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By *lwaysdiscreet OP   Man
over a year ago

Ashford Kent and Dartford

I know this is not me this just happens to.

But been chatting to a lady for 4 weeks and thought happy days we got a meeting set for this Friday.

Every message i sent her she was on the ball replying and thought great.

Sent her one over the weekend and nothing and then another one.

Thought something wrong here only to find out she block me.

No reason no nothing.

Maybe i am asking to much but after 4 weeks of getting to know each other a bit don't you think there should of been some what some manners.

Think it's all to easy sometimes with the block button.

As you think what did i do.

And they say the guy's are the worse on here well i think not some times.

That's me saying that now as i am pee off.

So guy's how many times have you had this done to you to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps she found out something about you she didn't like. Or she met someone. I wouldn't lose my sleep over it. It happened to me a few times - guys starting to chat for a few weeks and then deleting their account a day before our meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is full of creeps and social misfits...looks like you found one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab is full of creeps and social misfits..."

^^this

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

It would be nice if people told you their reasons rather than just blocking,try not to dwell on it OP.

Maybe life happened ,or she just changed her mind.

At least you wont be stood up for a meet

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you sure it was a woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this is not me this just happens to.

But been chatting to a lady for 4 weeks and thought happy days we got a meeting set for this Friday.

Every message i sent her she was on the ball replying and thought great.

Sent her one over the weekend and nothing and then another one.

Thought something wrong here only to find out she block me.

No reason no nothing.

Maybe i am asking to much but after 4 weeks of getting to know each other a bit don't you think there should of been some what some manners.

Think it's all to easy sometimes with the block button.

As you think what did i do.

And they say the guy's are the worse on here well i think not some times.

That's me saying that now as i am pee off.

So guy's how many times have you had this done to you to."

There's always a reason you just don't know what it is. It may be that you've inadvertently said something that's a red flag all the through to, she's played you and never had any intention of meeting ever and many points in between...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was going to block someone I'd at least say why before, then they'd know but this is fab, normal rules of engagement don't apply, it happens a fair bit.

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen


"Are you sure it was a woman?"

^^^^ This.

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By *lwaysdiscreet OP   Man
over a year ago

Ashford Kent and Dartford

Well i am also 100% sure i just said what i had said before.

Maybe in a different text.

Sure to it was a woman as well as she kept putting new pictures up daily.

Just hate being taken for a twat.

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire


"Well i am also 100% sure i just said what i had said before.

Maybe in a different text.

Sure to it was a woman as well as she kept putting new pictures up daily.

Just hate being taken for a twat.

"

Some profiles here are men posing as women. So it may not have been a woman.

Don't take it personally, just learn from it and move on. We've all had similar experiences

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By *ustalittleKinkWoman
over a year ago

in the shadows

It happens. A lot . A lot more than people admit too. Sometimes it doesn't matter how many checks you do to make sure a person is real or how cautious you are people can behave like twats. Sadly theres a lot of twats on here

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Too many to count. It's called ghosting OP. Happened to me just last week, he disappeared off the site overnight lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soooooo rude

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Could of been worse, you could of been sat with a nice hot chocolate for nearly an hour waiting for that meet, and they just didn't turn up, blocked on whatsapp, blocked on here, so.........

Just shrug, smile, carry on!

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Too many to count. It's called ghosting OP. Happened to me just last week, he disappeared off the site overnight lol. "

Let's not talk about "ghosting" was on a meet today and talked about that, it took me more than my usual 5 seconds to get my smile back that day

(However, todays meet more than made up for the "ghosting" so all good

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire


"Could of been worse, you could of been sat with a nice hot chocolate for nearly an hour waiting for that meet, and they just didn't turn up, blocked on whatsapp, blocked on here, so.........

Just shrug, smile, carry on!

"

I had one of those. Eventually ordered a meal and it was a good meal. Been back a few times.

Every cloud and all

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