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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Musing again Fabsteroos,

How do men keep hard when applying a condom? It’s such an issue when wanting to get on with the passion.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Your partner continuing to stimulate you while you get the thing out and prepared is one way - although most men will stay hard for the brief period it takes to put one on anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is the crucial moment. Usually I've just spent a long time going down on the lady I'm with and although I love it, if you're focusing on orally pleasuring a woman for a fair while you tend to lose your erection while you do it (in my experience anyway). So I usually ask the lady to return the favour and when I'm hard again I prepare the condom while she's still going down on me so that it should be a matter of seconds between her stopping and me putting it on.

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By *parklesueTV/TS
over a year ago

Middleton

A girl that I know puts it on the guys with her mouth xxx

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By *parklesueTV/TS
over a year ago

Middleton

A girl that I know puts it on the guys with her mouth xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most I’ve been with have put it on with there mouth whilst rubbing my balls, it’s not about staying hard it’s about not spunking

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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"That is the crucial moment. Usually I've just spent a long time going down on the lady I'm with and although I love it, if you're focusing on orally pleasuring a woman for a fair while you tend to lose your erection while you do it (in my experience anyway). So I usually ask the lady to return the favour and when I'm hard again I prepare the condom while she's still going down on me so that it should be a matter of seconds between her stopping and me putting it on. "

Tried that, it doesn’t seem to work.....more advice please Fabsteroos.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't wait until the point of no return to put it on. Put it on earlier and continue your foreplay. He'll have time to accustom to the sensation and get fully hard again.

Also, make sure you're using the right size. Too small will limit circulation of blood and cause him to soften.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"A girl that I know puts it on the guys with her mouth xxx"

I can normally put it on when I am performing cunnilingus If the lady is laying over the side of the bed and Im kneeling on the floor, but most of the time It's just being quick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be the man OP, if a man loses his hard-on when putting a condom on, it can play on his mind and make it more difficult the next time. The guy can then be anxious, the next time.

Supportive partner and making the condom part of play.

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By *ewtoyouXXXMan
over a year ago

rochdale cowboy


"Could be the man OP, if a man loses his hard-on when putting a condom on, it can play on his mind and make it more difficult the next time. The guy can then be anxious, the next time.

Supportive partner and making the condom part of play. "
good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take me 2 seconds to apply the condom. Is this really an issue for some people?

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"That is the crucial moment. Usually I've just spent a long time going down on the lady I'm with and although I love it, if you're focusing on orally pleasuring a woman for a fair while you tend to lose your erection while you do it (in my experience anyway). So I usually ask the lady to return the favour and when I'm hard again I prepare the condom while she's still going down on me so that it should be a matter of seconds between her stopping and me putting it on.

Tried that, it doesn’t seem to work.....more advice please Fabsteroos..... "
have wanks with condoms on. You have to normalize the feeling in your head. It's what we used to recommend to guys having these issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take me 2 seconds to apply the condom. Is this really an issue for some people?"

Clearly it is or the question wouldn't be asked.

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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Take me 2 seconds to apply the condom. Is this really an issue for some people?"

Yes it is really an issue for ‘some people’.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" have wanks with condoms on. You have to normalize the feeling in your head. It's what we used to recommend to guys having these issues. "

I struggle with condoms and keeping a hard-on so I'll have fun giving this 'remedy' a go Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take me 2 seconds to apply the condom. Is this really an issue for some people?

Clearly it is or the question wouldn't be asked. "

The question was asked by a woman - not a man

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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Take me 2 seconds to apply the condom. Is this really an issue for some people?

Clearly it is or the question wouldn't be asked.

The question was asked by a woman - not a man"

Yes it’s an issue and yes I’m a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Integrate putting on a condom as part of the play rather than stop, open packet, roll on etc.

If the lady helps with hands, kissing, continuing with the foreplay, I've never had an issue.

In my opinion, and it is only my opinion, if you go soft when you are putting on a condom during that brief pause in play, would you also go soft if you change positions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met several men with this issue. It does make me wonder how many women say ‘Oh let’s go bare then’ given the frequency with which I encounter it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Practice practice practice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm rubbish at putting them on. They always end up the wrong way & then get binned.

