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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, on line trying to get a meet when a mail pops up asking ‘is that you Kev?’ Didn’t play it so well and without saying yes I pretty much confirmed. I asked who it was but they said they weren’t bothered, just curious if it was me. Of course they haven’t owned up and are now off line.

Now my photos show my kinks, so really not sure what to do.

Any one had similar, any one have any advice please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block them and forget about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocking is the best option

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"So, on line trying to get a meet when a mail pops up asking ‘is that you Kev?’ Didn’t play it so well and without saying yes I pretty much confirmed. I asked who it was but they said they weren’t bothered, just curious if it was me. Of course they haven’t owned up and are now off line.

Now my photos show my kinks, so really not sure what to do.

Any one had similar, any one have any advice please?"

Change your name by deed poll, move house, change jobs and smash up your PC hard drive

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"Change your name by deed poll, move house, change jobs and smash up your PC hard drive"

Errrr.....why? For what reason?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Change your name by deed poll, move house, change jobs and smash up your PC hard drive

Errrr.....why? For what reason? "

Think he was being sarastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooops one of your froends or family have recognised u ??

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Argh bet that shit you up a bit?! Haha try not to worry about it. They’re on here too right? At least you’re embracing your sexual preference. Many many on here live a lie so they’re obviously unhappy. Live your best life pal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, on line trying to get a meet when a mail pops up asking ‘is that you Kev?’ Didn’t play it so well and without saying yes I pretty much confirmed. I asked who it was but they said they weren’t bothered, just curious if it was me. Of course they haven’t owned up and are now off line.

Now my photos show my kinks, so really not sure what to do.

Any one had similar, any one have any advice please?"

Personally wouldn't sweat it. You're grown man and not doing anything illegal.

If you're uncomfortable them knowing who you are - block them so they wouldn't have access to your profile. Having said so there are ways around it for them to still see your profile if they really wanted to.

On the other hand how can they out anything without outing themselves if that's what you're worried about.

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

How on earth did they recognise you from your photos?

I wouldn't worry too much. I think if anyone recognises someone they should either keep quiet or if they feel they have to let you know say who they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just laugh when people ask if it's me to catch me out. My whole family and most of my friends know any way. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Says much about them as it does about you.. both on here for your own reasons. If they say anything.. can a) deny it.. all have a lookalike somewhere or b) say oh yes it was me ive seen you on here for ages now. Are you having much fun etcc....

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"Change your name by deed poll, move house, change jobs and smash up your PC hard drive

Errrr.....why? For what reason?

Think he was being sarastic "

Oh, OK I understand. Thks for putting me right.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I would love somebody to recognize me from on here....!!!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I was discovered on the other site just for guys, the colleague has told a couple of people he thinks the TGirl is me. I only found out when one lad who I get on with told me about the rumour.

I find it quite amusing, as my job requires a certain amount of discretion and confidentiality so if anyone actually confronts me or spreads the rumour, they could be up on a disciplinary

My advice don’t admit to anything or deny it either, just leave them guessing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice and support.

There was one torso picture which had some of my chin showing, think that was picture that gave it away, moved to private now.

And yes you’re right, he is on here as well and to be honest the only people who are likely to recognise me are married with kids, so there is some comfort in that as well.

Did sh@t me up a bit though!

Again thanks for the words.

K

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your profile: name, photo's and maybe 'adjust' your adge. Plus block that person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened during these recent school holidays for me. It was a dad that does the school runs. School is back open today and I'm gonna strut in like I own the place lol. Don't fret x

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"So, on line trying to get a meet when a mail pops up asking ‘is that you Kev?’ Didn’t play it so well and without saying yes I pretty much confirmed. I asked who it was but they said they weren’t bothered, just curious if it was me. Of course they haven’t owned up and are now off line.

Now my photos show my kinks, so really not sure what to do.

Any one had similar, any one have any advice please?"

I wouldn’t worry about it mate; they’re here for the same reasons you are

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I would block and forget about it x

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