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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have just been really abused on cam, i turned off and reported the guy straight away

Im very upset, why do people do that?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I have just been really abused on cam, i turned off and reported the guy straight away

Im very upset, why do people do that? "

Sorry to hear that {{hugs}}

People do it because they are colossal arseholes who get off on being mean to people who can't fight back. Go and look at LOLcats or Cute Overload and you'll feel better very soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww hope you are okay? what happened?

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

don't worry about it. bet it was someone who didn't have their cam on!

I get it now and again.

big hugs and don't let them get to you. just block and report xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have just been really abused on cam, i turned off and reported the guy straight away

Im very upset, why do people do that? "

In what way were you abused

?

Verbally or where you on cam with them and they did something your didn't want.

With out more info not a lot people can suggest other than report and let admin decide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry 2 hear that. Some very strange freaky

Beeps on the site I'm afraid. Unfortunately impossible 2 them out. Hope u reported hun. Don't let this put u off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Aww hope you are okay? what happened? "

i was playing with myself on cam and this bloke said fun and flabby instead of fun and flirty my user name and then asked me how much food i consume and that i didnt even look clean, whats all that about

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So sorry 2 hear that. Some very strange freaky

Beeps on the site I'm afraid. Unfortunately impossible 2 them out. Hope u reported hun. Don't let this put u off "

it has put me off, most of us girls are body concious and this had seriously made me cry loads, am i totally pathetic or what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because it is so easy for the mindless morons to be really really brave from behind a computer screen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So sorry 2 hear that. Some very strange freaky

Beeps on the site I'm afraid. Unfortunately impossible 2 them out. Hope u reported hun. Don't let this put u off

it has put me off, most of us girls are body concious and this had seriously made me cry loads, am i totally pathetic or what "

You're not pathetic at all!! He's a little prick that has to put others down to feel better about himself. He's probably got a tiny nob. That's not even one persons opinion because he wasn't giving his opinion he was simply doing it to provoke. Don't let it get to you, I'm sure there are many many more that were enjoying watching you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because it is so easy for the mindless morons to be really really brave from behind a computer screen"

Oh Hun I'm so sorry hope ur ok..... What a prick

Ull find his cam wasn't on cos he's a creature

It's like all things swing tho Hun ull meet ppl

Who'll wanna eat u up & ppl who don't find u

Attractive..... It's the nastiness I just don't get!

Chin up xx

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


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You're not pathetic at all!! He's a little prick that has to put others down to feel better about himself. He's probably got a tiny nob. That's not even one persons opinion because he wasn't giving his opinion he was simply doing it to provoke. Don't let it get to you, I'm sure there are many many more that were enjoying watching you xxx"

ignore the sad little creature not worth your tears!

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !

Shame we weren't on board at the time funandflirty1.

Would have enjoyed ripping the piss out of the little teenage shit.

( from the safety of behind out computer screen of course )

- Al and Peg

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By *unterslickCouple
over a year ago

tullamore


"So sorry 2 hear that. Some very strange freaky

Beeps on the site I'm afraid. Unfortunately impossible 2 them out. Hope u reported hun. Don't let this put u off

it has put me off, most of us girls are body concious and this had seriously made me cry loads, am i totally pathetic or what "

you arent pathetic,especially not for crying,,sorry to hear that you were put through that,especially during the day,,where were all the usual fun males/couples that are normally here during the day,,

as others have said just report block and ignore,hopefully the mods will kick the prat off,,no matter if it was said in fun or by mistake,no excuse for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah the brave key board warriors in the chat room. What you will find is this. You were playing with yourself on cam. Most probably had a lot of attention. So this guy resorts to name calling and abuse. It is his way of getting noticed out of all the people in the room competing for your attention. It worked, it upset you, but you noticed him. Happens all the time. Am not saying it is right, far from it. Am just trying to give you a slight insight as to why people are abusive sometimes like that.

