FabSwingers.com forum: Profile advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, I’d really welcome some advice on the text and photos on my profile, thanks. It’s attracting a lot of attention from supposedly straight guys, but nothing from any ladies! I uploaded a bunch of photos earlier and I think I’m going to make the naughtier ones private.

Thanks. You all seem very nice on here.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, I’d really welcome some advice on the text and photos on my profile, thanks. It’s attracting a lot of attention from supposedly straight guys, but nothing from any ladies! I uploaded a bunch of photos earlier and I think I’m going to make the naughtier ones private.

Thanks. You all seem very nice on here."

Pictures are okay, although too many penis pictures in a row. Change it up a bit.

Here comes the blunt part.

The ratio of men to women on here is unbelievable, so you have to be lucky I'm afraid. For me, its whit banter and anything other than the bog standard "free to meet" "you okay" that gets me attention.

Comment about something on their profile to prove you've read it and show an interest without coming across as creepy Haha.

Thats all the advice I can give, although there are plenty of other threads to give you advice.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback missnibbles, I’m under no illusion that guys outnumber girls 1000/1 here, so it’s more a case of when a lady actually takes time to check me out have I put something in my text that’s really off putting or have I struck the wrong tone? I’m definitely going to make most of the pics friends only!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"the fact your married will put a lot off.."

Yeah, that’s a given.