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Lack of sex drive on Depo

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By *inkyCouple1927 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Since going on depo, the Mrs’ sex drive has taken a nose dive. Prior to the injection she had a good healthy drive but nowadays it’s only sparked when actually having sex.

Anybody else had this problem and how did you overcome it?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If it is sparked by having sex why don't you just keep having sex ?

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

Yes i did...a mirina coil fixed the sex drive for me

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By *inkyCouple1927 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Yes i did...a mirina coil fixed the sex drive for me "

She tried the coil and had a bad experience with it - sickness immediately after it being fitted so bad we went back same day to have it removed

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

It is so uncomfortable to have a coil fitted I am amazed she didn't keep it in a bit longer to see if she felt better the next day.

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By *inkyCouple1927 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"It is so uncomfortable to have a coil fitted I am amazed she didn't keep it in a bit longer to see if she felt better the next day. "

Think it turned out that it wasn’t fitted properly, but that was enough to put her off the coil for good unfortunately

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Been on depo for 10 years, no affect on libido.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

It affected me and my sisters in exactly the same way. Libido returned almost as soon as the 3 months were up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Literally every girl I know has experienced that.

No idea what the root cause is but.. yeah, thats a known one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on the depo for about 2 years now and not noticed any changes. It's the best form of contraception I've ever taken - straightforward, no tablets to remember, won't fall out like my coil did.... But I guess any of these hormonal contraception affect us all in different ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interested to read about the Mirena. I’m on it and my libido is sky high. It wasn’t when I was on it and married tho’. Didn’t have sex for ten years then.

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By *inkyCouple1927 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Thanks for all of the comments everyone, just don’t know what to do from here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all of the comments everyone, just don’t know what to do from here "

If depo isnt working and she doesnt want the coil how about the implant?

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By *inkyCouple1927 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Thanks for all of the comments everyone, just don’t know what to do from here

If depo isnt working and she doesnt want the coil how about the implant? "

Had that before, constant bleeding. Looks like she’s out of options tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on the injection for years with no side effects... was fantastic for me!

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Why isn't there an injection for guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all of the comments everyone, just don’t know what to do from here

If depo isnt working and she doesnt want the coil how about the implant?

Had that before, constant bleeding. Looks like she’s out of options tbh"

Any reason for not wanting the pill. They do single hormone pills now so you dont get the side effects

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a common side effect. Go back to family planning and ask their advice. She may be better with a combined pill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it is sparked by having sex why don't you just keep having sex ?"

Lol , sound the obvious answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why doesn’t hubby have the snip, sounds like wife has been through enough!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nuvaring?

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By *inkyCouple1927 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Nuvaring?"

?

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"It is so uncomfortable to have a coil fitted I am amazed she didn't keep it in a bit longer to see if she felt better the next day.

Think it turned out that it wasn’t fitted properly, but that was enough to put her off the coil for good unfortunately "

Which coil was it? I know a few people who had a rough time with the copper coil, but rare with the mirena. The mirena coil will hurt the first time for a couple of days, but then you get 5 years of not giving it a second thought.

I think getting advice from family planning is a good idea though - and as mentioned above, maybe a snip for mr would be the easier option?!

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