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"I'm Bbw and we're looking at maybe going to a club.For the very first time and yes I'm little nervous. I'm aware that a lot of clubs have dress down time. Is this the see thru tiny night or little robe, basque. Don't want to wear the wrong thing. Xx" I wear a size 20/22 and normally I wear a babydoll/chrome type thing with stockings, but people wear all sorts. Most important thing is that you wear something you feel sexy in. Which club are you going to? Different clubs have different rules re dressing down. Simply Be is brilliant for club outfits, they have lots of great stuff from different brands. I really like Ann Summers stuff, great fit on me. | |||
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"First, BBWs are common in swinging clubs and the great news is that curvy girls get a lot of attention. Second, yes, you can’t go wrong with a basque, sites like LoveHoney do reasonably priced ones in larger sizes. Have fun! " Thanks, that's good to know I think I got it in my head I'll be odd one out 
I'll have a look on love honey get myself something sexy and comfortable.
I hope to av fun xx
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"I'm Bbw and we're looking at maybe going to a club.For the very first time and yes I'm little nervous. I'm aware that a lot of clubs have dress down time. Is this the see thru tiny night or little robe, basque. Don't want to wear the wrong thing. Xx I wear a size 20/22 and normally I wear a babydoll/chrome type thing with stockings, but people wear all sorts. Most important thing is that you wear something you feel sexy in. Which club are you going to? Different clubs have different rules re dressing down. Simply Be is brilliant for club outfits, they have lots of great stuff from different brands. I really like Ann Summers stuff, great fit on me. " We're thinking No3 in Chorley not to far from us, someone said I should check with them what's expected. I never thought of simply be I'll have a look. Thank you. Yea I'll be size 20. Xx | |||
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"Hi, I tend to wear a Basque/underwear with a pink silky robe. " I like the little silky robe idea, maybe for first couple of times till I gain confidence. Thanks xx | |||
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"Wear whatever you feel sexy in! "Seems to be the way to go, feel sexy looks sexy xx | |||
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"Another vote for baby dolls or suspender chemises from Ann Summers. Just remember to sort out your pants, suspender, stocking solution for quick access! Some of the more structured underwear makes it hard to wear your pants over the suspenders. I generally go with the no pants look.." Thanks, I can just imagine a tangled mess with no access, lol Wouldn't be good. Xx | |||
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"I think the most import thing is wear what you feel comfortable in Being a larger lady and a little self conscious around new people I tend to wear a short robe over what I’m wearing " I am actually so happy to hear a litte robe. I do think I will be a stress head first couple of visits. Thank you xx | |||
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"The first time is always very nervous but after a few visits i am sure you will find your feet and confidence, if not fake it till you make it people love confidence at a club " Thank you, faking it till I make it will be the way to go, I'm dreadful in normal first time occasions for being nervous so add skimpy clothes and I'll be a mess haha, only good thing it will make me extra sensitive xx | |||
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"Curvaceous beauties do some really nice things too. Go for it! Flaunt your curves. I've got curves on my curves but I've still been seen walking through the bar at Cupid's with my boobs out "Go girl, I've never heard of Curvaceous beauties I'll have a look. Hopefully I'll get to the stage of having my boobs out and loving it. Thank you xx | |||
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"That should have said chemise, not chrome!" Ahh the hazards of auto correct? I suffer from it constantly... As do others from what I see in the stories here? | |||
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"I'm sure you will look lovely what ever you decide to were. " Thank you | |||
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"I’m a 22 & I tend to go with a baby doll - comfortable, easy to get in & out of & sexy! The main thing is that you’re comfortable & confident in what you wear - nothing worse than feeling uncomfortable or having confidence issues, because it affects your whole night! I’ve seen girls in clubs go from butt naked through to practically a full burlesque outfit, which must have taken hours to get into (& out of!) And if you’re conscious about being the only bigger lady, don’t be! There are plenty of us about! Or you could start off with a BBW night to break in gently?’ x"Thank you,. I may do, be easier BBW first time I won't stick out or think I will. I no I'll be one of many, it's just that first time Burlesque gorgeous but yes I can't imagine getting into it and out. I think a baby doll will be top of my list xx | |||
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"1st of March in our public pics is what the wife likes to wear, sorry I’ve no idea what’s it’s called lol. " Oh I like that, very nice and she looks amazing. Thanks x | |||
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"We recently attended our first club, and like you Mrs E was really nervous about what to wear being a bigger girl. She wore the red and black outfit you can see on our profile and looked absolutely stunning. We had a great time, everyone was really friendly and the nerves soon disappeared. " Love it she looks amazing, thank you happy u had a great time. Really good to hear x | |||
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"Wear whatever your comfortable in. I wear a basque. " Comfort is the important one x | |||
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"We recently attended our first club, and like you Mrs E was really nervous about what to wear being a bigger girl. She wore the red and black outfit you can see on our profile and looked absolutely stunning. We had a great time, everyone was really friendly and the nerves soon disappeared. Love it she looks amazing, thank you happy u had a great time. Really good to hear x" Thank you. We went to Flaunt at Club SX which is a curvy girl night. Sure what ever you decide to wear you will look great. X | |||
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"Wear whatever your comfortable in. I wear a basque. Comfort is the important one x" I’ve found that crouch less knickers look good but are not very practical for playing in. I also love a body stocking. | |||
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"I’m a 22 & I tend to go with a baby doll - comfortable, easy to get in & out of & sexy! The main thing is that you’re comfortable & confident in what you wear - nothing worse than feeling uncomfortable or having confidence issues, because it affects your whole night! I’ve seen girls in clubs go from butt naked through to practically a full burlesque outfit, which must have taken hours to get into (& out of!) And if you’re conscious about being the only bigger lady, don’t be! There are plenty of us about! Or you could start off with a BBW night to break in gently?’ x
Thank you,. I may do, be easier BBW first time I won't stick out or think I will. I no I'll be one of many, it's just that first time
Burlesque gorgeous but yes I can't imagine getting into it and out.
I think a baby doll will be top of my list xx"There are some great club events designed for the curvier ladies in the NW clubs Flaunt, mentioned above, is Club SX in Blackpool hosted by Buxom Bunny & Hanky Panky. Cupid’s have Curvy Thursday which is run by Mischief Managed, and there is Buxom Babes at Townhouse, hosted by yours truly!
I’d suggest checking out the club websites & go with the one that sounds like it fits you best. The right club & the right event are as important as each other! | |||
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"I mostly go to a club in Blackpool and I go completely naked just a towel to sit and I am not only one " But as you’re not a woman, I’m not sure the OP will find that particularly useful | |||
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"I mostly go to a club in Blackpool and I go completely naked just a towel to sit and I am not only one But as you’re not a woman, I’m not sure the OP will find that particularly useful " | |||
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"I'm Bbw and we're looking at maybe going to a club.For the very first time and yes I'm little nervous. I'm aware that a lot of clubs have dress down time. Is this the see thru tiny night or little robe, basque. Don't want to wear the wrong thing. Xx I wear a size 20/22 and normally I wear a babydoll/chrome type thing with stockings, but people wear all sorts. Most important thing is that you wear something you feel sexy in. Which club are you going to? Different clubs have different rules re dressing down. Simply Be is brilliant for club outfits, they have lots of great stuff from different brands. I really like Ann Summers stuff, great fit on me. We're thinking No3 in Chorley not to far from us, someone said I should check with them what's expected. I never thought of simply be I'll have a look. Thank you. Yea I'll be size 20. Xx " I went to No3 for my first club visit and I’m a curvy girl. Made to feel so welcome and put to ease straight away | |||
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