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By *am62 OP Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

I have been asked to go on a cruise next year with family, they said I could choose, so I chose Alaska, I've never been in an plane, or on a ship. I really want to go, but it scares me to death. I am the type that dosent venture out much, I suppose I'm stuck in a rutt really, after being a carer 24 hours a day, but sadly that chapter has gone. How do I start my life again at my age. Advice please. Its scary.

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By *am62 OP Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

So isn't anyone else scared of flying or going on a ship lol

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

No but I know someone who went on an Alaska cruise and was chased by a big brown bear and was very nearly caught by it.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing you have lost someone. I am really sorry, if that is the case x

It's really hard to start again.... I'm younger than you, but had spent all my adult life with the same person.

Fab is a good start, meet people and socialise. Get a part time job, charity work to get you out and about. Gives you a purpose, which is what I'm guessing you have lost. You must have a lot of skills dealing with people who are in need, maybe use them to help others. Don't underestimate yourself

Enjoy the cruise and mingle!

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By *am62 OP Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

It's very hard, yes I lost my mum, wonderful lady the best. It's so hard trying to start again, I feel so old.

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By *am62 OP Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

"I'm guessing you have lost someone. I am really sorry, if that is the case x

It's really hard to start again.... I'm younger than you, but had spent all my adult life with the same person.

Enjoy the cruise and mingle!"
.. Thankyou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm guessing you have lost someone. I am really sorry, if that is the case x

It's really hard to start again.... I'm younger than you, but had spent all my adult life with the same person.

Enjoy the cruise and mingle!.. Thankyou x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try not to think of it in a negative way , think of it as an adventure . I'm sure once you're visiting all the beautiful places you will become more confident to relax and enjoy it . I'm sure your mum would be proud going on such an adventure xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No but I know someone who went on an Alaska cruise and was chased by a big brown bear and was very nearly caught by it.....

And I would have caught you too if the bear costume hadn't slowed me down....

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By *oolsGoldxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I have been asked to go on a cruise next year with family, they said I could choose, so I chose Alaska, I've never been in an plane, or on a ship. I really want to go, but it scares me to death. I am the type that dosent venture out much, I suppose I'm stuck in a rutt really, after being a carer 24 hours a day, but sadly that chapter has gone. How do I start my life again at my age. Advice please. Its scary. "

You are not starting again, just un pausing

holidays are brilliant - an adventure, enjoy every moment.. sounds like u have earned it.

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs

It's all about small steps

Some days you'll take two forwards and two back, but some days you'll take one forward and no back.

The past is the past and you camt change it - what you do have is control over what you do next.

Alaska is an amazing place- the rewards of experiencing it will be incredible.

Be bold.

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By *am62 OP Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

Thankyou all, I shall have to try and be positive x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We fly and cruise a lot believe me there is nothing to be afraid of cruise ships these days are so big you won’t notice you are not on land

Hope this helps xxx

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

You are going with family, I am sure they will take care of you...... Enjoy....!!

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By *xpatadventurerMan
over a year ago

Work Abroad / London

Dear Pam

You sound as though you are grieving ....Know that feeling too well.

Being a carer is not easy as you give everything you have emotionally and get little in return.

Trust me Alaska is beautiful ...Planes and boats are easy ..A trek to get there but is stunning and if you have the opportunity then just do it.

Any fear of travelling (planes and cruise ships) is easily overcome and there is a lot of content on You Tube about this.

To see and experience beautiful things is the ultimate tribute to those who are gone.

Enjoy life whilst you can x

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By *am62 OP Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Dear Pam

You sound as though you are grieving ....Know that feeling too well.

Being a carer is not easy as you give everything you have emotionally and get little in return.

Trust me Alaska is beautiful ...Planes and boats are easy ..A trek to get there but is stunning and if you have the opportunity then just do it.

Any fear of travelling (planes and cruise ships) is easily overcome and there is a lot of content on You Tube about this.

To see and experience beautiful things is the ultimate tribute to those who are gone.

Enjoy life whilst you can x.. Thankyou very kind words x

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