FabSwingers.com forum: Looking for some advice.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey and thanks for viewing this, Ive been on here for a little while now and I haven’t had any success at all, I obviously understand that women on here get a lot of messages but I was just wondering if there is anything ‘wrong’ with my profile, thanks in advance for any help.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

"Hey and thanks for viewing this, Ive been on here for a little while now and I haven’t had any success at all, I obviously understand that women on here get a lot of messages but I was just wondering if there is anything ‘wrong’ with my profile, thanks in advance for any help. "

Can I be brutal?

Profile is crap, doesn’t stand out from the hundreds of other crap profiles on here. Photos are pretty bad too.

Your profile is like your shop window, your way of enticing people to look further inside. You need to show what you have to offer and also what your looking for. Inject some of your personality and entice people to come and interact with you.

There are things that you can’t do anything about, such as your age which will go against you. Because of this you really have to make a lot of effort I’m afraid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks a lot for your honesty, I guess I have some profile building to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I be brutal?

Profile is crap, doesn’t stand out from the hundreds of other crap profiles on here. Photos are pretty bad too.

There are things that you can’t do anything about, such as your age which will go against you. Because of this you really have to make a lot of effort I’m afraid. "

My advice is to actually follow the above advice as many ask for the advice, then don't do anything about it and then weeks later ask for the same advice again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah profile needs some work. Good luck op

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Firstly, you will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age distance etc.

Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.

Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. Quite frankly the few lines that you currently have written on your profile won't impress anyone. Your profile couldn't sell a Big Mac to a starving man, so it's not going to sell you to prospective meets. Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you.

You say you split your time between the North East and West Midlands and that you can accommodate. Where? both locations or just one? I'm guessing that because of your age you don't have your own place, and the other location is probably provided by your employer. There's nothing wrong with that, but be upfront about it.

Put on some pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile. Anything in between is great. At present, your four crotch region pics do nothing for you, especially the scribbled out one.

Good luck

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