Skyns seem harder to get on, which is a shame because I bought a groupon deal for 72 of the feckers

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By *ewtoyouXXXMan
over a year ago

rochdale cowboy


"I'm rubbish at putting them on. They always end up the wrong way & then get binned.

Skyns seem harder to get on, which is a shame because I bought a groupon deal for 72 of the feckers "

Well if anyone needs any practice I’m happy to be a live model for ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I to suffer from this issue, cock ring is the answer for me, keeps me hard and can last that little bit longer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take me 2 seconds to apply the condom. Is this really an issue for some people?

Clearly it is or the question wouldn't be asked.

The question was asked by a woman - not a man

Yes it’s an issue and yes I’m a woman. "

Seems the solution then is for men to practice putting them on - and to make sure they're nearby (e.g. on a bedside table)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember to have them handy. Disappearing downstairs with a stonker is not clever planning. Also, if I have forgotten to take off the cling wrapper beforehand I am bound to go limp struggling to unwrap the damn thing !!!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"That is the crucial moment. Usually I've just spent a long time going down on the lady I'm with and although I love it, if you're focusing on orally pleasuring a woman for a fair while you tend to lose your erection while you do it (in my experience anyway). So I usually ask the lady to return the favour and when I'm hard again I prepare the condom while she's still going down on me so that it should be a matter of seconds between her stopping and me putting it on.

Tried that, it doesn’t seem to work.....more advice please Fabsteroos..... have wanks with condoms on. You have to normalize the feeling in your head. It's what we used to recommend to guys having these issues. "

Brilliant idea xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm rubbish at putting them on. They always end up the wrong way & then get binned.

Skyns seem harder to get on, which is a shame because I bought a groupon deal for 72 of the feckers "

I’m a big fan of Skins with an ‘i’ for this reason. Also their extra large is very generously sized. I feel very sorry for big cocks looking like bank robbers when they’re squished into tiny condoms.

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By *ewtoyouXXXMan
over a year ago

rochdale cowboy


"I'm rubbish at putting them on. They always end up the wrong way & then get binned.

Skyns seem harder to get on, which is a shame because I bought a groupon deal for 72 of the feckers

I’m a big fan of Skins with an ‘i’ for this reason. Also their extra large is very generously sized. I feel very sorry for big cocks looking like bank robbers when they’re squished into tiny condoms."

Skins are necessary specially if your swapping partners but I’ve never had a problem slipping one on and keeping my hard on isn’t a problem either

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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I'm rubbish at putting them on. They always end up the wrong way & then get binned.

Skyns seem harder to get on, which is a shame because I bought a groupon deal for 72 of the feckers

I’m a big fan of Skins with an ‘i’ for this reason. Also their extra large is very generously sized. I feel very sorry for big cocks looking like bank robbers when they’re squished into tiny condoms.

Skins are necessary specially if your swapping partners but I’ve never had a problem slipping one on and keeping my hard on isn’t a problem either "

Ha ha where have you been hiding?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If it's not just one guy, it's several, then I think it may be something to discuss. Certainly while it's being put on, you need to make it less of an interruption and more part of the action. Potentially you can still be very close to penetration and have it put on - just ensure there's no chance of genital to genital contact etc.

If speed of getting it on is an issue, then practicing it should get it faster. This is easier if you have repeat meet partners.

Always have the condoms and/or lube in the most convenient place too. The less clinical an undertaking it is, the better - transition it to part of the sexual foreplay between you.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"That is the crucial moment. Usually I've just spent a long time going down on the lady I'm with and although I love it, if you're focusing on orally pleasuring a woman for a fair while you tend to lose your erection while you do it (in my experience anyway). So I usually ask the lady to return the favour and when I'm hard again I prepare the condom while she's still going down on me so that it should be a matter of seconds between her stopping and me putting it on.

