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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi fellow swingers

am trying to arrange meets nut without much luck, can u give me some much meeded advice or am i just barking up the wrong tree. Pls help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try revamping your profile, it tells us nothing about anything.

In fact your forum post contains almost the same amount of characters as your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah, i know ur right just find it dificult talkin about myself :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look a tother profiles and give yourself some ideas. I'm not suggesting that you copy others' profiles word for word, but look at what they then relate it to youself.

You'll be suprised how much you can actually talk about yourself once you get started

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou your helo is very much needed and aporeciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah definatly do up for profile and give some more info on yourself, your intrests, anything you'd love to try e.t.c

you should have no problem getting meets with more info and maybe a few more pics, xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but your status put me off, I didnt get any further! If your that negative on your profile I dread to think what you would be like to meet.

Don't want to offend and thats only my view ofcourse.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try putting up the same topic in different sections of the forums, it normally gets the female forumites and the lurkers dropping their panties for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take the advice of everyone here. Messages to us from people who say nothing about themselves in their profiles just get deleted.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Realise you've been a member over a year, so you're not suffering from new member lack of fun... but I do agree with the other posters upon getting more of an expanded profile.

No-one will view someone adding good detail to their page as being conceited, self-absorbed etc (unless that's what they convey by what's said)Lack of detail is the most common complaint against many profiles on here, so you're faced with a choice: either give more people what they want or not. If you know anyone on here, maybe get their ideas on what they'd suggest to include about you too.

Talk about your swinging experience, what you've enjoyed, like more of, and what sort of people you like. More physical description may help too.

Consider meeting socially, as you may widen your circle of contacts this way, and people will get a feel for how approachable you are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah sorry about my title. I wouldnt normally put anything likevthat up but had a really bad chat with a member on here earlier. Will take it down.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have niw updated profile a bit. Any better? Much appreciatted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is indeed a vitue. One i seem to be lacking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't linger on your profile sorry, as there's no information. If you can't sell you...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What kind of information?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What kind of information?"

means interests likes dislikes

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By *BW38jWoman
over a year ago

Dudley/Telford

i take it you did your profile up. shame you werent in chams last night i would have tried to seduce you lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hehe no harm in trying now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's better

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks. Diwn to the helo of some v nice people. Ie u guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try putting up the same topic in different sections of the forums, it normally gets the female forumites and the lurkers dropping their panties for you "

Naughty lady!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol i thought the same

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