Keep your chin up and take no heed

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Aww hope you are okay? what happened?

i was playing with myself on cam and this bloke said fun and flabby instead of fun and flirty my user name and then asked me how much food i consume and that i didnt even look clean, whats all that about "

its about him being immature and stupid, nothing to do with you so dont let it bother you

of course it is upsetting and you are entitled to get upset but if you are going to play on cam from now on you need to develop a strategy to deal with morons like this

My personal strategy is to answer all questions factually eg

when was your last shower - this morning about 7:30 before i went to work

how much have you eaten today - some plum tomatoes, mini cheddars, a chicken and bacon wrap, a drifeter bar and just about to cook my dinner

are you still a virgin? - nope, are you?

i find they get bored of this much more quickly than if you go back at them calling them names

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By *rs and mr sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

Boldon


".......Ah the brave key board warriors in the chat room. ..... this guy resorts to name calling and abuse. It is his way of getting noticed out of all the people in the room competing for your attention. It worked, it upset you, but you noticed him. .........

Keep your chin up and take no heed"

Pussy is so right. I've been abused several times on cam and yes, it hurts, a lot. I have cried over the insults. I'm a curvy woman and proud of it - so should you be. For every shit who insults there are so many more who watch and compliment - I have used the comments of the nice ones to learn that in every walk of life there are bad apples but also some prize winning fruits (lol). I have made a lot of friends in chat and if I see anyone being insulting, I copy the comment, click on the shit's name and report with where when and what was said. I do this whether the insult is at me or not. If everybody does it then admin ban whether a mod is in the room or not. If you remember his name then block him and let him move on in his sad little life. Eventually he will be caught and get booted. Hugs ((((((funandflirty)))))) From Meg xxx

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By *aulnh2Man
over a year ago

belfast


".......Ah the brave key board warriors in the chat room. ..... this guy resorts to name calling and abuse. It is his way of getting noticed out of all the people in the room competing for your attention. It worked, it upset you, but you noticed him. .........

Keep your chin up and take no heed

Pussy is so right. I've been abused several times on cam and yes, it hurts, a lot. I have cried over the insults. I'm a curvy woman and proud of it - so should you be. For every shit who insults there are so many more who watch and compliment - I have used the comments of the nice ones to learn that in every walk of life there are bad apples but also some prize winning fruits (lol). I have made a lot of friends in chat and if I see anyone being insulting, I copy the comment, click on the shit's name and report with where when and what was said. I do this whether the insult is at me or not. If everybody does it then admin ban whether a mod is in the room or not. If you remember his name then block him and let him move on in his sad little life. Eventually he will be caught and get booted. Hugs ((((((funandflirty)))))) From Meg xxx"

I have seen this a couple of times on here now, and they usually get booted. For me its a horrible reminder of my schooldays, so big hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they are 'usually' sad men, that have faces that look like a box of frogs passing through a Kenwood blender, their genitalia is often found covered in sores due to incessant masturbation over 1970,s porn because they are simply too ugly and mentally challenged to have a relationship with anything other than a ' me to bear' purchased themselves from Clinton cards!

Your not allowed to name and shame on forums unfortunately. Admin will dish out the obligatory ban, that makes everything alright, but block him because after 24 hrs he'll be back abusing someone else.

Chin up flower, carry on having fun and remember....there's always idiots about.....just ignore them x

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I have just been really abused on cam, i turned off and reported the guy straight away

Im very upset, why do people do that? "

cos they are small minded idiots who get there kicks that way...hope it doesnt put you off camming in future

((((((((((((((((huggs)))))))))))))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only just seen this! What a nasty little shit! I feel really angry about this

... do other people see this stuff when it happens? I don't know how the cam/chat rooms work.

People can be such arseholes

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"I've only just seen this! What a nasty little shit! I feel really angry about this

... do other people see this stuff when it happens? I don't know how the cam/chat rooms work.

People can be such arseholes "

Having had it done to me no fecker will get away with saying anything nasty, I'll report and on some occasions have been known to have a go back . I wont tolerate nasty comments if it is upsetting the person and I know a few others from chat who wont have it either.

Unfortunately just report the nasty attention seeker who obviously need to be grounded when his mummy gets in from work.

