FabSwingers.com forum: Starting on here as a couple

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys

Hope can get some advice me and my current partner have been open and told her about me on here and luckily she loves the idea.

Any advice on how to start of on here as a couple and how it worked as part of your relationship

Many thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys

Hope can get some advice me and my current partner have been open and told her about me on here and luckily she loves the idea.

Any advice on how to start of on here as a couple and how it worked as part of your relationship

Many thanks "

Start with ground rules for what you guys will and won't do.

What are you both ok with and what your not ok with. I.e. playing separate or together, clubs or private.

Be completely and utterly open with each other.

Understand that there will be ups and downs. Good and bad times. Take time out of this when you can. Better to dip in and out of it than to ruin the relationship.

Trust honesty and respecting each others wishes as well as your veto lists is very important.

Then just enjoy it

Xoxo

Eski

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and it helps to treat it as. What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

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"Hi guys

Hope can get some advice me and my current partner have been open and told her about me on here and luckily she loves the idea.

Any advice on how to start of on here as a couple and how it worked as part of your relationship

Many thanks

Start with ground rules for what you guys will and won't do.

What are you both ok with and what your not ok with. I.e. playing separate or together, clubs or private.

Be completely and utterly open with each other.

Understand that there will be ups and downs. Good and bad times. Take time out of this when you can. Better to dip in and out of it than to ruin the relationship.

Trust honesty and respecting each others wishes as well as your veto lists is very important.

Then just enjoy it

Xoxo

Eski"

From talking to other couples in clubs, bear in mind that ground rules can get torn up in a hurry, often by the female half....

Having said that, we would always recommend clubs first simply because you can spend as much time as you want watching what goes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys

Hope can get some advice me and my current partner have been open and told her about me on here and luckily she loves the idea.

Any advice on how to start of on here as a couple and how it worked as part of your relationship

Many thanks

Start with ground rules for what you guys will and won't do.

What are you both ok with and what your not ok with. I.e. playing separate or together, clubs or private.

Be completely and utterly open with each other.

Understand that there will be ups and downs. Good and bad times. Take time out of this when you can. Better to dip in and out of it than to ruin the relationship.

Trust honesty and respecting each others wishes as well as your veto lists is very important.

Then just enjoy it

Xoxo

Eski

From talking to other couples in clubs, bear in mind that ground rules can get torn up in a hurry, often by the female half....

Having said that, we would always recommend clubs first simply because you can spend as much time as you want watching what goes on"

This exactly, clubs are win win for you as you can choose to be as playful as you like.

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