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Can’t travel or accommodate

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By *hilandHolly OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newark

How do people go about meeting if they can’t accommodate or travel?? We’ve come across a few that say this?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I only attend clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *onnie1961Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

There lots of people say that on there page lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wonder this. Maybe they stand at their window and wave at you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my own experience it means I only meet local people who can accommodate.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I only meet at clubs, that's why I have it on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use local transport...if you put you can travel people think you can go all over the place.....been here yrs and have meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs

Public transport

Lifts

Walking

Going to someone who can accommodate

Hotels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a someone like that, and the reason that is that she cannot drive plus she cannot accommodate but I can accommodate so I can pick her up and we have fun at my place, so that’s may be why, but also some maybe just timewasters who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos it confuses fuck outta people

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By *urvy Girl 79Woman
over a year ago

Near Bourne

I have this on my profile. I only meet local guys that can accommodate themselves. When I say I dont travel I'm meaning I dont travel far. I like to stick to my local town.

My free time is limited so I dont waste time travelling. And I dont have men in my house as my children are there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel meets all the way! Stay in one every week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my own experience it means I only meet local people who can accommodate. "

That's what I assumed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have this on my profile. I only meet local guys that can accommodate themselves. When I say I dont travel I'm meaning I dont travel far. I like to stick to my local town.

My free time is limited so I dont waste time travelling. And I dont have men in my house as my children are there.

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Same here I don't like being far from home incase something goes wrong, either at home or with me xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put it to fuck with the easily confused

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

I have it on my profile because I will not invite a stranger into my home or travel anywhere far for a stranger. Once we have met and established a connection, how and where we meet would be between us.

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By *d59michelleTV/TS
over a year ago

walsall


"I put it to fuck with the easily confused "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people go about meeting if they can’t accommodate or travel?? We’ve come across a few that say this? "

You pick em up and fuck em in the car

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder more how people can't figure out that it means local only. It's not literal 

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder more how people can't figure out that it means local only. It's not literal  "

Or club meets of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people go about meeting if they can’t accommodate or travel?? We’ve come across a few that say this?

You pick em up and fuck em in the car"

Oh shit, I got that wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people go about meeting if they can’t accommodate or travel?? We’ve come across a few that say this? "

It means they only have local meets and not at their home. Generally, the person does not have a car and travel is assumed to be longer distances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always wonder this. Maybe they stand at their window and wave at you."

Fuck that's funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always wonder this. Maybe they stand at their window and wave at you."

I'm this really tickled me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people go about meeting if they can’t accommodate or travel?? We’ve come across a few that say this?

It means they only have local meets and not at their home. Generally, the person does not have a car and travel is assumed to be longer distances. "

Are you absolutely sure about that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people go about meeting if they can’t accommodate or travel?? We’ve come across a few that say this?

It means they only have local meets and not at their home. Generally, the person does not have a car and travel is assumed to be longer distances.

Are you absolutely sure about that?"

Or only meet at local clubs.

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By *d59michelleTV/TS
over a year ago

walsall

Some of us are totally unavailable due to circumstances but on here to keep up with what's going on out there in the real world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people go about meeting if they can’t accommodate or travel?? We’ve come across a few that say this?

It means they only have local meets and not at their home. Generally, the person does not have a car and travel is assumed to be longer distances.

Are you absolutely sure about that?

Or only meet at local clubs."

Or not

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Maybe we should have a distance field, that could indicate the likely distance of interest, however we are going to meet. And more options for where we meet, eg clubs, hotels, socials only, open to discussion, not meeting etc

Many people don't use cars, so walk, cycle, bus, train etc, so having the travel option only, seems to be being misinterpreted by some as distance being no object, if you've seen a cock pic or ten.

When I was in Australia, several people messaged asking for a meet within a few hours, in the UK. If we ever have more profile settings options, we could save the disappointment of the clueless and thoughtless, as well as keep inboxes quieter.

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

If you don't drive and have children you can be very limited. But not totally. I did this same thing initially. It also helped out a few of the less appealing folk and it didn't stop me having fun. Accommodate is vague. I dont want folk in my home during certain times.but there is no inbetween options to choose

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters


"I always wonder this. Maybe they stand at their window and wave at you."

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"I only attend clubs"

Ah you mean they actually live in said clubs so they don't need to go anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surly that's classed as travel, how else do you get to the club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have this but in my blurb do add that I don't accommodate except for people I know well and won't travel unless the other person will too as I'm sick to death of people who won't accommodate for the same reasons (teenager at home) as I can't expecting to come to mine (no respect) and everyone expects me to travel but not them!! I get at that I live at the end of the world but if I can do 70/100 miles then so can they! (Whats brilliant is I don't have a car but have no problems getting anywhere!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always wonder this. Maybe they stand at their window and wave at you."

Lol that's made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always wonder this. Maybe they stand at their window and wave at you."

Hahaha love that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They meet in their local pub and do a bit of fingering under the table.

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay


"They meet in their local pub and do a bit of fingering under the table."

Or a quiet spot in the local woods

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Problem is the the choice is far too narrow with only travel and/or accommodate. It's far too black and white and as we all well know the swinger world is full of grey areas.

We are strictly clubs only and we say we can travel (meaning to clubs) but we have had messages asking for a meet who then get all uppity when we point that out. Saying something like "why do you say you can travel then?"

It's the same as Bi or Bi curious. Again the choice is far too narrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have this and to me it means I will only go to clubs, no private meets at all. I've managed to keep it that way for 7 years being on and off this website throughout.

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