Tried that, it doesn’t seem to work.....more advice please Fabsteroos..... "

Try placing a cock ring on after tumescence is achieved then go for it with condom placement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to put them on my partners. I know they have been put on properly too then as the amount of guys that don't pinch the tip surprises me.

But also I take it out the packet. I suck him to keep him hard then when ready apply the condom - not with my mouth as can't make sure it's on properly that way. If it's fiddly go next size up

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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Thank you for the advice guys.

It’s definitely an issue with some guys though and very disappointing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feels amazing when a lady puts a condom on me, rolling it down. Love it. Just incorporate it into what she is already doing with his thingy..... no time or reason to lose erection, in fact it should make it harder

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By *juk72Man
over a year ago

Reading


"Take me 2 seconds to apply the condom. Is this really an issue for some people?"

I was thinking much the same, how long is it taking some people?

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

Learn to associate condoms with sex so that getting one out of the packet is a turn on its a mind focucs thing

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

it literaly takes seconds so how is it possible to lose interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm rubbish at putting them on. They always end up the wrong way & then get binned.

Skyns seem harder to get on, which is a shame because I bought a groupon deal for 72 of the feckers

I’m a big fan of Skins with an ‘i’ for this reason. Also their extra large is very generously sized. I feel very sorry for big cocks looking like bank robbers when they’re squished into tiny condoms."
Pmfsl bank robbers I’m now dying,thank you xx

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Some like myself may simply be out of practise. I don't use them for 99% of sex as that is with my wife and not every swinging session is full swap.

I usually find if you have been pleasuring a woman with your fingers this is the biggest problem.

Seriously wet fingers and a condom packet can cause a minor delay. Ive not had a problem staying hard but if there has been an issue its mainly just getting the packet open.

I'm sure some sod in the manufacturering process has a good giggle as they press the make it extra hard to open button for the next 1000 condoms.

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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Some like myself may simply be out of practise. I don't use them for 99% of sex as that is with my wife and not every swinging session is full swap.

I usually find if you have been pleasuring a woman with your fingers this is the biggest problem.

Seriously wet fingers and a condom packet can cause a minor delay. Ive not had a problem staying hard but if there has been an issue its mainly just getting the packet open.

I'm sure some sod in the manufacturering process has a good giggle as they press the make it extra hard to open button for the next 1000 condoms. "

Good point but it’s more about the breaking off and applying it! Men have said ‘god these are too small’ ‘god these are fiddly’!

It’s a massive problem, scuse the pun and the lady is left very unsatisfied! Then men think ‘oh I’ll finger her as substitution’ which is not ideal!

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"That is the crucial moment. Usually I've just spent a long time going down on the lady I'm with and although I love it, if you're focusing on orally pleasuring a woman for a fair while you tend to lose your erection while you do it (in my experience anyway). So I usually ask the lady to return the favour and when I'm hard again I prepare the condom while she's still going down on me so that it should be a matter of seconds between her stopping and me putting it on.

Tried that, it doesn’t seem to work.....more advice please Fabsteroos..... "

Practice me thinks. ??. I’ll be your stand in for proper and repeated applications. Mmmmm

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

.


"it literaly takes seconds so how is it possible to lose interest"

Unless they are reading the instructions

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I am sold on skins. Best so far and feels better than all others.......

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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I am sold on skins. Best so far and feels better than all others....... "

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By *everFullyDressedCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Practice practice practice "

This!

Not an issue for us but we know it can be for some. The use of a cock ring also helps!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Learn to associate condoms with sex so that getting one out of the packet is a turn on its a mind focus thing"

Exactly this!

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I put my man's on with my mouth....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand this if I'm really turned on then there's no way I'm going soft while sorting out condom, it's like 30 seconds max. G.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

I never had to use condoms as I've been in several ltr for the past few years. The times where I've had to use them regularly I was in my 20s and it was never an issue. Since joining fab I have been reintroduced to the joys of condoms. Firstly it kinda kills the mood and secondly it doesn't feel the same at all having gotten use to fucking without. Its just a case of practice and maintaining some kind of stimulation such as kissing for me. Personally its more psychological as it seems like an obstacle nowadays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True, it can be an issue and totally agree with the opinion that it mainly goes wrong in the man's head, previous bad experiences, over thinking and stressing about staying hard... The partner can always help and if putting a condom on is part of the play it makes all easy for everyone...

