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By *robinson OP   Man
over a year ago

Alton

Hey fabbers what do you find works really well as an intro message? it's so hard to make them stand out and unique.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Address something that is on the profile of the person you're messaging. Be specific rather than just say 'I like your profile'.

Be polite, avoid text speak, keep the messages short and sweet. And please don't ever just say 'how are you?'.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We understand that sending an individual message that stands out every time is quite difficult. For us an introduction and an invitation to look at the profile to see if there's compatibility is fine.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I always read the sender's profile first before I look at the message. If I don't see anything that captures my interest I don't bother reading the message regardless of what they've written.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always read the sender's profile first before I look at the message. If I don't see anything that captures my interest I don't bother reading the message regardless of what they've written."

Me too .. Exactly this ..A picture of a fanny and the message saying fancy a Fook doesn't really do it for me .. I can see how the couples and single females on here get frustrated.. Yes it does happen to single males too you know .. lol x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Friendly, unassuming, non-pushy, with a sense that you have read the profile. Light and something to whet the appetite. Information about you and your interests is good. Pics really help, as long as not tons of cock pics.

Assume that I want to like you and will find you attractive but don't appear big headed or a prick. It may be fine to be topical and let your message reveal something of your character by me reading between the lines too.

Short messages are a deterrent for me as they hint you may invest as little in your efforts to satisfy me sexually. Most really short messages get nowhere - experiment but try for more than 2 short sentences as a minimum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always read the sender's profile first before I look at the message. If I don't see anything that captures my interest I don't bother reading the message regardless of what they've written."

Definitely!!

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Maybe tell them you’ve been watching them for a few months now And thought the time was right. To introduce yourself. Especially as the windows are getting dirty and blocking your view of them.

Thinking this is a winner

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Ops I’ve killed the thread SORRY

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Hey fabbers what do you find works really well as an intro message? it's so hard to make them stand out and unique."

For us, a face pic is a must for a reply, but you have made your feelings clear on that elsewhere.

Other than that, there is no magic formula, all you can do is show a little personality, and have a little hope.

Good luck

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"Hey fabbers what do you find works really well as an intro message? it's so hard to make them stand out and unique.

For us, a face pic is a must for a reply, but you have made your feelings clear on that elsewhere.

Other than that, there is no magic formula, all you can do is show a little personality, and have a little hope.

Good luck "

Very good advise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try to keep any initial messages brief, polite & friendly - mention what appeals to you about the recipients profile & what you might have in common. Beyond that, it's a question of timing & luck!

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

The messages we tend to reply to are usually friendly (non-cut 'n' paste) ideally with a face pic.

Effort with a bit of humour also goes a long way with us.

If you have verifications, even better.

Templated, one liners, with penis photos etc usually do not grab our interest.

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