Dont let this no mark put you off enjoying yourself x

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By *edscpl33Couple
over a year ago

luton

sorry to hear that

it also happened to us b4 we dont go on cam anymore now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do thay do this because your not chating to them ? or is it your taking the center stage and away from other thay like ? Never know why people have to do this .

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

The funny thign about bullies:

They think they have all the power as long as you don't respond or reciprocate.

But you call their bluff and throw it in their face - see how they like it. They almost always back down spitting their dummy out about how unfair it is.

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

Remember it taking loads of effort to cry and be upset but only one finger to show them the bird. If they do not see something they like they can turn it off. Remember smile and be happy

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I've only just seen this! What a nasty little shit! I feel really angry about this

... do other people see this stuff when it happens? I don't know how the cam/chat rooms work.

People can be such arseholes "

They do and generally the other chatters rip the abusive twunt a new arsehole, but that is only after tha damage has been done

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank u all for your words of wisdom and for cheering me up xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only just seen this! What a nasty little shit! I feel really angry about this

... do other people see this stuff when it happens? I don't know how the cam/chat rooms work.

People can be such arseholes

They do and generally the other chatters rip the abusive twunt a new arsehole, but that is only after tha damage has been done"

Yes this happens. Northern Room is not a clique but a room full of friendly people who all interact great with each other. Occasionally you will get someone in being abusive. What happens then is we all tell the person that it is not acceptable behaviour.

It amuses me that they can watch a person's cam and then make abusive remarks. Simple solution, if you don't like what you see you just switch it off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've only just seen this! What a nasty little shit! I feel really angry about this

... do other people see this stuff when it happens? I don't know how the cam/chat rooms work.

People can be such arseholes

yeah when he was saying bad things someone said to him, turn off and dont watch etc but yeah like u say, some just get off on being rude. I usually just go in a directing room, not tried the northern room, perhaps i should cos im from leeds originally lol xxx

They do and generally the other chatters rip the abusive twunt a new arsehole, but that is only after tha damage has been done

Yes this happens. Northern Room is not a clique but a room full of friendly people who all interact great with each other. Occasionally you will get someone in being abusive. What happens then is we all tell the person that it is not acceptable behaviour.

It amuses me that they can watch a person's cam and then make abusive remarks. Simple solution, if you don't like what you see you just switch it off."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that.

Chatrooms are such a free-for-all that some people forget their manners. Just block, report and ignore. People like that crave attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I daresay it was upsetting. The worst I got on another site where I have my face on show was from a man that wrote "it's official...this site has finally scraped the bottom of the barrel".

I'm human, didn't like it, and naively didn't expect a total stranger to be rude to me but anonymous jibes are par for the course.

I'm not saying accept it but it's pointless breaking down in tears and sobbing. You go on cam knowing you won't appeal to all and you'll get some crass comment.

You have to deal with insecurities and try and not let others spoil your enjoyment.

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow

The internet is open to all, good, bad and ugly minded.

Remember the good comments, you only need one or two and ignore, best you can, the rest.

Just Block 'em Danno

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So sorry 2 hear that. Some very strange freaky

Beeps on the site I'm afraid. Unfortunately impossible 2 them out. Hope u reported hun. Don't let this put u off

it has put me off, most of us girls are body concious and this had seriously made me cry loads, am i totally pathetic or what "

you really need to get thicker skinned and i swear i dont mean that nasty, lots of people only join this site to pass time when they are bored, ive seen it so many times in chat when guys have come in and started having a go at women on cam, if they do it to me i just ignor them they soon get bored and leave you alone when they dont get the reaction they want

Dont ever show they have upset you its what they are after x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have just been really abused on cam, i turned off and reported the guy straight away

Im very upset, why do people do that? "

You have no need to turn off your cam, block the abusive attention seeker ..... and that's all it is, someone trying to get your attention ... making themselves stand out in so the wrong way. report them to admin also.

If everyone in the chat room blocked all the abusive unsavory characters, chat would be so much better, and the blocked person would get bored and move on because he's not getting the reactions he wants. xxx

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