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

If ya know what ya doing it can be done in seconds. ..lol

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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"If ya know what ya doing it can be done in seconds. ..lol "

Training courses needed lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a problem with condoms for a while now. It was never a problem when younger but I got into a steady relationship fairly young which lasted a few years and since then I've had the problem of loosing my erection when putting 1 on. I have sometimes recovered from it but not always and it can ruin the fun

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By *bwmasterukMan
over a year ago

derby

Never had a problem tend to slip it on easy with the right size no issues. Normally do it while giving her oral

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

Do try and have one unwrapped if possible, as they are little blighters if you have sticky fingers..and gents, do get some practice in beforehand if you're worried!

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"If ya know what ya doing it can be done in seconds. ..lol

Training courses needed lol. "

In the Leeds area, you can train on me... Willing stiff member.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem i used to have was staying hard after putting the condom on then i discovered skyns large. Turns out durex aren't as accommodating as they claim and now they're the ultimate cock block for me

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"The problem i used to have was staying hard after putting the condom on then i discovered skyns large. Turns out durex aren't as accommodating as they claim and now they're the ultimate cock block for me "

Size/fit will be the most common problem, and men should look up ‘UK condom sizing’, then use the toilet roll method of cock measuring to work out the best fit for them. Using condoms comfortable for you, makes all the difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ittleKinksCouple
over a year ago

Reading

Is this really an issue. I get hard open a condom and roll it over my cock then slide inside a sexy lady lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learn how to put it on quickly. Takes two seconds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A girl that I know puts it on the guys with her mouth xxx"
yea that's the best way as you stay hard xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find, if they look at my face as they're doing it, and can see how much I want them, they have no trouble staying hard.

If someone did find they soften as they reached for the condom, there's a few things we can do to help, including putting it on for them as they play with my pussy.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"Musing again Fabsteroos,

How do men keep hard when applying a condom? It’s such an issue when wanting to get on with the passion.

"
Having a woman put a condom on me i find it horny

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By *utdooryoneMan
over a year ago

Over there

Practice makes speedy...

Eye contact throughout, no matter who is applying condom, helps.

I've often used the moment to speak about what we are going to do / how she would like it / what I plan on doing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most I’ve been with have put it on with there mouth whilst rubbing my balls, it’s not about staying hard it’s about not spunking "

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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"If ya know what ya doing it can be done in seconds. ..lol

Training courses needed lol.

In the Leeds area, you can train on me... Willing stiff member."

6th Sunday in the month LOL.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can slip one on in quick time .. Especially when you are going from one lady to another and you need to change the one you have on .. It doesn't go down

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By *ambornemanMan
over a year ago

In your town now

What's a condom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A girl that I know puts it on the guys with her mouth xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I thought it would be a problem Id have one unwrapped ready and waiting. I don't really get that it would be that disturbing to proceedings though, you stop at various time to unbutton shirts or remove knickers, or meaningful pauses to look at each other

It sounds a good idea for men to train themselves that condoms mean sex though. Have the little blighters standing to attention in bedrooms the country over then at the first wrinkle of a packet.

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

Easy take me 5 sec open it put on the tip n then just roll it if hard easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Musing again Fabsteroos,

How do men keep hard when applying a condom? It’s such an issue when wanting to get on with the passion.

"

You don't stay hard. This is why it's such an effective form of contraception.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you were to use a cock ring first then that'll work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this on Saturday night a condom wrapper that had to be waterproof to 200ft and couldn't have got it open with a can opener. After minutes of biting chewing and tearing the darned thing was dogeared, tattered but still unopened. There were bits of condom wrapper everwhere like confetti. I lost the will to live and went back to giving oral.

