube on my boobs and I let him rub his cock on them whilst I work on him...naughty but niiice x Best of luck x Mmmm lovely when I use a flexible one and the guys got a big cock I like to suck and fuck simultaneously " Oh you're my kind of girl! Love it mmm x | |||
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"Is pegging when you stick pegs on someone? Is this a dumb question?" Your profile states you’re into anal. Can you seriously not get the gist of what pegging is from the conversation thread on here? | |||
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"Firstly, he should douche beforehand. A bulb douche will do the job if he washes 5 or so times. Then, start with fingering, get him used to the feeling of you moving in and out of him. In terms of strapons, we use a harness and different size dildos, which works great. Start with him on all fours and use lots of lube, position the dildo right and let him back onto you. There will be a point where it is stretching him which might hurt. Let him hold steady there for as long as he can, then if it's too much pull out and let him curl up and recover (poor thing ). Don't see this as failure! Early on this was necessary for us every time. It took a lot of tries before we didn't need to do this. When he's back up for a second shot you'll find it suddenly much easier because he is now stretched and relaxed. Once you're all the way in, pound him til he can't breathe " Exactly this | |||
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"Firstly, he should douche beforehand. A bulb douche will do the job if he washes 5 or so times. Then, start with fingering, get him used to the feeling of you moving in and out of him. In terms of strapons, we use a harness and different size dildos, which works great. Start with him on all fours and use lots of lube, position the dildo right and let him back onto you. There will be a point where it is stretching him which might hurt. Let him hold steady there for as long as he can, then if it's too much pull out and let him curl up and recover (poor thing ). Don't see this as failure! Early on this was necessary for us every time. It took a lot of tries before we didn't need to do this. When he's back up for a second shot you'll find it suddenly much easier because he is now stretched and relaxed. Once you're all the way in, pound him til he can't breathe " I can’t wait to pound him!!! | |||
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"Is pegging when you stick pegs on someone? Is this a dumb question? Your profile states you’re into anal. Can you seriously not get the gist of what pegging is from the conversation thread on here? " Only glanced through the thread - ended up just googling it. Thanks for the (unhelpful) response | |||
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"One of my FB’s has agreed to let me peg him - a first for us both. I have no idea where to get a strap on, what I’m looking for? Also, any tips on the act itself would be great, he’s a bit nervous. Thanks " We got a couple of kits off lovehoney. They even vibrate to help please us both. Start small work up, lube we found best way start with a toy in bum and blowjob helps relax him as you lube him. Then missionary is easy first couple times also you always hit the p spot on him and it should rub your clit with the vibration. Xx good luck we both love it. | |||
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"One of my FB’s has agreed to let me peg him - a first for us both. I have no idea where to get a strap on, what I’m looking for? Also, any tips on the act itself would be great, he’s a bit nervous. Thanks " I hope he remembers to douche first | |||
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"Start small and work up. You’ll be surprised how big you can go." This. Go slow. Let him lead first time. That is, let him push back when he's ready. | |||
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"One of my FB’s has agreed to let me peg him - a first for us both. I have no idea where to get a strap on, what I’m looking for? Also, any tips on the act itself would be great, he’s a bit nervous. Thanks " Fucking he’ll what a lucky guy getting fuck with a strap on and then super bonus by you sexy minx lol | |||
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"One of my FB’s has agreed to let me peg him - a first for us both. I have no idea where to get a strap on, what I’m looking for? Also, any tips on the act itself would be great, he’s a bit nervous. Thanks " Loads and loads of lube...when you think there's too much..put some more on and IN his man pussy. He's a very lucky boy! | |||
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" Mmmm lovely when I use a flexible one and the guys got a big cock I like to suck and fuck simultaneously " That sounds mind blowing...I much need this doing to me now!! | |||
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"I adore pegging and have plenty of experience of giving. So.... apart from all the other excellent advice given already, I would suggest that for the first time they straddle you. This allows them to lower themselves into your well lubed dildo at there own pace. Also a huge turn on as you can look at each other. You’ll be surprised and delighted as to how soon they will be riding you wildly. Very, very hot scenario! Miss V x" That sounds amazing miss v | |||
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"I don't know how guys can do this! After a couple of attempts Daisy was able to have her finger in my ass, it was horrible going in + took ages with playing + sucking. Coming out after had horrible too I felt like I was taking a crap. Yes mind blowing orgasm when she hit my prostate though. Tried again I just couldn't do it. We then bought the thinnest prostate massager we could find + tried about 4 times but I couldn't take it more than about an inch or so! Yes plenty of lube + play around the area, lots of rimming (which I love) but I just couldn't take it at all " Sorry that is with just a finger or thin prostate massager. No type of strap on or anything hardcore like that! I don't know how guys can do it | |||
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