FabSwingers.com forum: Advice for a cuckold couple

By *ngel69Delight OP Couple
over a year ago

Horsham

We are looking for an experienced in cuckolding Dom Bull for regular meets.Fairly local an advantage and being able to accommodate would be an advantage, well endowed, single, non smoker and no facial hair. Age within our own give or take a few years and race not important.

Not sure if what we are seeking is ever going to become a reality? Or it’s just not realistic?

Having a specific kink in meeting single guys as in ie cuckolding has been a real challenge and made M feel bad about herself as in unattractive.

Is it us? We have met several guys for social meets over a few years all claiming to be experienced and looking for the same as ourselves but as yet the chemistry has not been there or we sensed they were fibbing or playing away from home and just wanted another notch on the bedpost and not a long term arrangement, also the guys never seemed to put that much effort into the meets...they are just want to fuck!

Maybe M is just too fussy!

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By *imandher84Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't think you can be "too fussy" i mean in each other you have found love and choosing carefully whom you invite into that i can understand. I nor the wife are into the cuckolding scene but i imagine it must be an emotional minefield.

In my honest opinion if it is making either if you feel unattractive then step back, perhaps go to clubs and socials and maybe reevaluate what you both desire. If nothing changes then you at least know to keep trying.

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By *ngel69Delight OP Couple
over a year ago

Horsham

Thanks for the advice and we do step back and just swing with couples and friends. We change the profile as in not looking for single guys as an option.

Your correct in if either of us is not feeling good it’s time to step back...after all it’s meant to be fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the advice and we do step back and just swing with couples and friends. We change the profile as in not looking for single guys as an option.

Your correct in if either of us is not feeling good it’s time to step back...after all it’s meant to be fun"

You have your standards and I'd stick to them, just be patient

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By *ngel69Delight OP Couple
over a year ago

Horsham

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By *imandher84Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Thinking about this and i imagine this could be a bloody hard thing to find, but what about a cuckqueen couple? I know they are few and far between but being in an established couple they would presumably better understand your dynmic plus the cuckolds could provide emotional support out of the relationship/s?

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By *uckcpl4biCouple
over a year ago

somewhere around there

Best thing u can b is honest we both agree what we want n trust each other 100% 1 of hubby mate was the bull until he started being sneaky we really do get kick from guys humiliating hubby

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By *udistcpl1Couple
over a year ago

Wirral

We have been doing it for years. Please contact us if you would like to know about our experiences. We can't message you directly because of an age barrier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can never be too fussy. There are genuine guys out there, but there are far more who are not, you just have to wade through them a bit. Be really fussy when it comes to socials and trust your instincts I say, don’t let the fakes and dreamers put you off

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By *ngel69Delight OP Couple
over a year ago

Horsham

A dominant couple would definitely be a possibility as M is very bisexual and would add to the sexy mix

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By *ngel69Delight OP Couple
over a year ago

Horsham

thank you

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By *loudF7Man
over a year ago

South East

Having looked at your profile, M looks absolutely stunning, I can't imagine what man would make her feel bad about herself.

Hope your find the right person, good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are cuckold couple and Cher has been seeing a guy every week for over a year now and when it's right it is a fantastic situation

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By *ngel69Delight OP Couple
over a year ago

Horsham

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By *hunderstruckMan
over a year ago

Northampton

When you find the right man you will instantly know .

It may not be facial attraction .

But your man you choose will need to know the dynamics of the situation .

You might find a better male on a specific site geared up for this scenario.

There are too many time wasters on here .

Or people that think by acting Dom will be enough to satisfy you .

It’s much more than that

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK

Read your post with interest. I can understand why it is so hard. The issue it that even getting play partners on fab is not an easy task. And if you are looking for more than that - then it can get even harder still.

As someone who has swung for several years, I have played with some couples for an extended time - often organising diaries, commitments can be hard - and that is for regular MFM fun...

Given you are looking for that and more - the bull/hotwife kink - and then all three of you have to get on (as well as there being attraction etc)

I was once fortunate enough when i was younger (!) to be a married ladies boyfriend...It was great...we would go on dates, cinema, theatre, etc and she would stay over at mine before going back home. Her husband enjoyed that she played away and i was one of a couple of boyfriends.