Please durex. I ask you with tears in my eyes. I know you don't want them falling out but there has to be something between flimsy and a bloody panzer tank! There's something definitely unsmooth and unsexy about needing a stick of dynamite to get your raincoat on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had this on Saturday night a condom wrapper that had to be waterproof to 200ft and couldn't have got it open with a can opener. After minutes of biting chewing and tearing the darned thing was dogeared, tattered but still unopened. There were bits of condom wrapper everwhere like confetti. I lost the will to live and went back to giving oral.

Please durex. I ask you with tears in my eyes. I know you don't want them falling out but there has to be something between flimsy and a bloody panzer tank! There's something definitely unsmooth and unsexy about needing a stick of dynamite to get your raincoat on."

They need a little flappy up bit on them like microwave dinners have or youghurts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't understand the problem, surely you are that turned on, which coupled with the anticipation should keep you hard more than long enough to put a condom on.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Take me 2 seconds to apply the condom. Is this really an issue for some people?

Clearly it is or the question wouldn't be asked.

The question was asked by a woman - not a man"

Yes it was, and she asked for advice, hints, tips etc. She didn't at any point ask for someone to express disbelief that the problem could exist in the first place.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I'm rubbish at putting them on. They always end up the wrong way & then get binned.

Skyns seem harder to get on, which is a shame because I bought a groupon deal for 72 of the feckers

I’m a big fan of Skins with an ‘i’ for this reason. Also their extra large is very generously sized. I feel very sorry for big cocks looking like bank robbers when they’re squished into tiny condoms."

Drew a wee face on one once, was hilarious and did look like a wee squishy bank robber.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Passion killers... But a necessary evil

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Don't understand the problem, surely you are that turned on, which coupled with the anticipation should keep you hard more than long enough to put a condom on. "

Another member of the "it isn't a problem for me so why is it a problem for you" brigade

Everybody is different y'all.

Having room in your head for that will improve the world.

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By *alifaxsiMan
over a year ago

Halifax


"Musing again Fabsteroos,

How do men keep hard when applying a condom? It’s such an issue when wanting to get on with the passion.

"

Everyone's different, I don't have the issue of going soft but the most erotic way to put one on involves kissing from mouth down to cock, lots of eye contact and the lady applying it ..

Do have a slight issue in that I can find it hard to cum while wearing one so sex can last a while!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was with my ex, we had threesomes with another guy, she used to get me to put it on him so they wouldn't have to stop what they were doing amd he stayed rock hard lol.

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By *ornyhornytwoCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

Depends on mood. Struggled a fair few times to cum with condom and the worst is when your in a club room and decide on full swap and all your condoms are still in the locker... By the time that's done it's killed the moment haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to put them on my partners. I know they have been put on properly too then as the amount of guys that don't pinch the tip surprises me.

But also I take it out the packet. I suck him to keep him hard then when ready apply the condom - not with my mouth as can't make sure it's on properly that way. If it's fiddly go next size up "

I agree, prefer the woman put it on me and make it part of the buildup

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By *eddy and legsCouple
over a year ago

the wetlands

I guess I must be lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't understand the problem, surely you are that turned on, which coupled with the anticipation should keep you hard more than long enough to put a condom on. "

For me it's simple. I don't like to have sex until I have pleasured a lady with my tongue and fingers. My fingers are usually pretty slippery by then.... tearing a condom wrapper open with slippery fingers is like trying to play darts with a bar of wet soap. Wipng your hands on her dress first and hasn't gone down well in my personal experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fwb has it out the packet and on before he has his trousers off a man that doesn't make a big deal about them and gets on with it is a massive turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fwb has it out the packet and on before he has his trousers off a man that doesn't make a big deal about them and gets on with it is a massive turn on "

I've often considered doing that but I'm worried it's a bit presumptuous to assume.

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By *ngelfireWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I like to put it on myself with my mouth, or lick his balls while he does it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Musing again Fabsteroos,

How do men keep hard when applying a condom? It’s such an issue when wanting to get on with the passion.

