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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi I'm a new guy in the seen, I like to see my self as a polite guy, but having had an luck with messaging lol. I've been starting messages with " hey howz it goin?" Followed by something to suit the profile.

Any one able to give me advice?

Thanks in advance

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Be polite. Read profiles. Don't be generic. Give them something to go on and reply to and don't send dick pics unless asked.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

There is no magic formula. You should tailor your message to the person you are contacting, copy and paste messages are an instant turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good spelling, grammar and no txt spk helps too.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Don't open with 'hey how's it going' or anything along them lines, try and pick up on an interest on their profile, a bit of humour, something like that but always be polite and check the message before sending for spelling and grammar.

Hope this helps

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Fab birds lv txt spk innit

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Hi I'm a new guy in the seen, I like to see my self as a polite guy, but having had an luck with messaging lol. I've been starting messages with " hey howz it goin?" Followed by something to suit the profile.

Any one able to give me advice?

Thanks in advance "

‘hey, howz it goin?’.... some might consider you immature from that approach, the spelling and grammar is also poor and some people will ignore you because of that alone. Single women on here can afford to be very picky!

You stand more chance of a response if your initial message is personal and original so read the profiles beforehand.

Good luck!

Lou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to look at a profile before opening a message. ( a few do this so im informed)

Look at the photos and read the profile before i open it. if the message is worded nice and seems to have something that intrigues me then i might reply

"Copy and pasted messages"

"hi"

"wuu2"

wont get a reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers, alot of good advice . I will take head and see how I get on. Thanks all, much appreciated .

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