I didnt realise how lucky I was -back then as I would love to have this again. Try as I might its been virtually impossible to get. MFM threesomes are about the sex - but if you want more than that - ie “date” a hotwife - then it becomes more - there complex - there has to be compatibility, attraction outwide the bedroom. The biggest hurdle is often just “life logistics “ - just being able to meet often becomes hard...when real life issues crop up as they always do

I can understand your frustration in looking for a bull who can regularly visit and play with you - but can also see the lack of success

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can fully see where your coming from as we have been on this same path , like you we are very careful with our choices in the type of guy that would suit us . We have made the odd error in judgment once or twice just because we were getting frustrated at not being able to find what we were looking for but they are out there . We had several great meets with the same guy who more than made up for the other frustrating moments on here ( sadly he’s not on here anymore) Stick to your guns in what you seek .

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We can relate! Female half is currently looking for a BBC and/or a couple to fuck in front of her Cuck, but finding THE right bull, and/or a couple that are happy to have an FMF with while the Unicorn’s hubby is present ain’t easy!

We are literally interviewing people; they all seem to have watched Dogfart porn and have a very stereotypical view on the role play dynamic!

Keep searching x

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By *ngel69Delight OP Couple
over a year ago

Horsham

Do you think watching pornography influences guys that much and makes them feel qualified in cuckolding? Could explain s lot!

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By *ngel69Delight OP Couple
over a year ago

Horsham

We also have found a few guys over the years who were right on the money so to speak and that’s not so much a physical attraction but the chemistry that makes the meets special.Sadly they have left the scene

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By *ngel69Delight OP Couple
over a year ago

Horsham

thank you for your insight and advice

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I definitely think porn is an influence in many blokes idea of how he should act. Also a bull’s tale of his escapades with a Dom/sissy dynamic will likely spread to his mates who then think they need to start acting all Alpha.

A good Bull should have a high EQ and be able to listen to a couple, not just the woman, to understand what BOTH want, then be able to deliver at a forthcoming meet.

As a Cuck who is also a switch, I’m getting seriously tempted to start offering Bull services myself as it’s clear I understand the role more than most on here claiming to be experienced Doms lol

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By *hunderstruckMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"I definitely think porn is an influence in many blokes idea of how he should act. Also a bull’s tale of his escapades with a Dom/sissy dynamic will likely spread to his mates who then think they need to start acting all Alpha.

A good Bull should have a high EQ and be able to listen to a couple, not just the woman, to understand what BOTH want, then be able to deliver at a forthcoming meet.

As a Cuck who is also a switch, I’m getting seriously tempted to start offering Bull services myself as it’s clear I understand the role more than most on here claiming to be experienced Doms lol"

I don’t think you can be taught to Dom

You can copy and mimic some thing you watch or see .

But it’s in your mindset your psyche.

The words you use, way you say them

Even the way you approach somebody with a

Manner in which you feel superior or hand a hold over them

You are that way inclined or you’re not.

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Whilst I do agree you can’t be taught to be Dom; is imitation acceptable for a role-play led session?

There’s a fine line between someone being or acting Dom, and just being a bit of an arsehole!

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By *ngel69Delight OP Couple
over a year ago

Horsham

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By *hunderstruckMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"Whilst I do agree you can’t be taught to be Dom; is imitation acceptable for a role-play led session?

There’s a fine line between someone being or acting Dom, and just being a bit of an arsehole!"

Imitation is probably acceptable to most people.

But a woman once told me she met someone who talked the talk and was a let down when they got together and it ruined it for her .

He acted alpha but really just wanted to fuck her .

Maybe for a real cuckold relationship you may have to find a sure that’s more suited for that fetish /lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best thing u can b is honest we both agree what we want n trust each other 100% 1 of hubby mate was the bull until he started being sneaky we really do get kick from guys humiliating hubby "

Juicy.. what do you mean sneaky ? X

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By *ngel69Delight OP Couple
over a year ago

Horsham

Not much local enthusiasm it has to be said !

Maybe we were correct in our original feelings.

We have tried a couple of specific sites but to be honest they were a lot worse than here for time wasting

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Personally I'd stick to advice from other cuckold couples and wives from cuckold couples,so many guys THINK they understand cuckolding yet in reality really don't get it.

Finding that right Bull who fully understands the scene won't be easy but if and when you do it's so worth it.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"Not much local enthusiasm it has to be said !

Maybe we were correct in our original feelings.

We have tried a couple of specific sites but to be honest they were a lot worse than here for time wasting "

I find that strange. We've had no difficult finding hot dominant men on here.

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over a year ago

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By *ngel69Delight OP Couple
over a year ago

Horsham

Maybe we are correct _inkylondonpair - it’s either us or just demographics

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