"

Just look into those eyes and imagine those lips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never had an issue going soft in the seconds it takes to put a condom on

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By *ustalittleKinkWoman
over a year ago

in the shadows


"A girl that I know puts it on the guys with her mouth xxx"

All good and well saying that but the taste is disgusting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fwb has it out the packet and on before he has his trousers off a man that doesn't make a big deal about them and gets on with it is a massive turn on

I've often considered doing that but I'm worried it's a bit presumptuous to assume. "

He knows I am up for it whenever he wants... As long as he is when I am too, so not a massive problem for us. The point being, he just puts it on without thinking about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fwb has it out the packet and on before he has his trousers off a man that doesn't make a big deal about them and gets on with it is a massive turn on

I've often considered doing that but I'm worried it's a bit presumptuous to assume.

He knows I am up for it whenever he wants... As long as he is when I am too, so not a massive problem for us. The point being, he just puts it on without thinking about it "

It's hard not to think about it when you've just spent two minutes wrestling it out of it's wrapper. If it's your fwb it's one thing, if it's someone you just met whipping a condom out of it's wrapper at the wrong time may be something of a faux pas ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fwb has it out the packet and on before he has his trousers off a man that doesn't make a big deal about them and gets on with it is a massive turn on

I've often considered doing that but I'm worried it's a bit presumptuous to assume.

He knows I am up for it whenever he wants... As long as he is when I am too, so not a massive problem for us. The point being, he just puts it on without thinking about it

It's hard not to think about it when you've just spent two minutes wrestling it out of it's wrapper. If it's your fwb it's one thing, if it's someone you just met whipping a condom out of it's wrapper at the wrong time may be something of a faux pas ..."

Well if you know you are likely to be having sex at any second... Not really... If you are still talking in the pub... Ya know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn’t agree more about using the correct size. Trial and error for

Me but skins large are sooo comfortable and yet so thin there is very little loss of sensation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fwb has it out the packet and on before he has his trousers off a man that doesn't make a big deal about them and gets on with it is a massive turn on

I've often considered doing that but I'm worried it's a bit presumptuous to assume.

He knows I am up for it whenever he wants... As long as he is when I am too, so not a massive problem for us. The point being, he just puts it on without thinking about it

It's hard not to think about it when you've just spent two minutes wrestling it out of it's wrapper. If it's your fwb it's one thing, if it's someone you just met whipping a condom out of it's wrapper at the wrong time may be something of a faux pas ...

Well if you know you are likely to be having sex at any second... Not really... If you are still talking in the pub... Ya know "

Hi. I'm John. You look nice.... hang on I'm just getting my condom out of the wrapper so I don't fumble about with it later when we have frantic sex?

No?

Ok no worries I keep a zip seal bag to store it in for when I get rejected....

Yeah I'm not picturing it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fwb has it out the packet and on before he has his trousers off a man that doesn't make a big deal about them and gets on with it is a massive turn on

I've often considered doing that but I'm worried it's a bit presumptuous to assume.

He knows I am up for it whenever he wants... As long as he is when I am too, so not a massive problem for us. The point being, he just puts it on without thinking about it

It's hard not to think about it when you've just spent two minutes wrestling it out of it's wrapper. If it's your fwb it's one thing, if it's someone you just met whipping a condom out of it's wrapper at the wrong time may be something of a faux pas ...

Well if you know you are likely to be having sex at any second... Not really... If you are still talking in the pub... Ya know

Hi. I'm John. You look nice.... hang on I'm just getting my condom out of the wrapper so I don't fumble about with it later when we have frantic sex?

No?

Ok no worries I keep a zip seal bag to store it in for when I get rejected....

Yeah I'm not picturing it..."

Exactly... Always safer to wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this really an issue. I get hard open a condom and roll it over my cock then slide inside a sexy lady lol x"

Putting one isnt a problem for most its getting the right size. If its to tight its uncomfortable and can be painful. If i use durex i get a very light bruised ring mark around my dick where the ring of the condom sits but woth skyns no problems at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always help, learn to roll it down it with your lips. Works a treat just make sure you pinch the end and put it on the tip first so no air gets trapped and no contacts made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK so I'm new here, there are different sizes?

I thought the role down thing covered everything except the XL ones.

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