FabSwingers.com forum: How to raise the subject?

By *atrickJane OP Man
over a year ago

blackburn

Not in a relationship at the moment but it has crossed my mind how would I bring up the subject if I got in one? I'd like to see you with other guys for someone not on the scene would sound weird I think

So was wondering how other couples have brought this up? Would you pretend that you would be embarking on this journey together or let it be known that you have done the swinging scene? X

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

If I found myself in a relationship, I'd be honest about it from the start. I'd have to be, I have too many friends I see on a regular basis that are swingers.

I've tried explaining swinging before to someone I was dating. He understood the swinging, but assumed I'd give it up once we became exclusive. But he just couldn't wrap his head around me being bi-sexual.

Whilst I may give up the sexual side of swinging for the right person, I'll never be able to give up being bi-sexual. That's a part of me. And he couldn't accept that.

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By *weet DevilMan
over a year ago

dukinfield

Whilst I may give up the sexual side of swinging for the right person, I'll never be able to give up being bi-sexual. That's a part of me. And he couldn't accept that.

no probs hun ill except it lol xxxx

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

i think you would have to be honest,and it might be reassuring for them that you have some experience if they fancied it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm also single, and speaking for myself, if I met someone and wanted to see them more I would tell them I am on this sort of site.... then we could have double the fun... if he was a stick in the mud and was shocked, then he's not for me anyway.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Should i god forbid not be with kev i would probably only date swingers...saving the conversation...i have always been non monogamous, well since 18 and i am too old to change now

How would you bring it up...well i cant imagine being in a relationship that wasnt very sexual, including the sharing of experiences...so why bot just mention it and see what the reaction is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (N) was a swinger before we got together, I told A before we even became a couple

I find we have a better sex life because of the lifestyle we chose to live.

*Her*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not in a relationship at the moment but it has crossed my mind how would I bring up the subject if I got in one? I'd like to see you with other guys for someone not on the scene would sound weird I think

So was wondering how other couples have brought this up? Would you pretend that you would be embarking on this journey together or let it be known that you have done the swinging scene? X"

If your not in a relationship at the moment but would like to get into a swingng relationship i would have thought it would be better to look for a women already on the scene, i know not everyone whos single on here is looking for a relationship but there are some out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being honest right from the start. When I first got with Charlotte I told her about my past and what I had done. I asked her if it was something that interested her and she said no straight away. This was only because she hadn't thought about it before. I didn't mention it again, it was Charlotte who wanted to talk about it more and more.

So just be honest and don't push it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant usually find out if they got it in them by talking about things you done before and sexy fantasies, they usually say couples or 3some if its something they curious about or tried before in my expierence

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